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To not get the Taylor swift hype?

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StopBeingASquare · 15/07/2023 13:31

I have my hard hat on.
Probably going to get my arse handed to me on a plate.

I really don't get all this fuss about Taylor swift, I just find her utterly boring. All this fuss about midnight / album / preorders / codes to then try and attempt to get tickets in Scotland when you live on the cliffs of lands end. Threads and threads about it and people planning their outfits when the gig is a year away, I thought gig attire was jeans and a tour T shirt?! From various YouTube videos I've seen of her singing live I have to say I wasn't impressed at all. Mediocre voice, dodging high notes. I'm obviously a minority here as there's people willing to sell a kidney to just get a code to be in with a chance of getting a ticket.

I saw Pink in Hyde park a few weeks ago where she was singing live, doing incredible acts, dancing, acrobats etc and it was incredible. I'm not trying to compare, but I just find Taylor so average!

Can anyone tell me why there's all of this hype. I'm fully aware my username is rather fitting.

(I'll get my coat..)

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RatatouilleAndFeta · 16/07/2023 07:24

XelaM · 15/07/2023 13:40

I so agree OP and so does my teenage daughter. She was actually a fan of Taylor Swift's when she was much younger and we went to a Taylor Swift concert years ago when she was in London. It was ok, but nothing Earth-shartering. Now she says "Taylor Swift is so dead" (in teenage speak of course 😂) and we don't get the hype at all.

We went to see The Weekend the other day instead and I found it so much more entertaining than the Taylor Swift concert a few years ago. 🤷‍♀️

Love the weekend

tabulahrasa · 16/07/2023 06:41

ShallowHallow · 16/07/2023 06:30

Yes. I can’t see baby boomers knowing her. I have known of her name but didn’t know any songs till my girl got into her. I am generation X.

I’m gen x and my DD likes her because I played her music and I know a friend of mine has liked her since her second album, and my sister is coming to see her with me and was planning to come to the covid cancelled show with me.

Obviously a very small sample size 🤣 but it’s definitely not just teenagers.

@ShallowHallow I’d get the money off them now, yes, if they swap later on for some reason they can sort it out amongst themselves.

LooseInTheCity · 16/07/2023 06:40

I find her music, image, persona extremely bland and dull. But everyone has different tastes.

YSoSirius · 16/07/2023 06:36

Me too OP.

I must be missing something. I feel the same way about Ed Sheeran and Adele too. Don't get me wrong they obviously have talent but I just find their music boring personally.

ShallowHallow · 16/07/2023 06:30

WomblingTree86 · 16/07/2023 01:02

The Forbes data is refer to US fans and perhaps their demographic is different considering that she was originally a country singer. In the UK I doubt many baby boomers have even heard of her. You only have to look at this thread to see that it is often people's teenage daughters that like Taylor Swift.

Yes. I can’t see baby boomers knowing her. I have known of her name but didn’t know any songs till my girl got into her. I am generation X.

ShallowHallow · 16/07/2023 06:28

CountFoscoHasMiceInHisPocket · 15/07/2023 23:38

I took two half days off work to get her tickets to two concerts. Surely that’s enough and my duty is done?!

That's above and beyond! I'm sure your teen appreciates you a lot. (and I'm assuming you used your cc too Grin)

Yes definitely my credit card. I am
a novice at all this. Wonder if I can ask her friends to pay me now or whether I need to wait till nearer the time. Her friends could change I guess?!

ShallowHallow · 16/07/2023 06:26

Feeling meh about her music doesn’t mean I dislike her as a person. I am sure she is lovely. And I like the way she has taken control over her songs. I am delighted that my daughter is delighted to get tickets.

I hope the concerts go well. Though I admit my maternal side worries about how she will have the stamina to do so many shows without getting exhausted and unwell!

WomblingTree86 · 16/07/2023 01:02

CandyLeBonBon · 16/07/2023 00:27

Not sure where Forbes got it's [sic] figures from but I am pretty sceptical that only 11% of her "avid fans" are generation z while 23% are baby boomers. You only have to look at her audience to see that is highly unlikely.

Ok. Well perhaps you can take that up with Forbes, and let them know their data is incorrect?

I have plenty of colleagues, mostly millennials and gen X who are beyond excited to get tickets, I also know plenty of GenZ who are are not that fussed about her. All anecdotal, of course, and just my personal experience.

Or perhaps just accept my original comment in the spirit it was written rather than assume my age, or ignore my ability to recognise that whilst I also don't understand the TS phenomenon, I'm glad others enjoy her music.

The Forbes data is refer to US fans and perhaps their demographic is different considering that she was originally a country singer. In the UK I doubt many baby boomers have even heard of her. You only have to look at this thread to see that it is often people's teenage daughters that like Taylor Swift.

AngeloMysterioso · 16/07/2023 00:56

tabulahrasa · 16/07/2023 00:50

So you’re saying you prefer to listen to some indie record that’s much cooler than hers?

😂 sorry, but like, the joke was right there....I couldn’t not do it.

Honestly I’m surprised it got to 300 posts before someone said it Grin

tabulahrasa · 16/07/2023 00:50

truelips · 15/07/2023 23:59

Honestly your not the only one.

I find her music ok but I'm not a fan and never will be one and I don't go out my way to listen to her music - she's too mainstream for my liking. Not enough charisma for me to want to travel and spend god knows how much on a concert to see her.

I personally think SM have hailed her as the queen of break up songs and taps into a market but yeah I don't find her interesting in the slightest. My two pennies.

So you’re saying you prefer to listen to some indie record that’s much cooler than hers?

😂 sorry, but like, the joke was right there....I couldn’t not do it.

OliveWah · 16/07/2023 00:43

My 16 year old DD is a "Swiftie" and has just managed to get tickets for the Cardiff show - she is ecstatic! I am definitely more of a Pink fan myself, but I do quite like some of TS's songs (which is lucky, as they are often being played at full volume around the house!)

I can only tell you from my POV what appears to appeal to my DD about Taylor Swift; her lyric writing abilities, the way she seems to be able to describe exactly how things feel emotionally and that resonates with teenagers. My DD says she finds her really relatable and accessible, like someone anyone could be friends with.

As for the hysteria around this tour in particular; the Eras show is around 4 hours long and TS sings 40 songs - that's a huge set list and a real treat for her fans to enjoy some old favourites, as well as her newer stuff. TS has designed a stage which extends out into the arena, and performs in different areas all the way along it, ensuring people in different part of the arena, even those really far back, have a chance at a decent view. All ticketholders are given a light up wristband as they enter the arena, which glow different colours at different times, creating a light show in the audience. There's lots of online communication among Swifities and this has led to loads of special outfits or lyric printed t-shirts that fans wear to her shows. There's also the friendship bracelets - different lyrics spelled out in brightly coloured beads (my DD has already started working on the 75 bracelets she wants to make, and the show isn't until June next year!) which you take to exchange with other Swifities at the concert. It sounds like a real production, I know it's something my DD will remember forever.

I think Taylor is (for some) the voice of their generation and that's why there's so much hype, it's not that different to the hysteria around The Beatles, except that the internet drives more communication and information about the stars and social media gives fans a platform to worship and discuss their favourites,

justlass · 16/07/2023 00:43

Also apparently in the US she has been putting in a three and a half to four hour show, no breaks, apart from costume changes. Her shows are spectacular too.

Oblomov23 · 16/07/2023 00:42

Nope. Don't get the hype.

justlass · 16/07/2023 00:35

Clarista · 15/07/2023 13:59

In relation to the hype about this particular tour, I’d say that’s because she wrote two of her most acclaimed albums on lockdown and gained a lot of fans during that time. She then subsequently released a massively well received album to all her new fans, then announced this tour, which on top of all the hype from those three albums is an ‘eras’ tour covering every album so far. That’s never happened before, hence the rush of old and new fans clamouring for tickets.

Just to add, on top of all that she's also been re-recording several of her albums, because her previous music company wouldn't sell the rights to her, but sold them to someone else if I recall correctly. She's extremely hard working, a good example for teenage girls, has spoken out about problems she had with eating habits and conforming to the standards women are supposed to conform to 🙄, she talks and sings about equality, rights for LGBTQ+, her songs are catchy .. yes I'm a massive fan and will be going to a gig next year with dd, but even if I wasn't I'd be able to recognise that she's a good person. However, we're surely all entitled to our own opinions and tastes.

NeverTalksToStrangers2 · 16/07/2023 00:32

@Itwasrare I'm assuming you're one of us with that username?

I don't think that she's had a LOT of surgery. I know people think she has had a boob job, and it's likely true, but as my own got much bigger in my 20s, there's a (slim) possibility she hasn't.

I think she has had a very successful nose job (it's a bit slimmer), but aside from that I don't think there's much else obvious. My point is that she looks natural and any work she has had done has only amplified her natural beauty, rather than trying to look like someone else. There's so many fake looking women now. Huge, inflated lips, fillers everywhere, far too much makeup. She keeps it simple.

CandyLeBonBon · 16/07/2023 00:27

Not sure where Forbes got it's [sic] figures from but I am pretty sceptical that only 11% of her "avid fans" are generation z while 23% are baby boomers. You only have to look at her audience to see that is highly unlikely.

Ok. Well perhaps you can take that up with Forbes, and let them know their data is incorrect?

I have plenty of colleagues, mostly millennials and gen X who are beyond excited to get tickets, I also know plenty of GenZ who are are not that fussed about her. All anecdotal, of course, and just my personal experience.

Or perhaps just accept my original comment in the spirit it was written rather than assume my age, or ignore my ability to recognise that whilst I also don't understand the TS phenomenon, I'm glad others enjoy her music.

AngeloMysterioso · 16/07/2023 00:24

tt9 · 15/07/2023 23:54

can NOT stand her 'music' if that's what we are calling it. others are welcome to love it/sell their organs to get tickets. she is a very pretty lady with a phenomenal PR team

It’s not ‘music’, it’s music.

Sneery comments like that are the reason this thread isn’t jolly like the Bruce Springsteen one was. People aren’t snobby and downright rude about him.

WomblingTree86 · 16/07/2023 00:07

CandyLeBonBon · 15/07/2023 22:13

If you are a middle aged women you are probably not the target audience though.

That's quite a bold statement, bearing mind she's 33 herself

"Some 45% of avid fans are millennials, people between the ages of 27 and 42, while 23% are baby boomers, 21% are Gen Xers and just 11% are members of Gen Z" (source: Forbes)

The fact that she is 33 doesn't mean her target audience are middle aged. Not sure where Forbes got it's figures from but I am pretty sceptical that only 11% of her "avid fans" are generation z while 23% are baby boomers. You only have to look at her audience to see that is highly unlikely.

truelips · 15/07/2023 23:59

Honestly your not the only one.

I find her music ok but I'm not a fan and never will be one and I don't go out my way to listen to her music - she's too mainstream for my liking. Not enough charisma for me to want to travel and spend god knows how much on a concert to see her.

I personally think SM have hailed her as the queen of break up songs and taps into a market but yeah I don't find her interesting in the slightest. My two pennies.

tt9 · 15/07/2023 23:54

can NOT stand her 'music' if that's what we are calling it. others are welcome to love it/sell their organs to get tickets. she is a very pretty lady with a phenomenal PR team

Teder · 15/07/2023 23:47

You’re entitled to like you who like. I think the pandemic and months of limited ability to go to gigs has fuelled the hype for artists like Taylor Swift. She isn’t the best singer but she puts on a good performance and some of her song writing is stunning.

I don’t get the hype of Harry Styles either but I’m not his target market. I can see why other people adore him though.

CountFoscoHasMiceInHisPocket · 15/07/2023 23:38

I took two half days off work to get her tickets to two concerts. Surely that’s enough and my duty is done?!

That's above and beyond! I'm sure your teen appreciates you a lot. (and I'm assuming you used your cc too Grin)

User10486743 · 15/07/2023 23:38

The whole thread is bizarre, it's not jolly like the recent Bruce Springsteen one was

tabulahrasa · 15/07/2023 23:28

ShallowHallow · 15/07/2023 23:12

‘But I have never seen anything like the defensiveness of Taylor Swift fans.’

It is certainly the case here!! They are taking it oh so personally.

Then again there are people like my teen. Who knows I have heard so many TS songs yet still find them average. She doesn’t mind. I took two half days off work to get her tickets to two concerts. Surely that’s enough and my duty is done?!

But for some fans, it’s unacceptable to call her music average. It’s quite odd.

I kind of suspect it’s the word average that people took umbrage to tbh.

I think? (Could be wrong obviously) that you’re meaning it in a, she’s not to my taste and I have no strong feelings about her music kind of average. But people are maybe reading it a different way.

in fairness, I think she doesn’t do it for me is an opinion and everyone has different opinions on what music they do or don’t like and it’s pretty pointless (and a bit odd really) trying to argue someone should have the same taste in music as you.

I’ll argue the point over something like whether she writes songs because whether someone likes them or not, she does.

Or whether she’s a bad dancer is a valid criticism because, she’s not a dancer, if I wanted to watch dancing I’d buy tickets for that... for the record, I’ve seen fall out boy and they didn’t dance at all, but that’s never something people criticise them for 🤣

ShallowHallow · 15/07/2023 23:12

Tessisme · 15/07/2023 23:03

Taylor's fans don't give a shit that others don't care about Taylor. We really don't. So save your breath, and your faux confusion and blatherings like 'how come she is sooo popular,?'

I would completely and utterly dispute this. I have read so many debates on here about different artists and whether they are truly talented . But I have never seen anything like the defensiveness of Taylor Swift fans. It is those fans who are accusing people of musical snobbery and of thinking themselves cool and edgy - just for not liking Taylor Swift. If you love a particular artist, just own it, without the massive chip on your shoulder.

Disclaimer: I have no opinion on her as I haven't listened to any of her music. That's not some sort of weird snobbery. It's just a fact. She could have wonderful depths. She could be a poet. She could be Seamus Heaney in a frock for all I know.

‘But I have never seen anything like the defensiveness of Taylor Swift fans.’

It is certainly the case here!! They are taking it oh so personally.

Then again there are people like my teen. Who knows I have heard so many TS songs yet still find them average. She doesn’t mind. I took two half days off work to get her tickets to two concerts. Surely that’s enough and my duty is done?!

But for some fans, it’s unacceptable to call her music average. It’s quite odd.

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