I'll admit that I get quite defensive of Taylor. Probably because I'm also gen x and 10 years older than her, but mostly because she has been criticised her entire career.
People not believing she writes the songs. Why? Is it because she's beautiful? Female? Blonde? Her age?
If she was male would anyone question it? Does anyone question Ed Sheeran?
Why did Damon Albarn (also from money) believe that Billie Eilish wrote her songs (when they are all co written with her brother), but that Taylor didn't because she (sometimes) uses other writers and producers?
And the criticism she got over her love life was ridiculous. I definitely kissed more frogs than she did in my teens-20s. I'll admit she has had terrible taste in men at times, but we've all been there too.
The comparison to Madonna only goes so far. Madonna didn't have much talent to speak of. Terrible vocalist. Her success was largely due to controversy. I was too young to appreciate her but my sisters did. Back then I just remember she was considered badly behaved.
Taylor might not be your cup of tea vocally but she is mine. I've never loved big voice singers. Celine Dion was the worst for me and Adele sounds like a foghorn. Arianna and Mariah do far too much warbling.
A big big part of the Taylor hype is her love of bridges. Every single song has a bridge that adds something extra. Some of the bridge lyrics are actual perfection.
Some that stand out (but there are 100s) are:
"She would've made such a lovely bride, what a shame she's fucked in the head", they said..
Living for the thrill of hitting you where it hurts.
Give me back my girlhood it was mine first
He looks up grinning like a devil
(This one is yelled and it's so good. It also sounds like "he looks so pretty like a devil", which also works).
Please don't be in love with someone else.
Please don't have somebody waiting on you.
Honestly, they are iconic when they come. She has such a gift.