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To not get the Taylor swift hype?

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StopBeingASquare · 15/07/2023 13:31

I have my hard hat on.
Probably going to get my arse handed to me on a plate.

I really don't get all this fuss about Taylor swift, I just find her utterly boring. All this fuss about midnight / album / preorders / codes to then try and attempt to get tickets in Scotland when you live on the cliffs of lands end. Threads and threads about it and people planning their outfits when the gig is a year away, I thought gig attire was jeans and a tour T shirt?! From various YouTube videos I've seen of her singing live I have to say I wasn't impressed at all. Mediocre voice, dodging high notes. I'm obviously a minority here as there's people willing to sell a kidney to just get a code to be in with a chance of getting a ticket.

I saw Pink in Hyde park a few weeks ago where she was singing live, doing incredible acts, dancing, acrobats etc and it was incredible. I'm not trying to compare, but I just find Taylor so average!

Can anyone tell me why there's all of this hype. I'm fully aware my username is rather fitting.

(I'll get my coat..)

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Hayfeverseasonalready · 15/07/2023 15:32

NeedleFeltedFox · 15/07/2023 15:00

Pink is all of those things as well - she plays piano during her sets, she dances, does aerial silks, writes her songs, sings…

I stand corrected!

I have just never liked her music but appreciate she must be talented.

StopBeingASquare · 15/07/2023 15:30

PinkyFlamingo · 15/07/2023 15:18

But why do you have to understand the hype? Surely music is like everything else in life, everyone likes different things?

Because I'm nosy and I want to?

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Blinky21 · 15/07/2023 15:30

I'm not a massive fan but looking forward to seeing her with my partner, who is a big fan. I don't care if you like her or not, why would I? But the hype is because millions of people do like her, it's not rocket science...! I would never want to Ed Sheeran but I don't question why others like him

SayHi · 15/07/2023 15:28

IfItAintBrokeBreakIt · 15/07/2023 15:07

@SayHi There is no recording about the bitch part. You’re wrong if you are saying there is.

My daughter is ND, no ‘stigma’ from me. I just know the bitch part wasn’t caught on a recording. According to Taylor she didn’t approve being called a bitch. The recording definitely didn’t include it.

Yes that’s how she spun it.

She initially said it was about the look alike and then she was caught on camera saying what a great idea it was after he asked her permission.

Then she changed it to it’s because she didn’t know he was going to say the word bitch - even though it’s caught on camera that he’s playing her the song and saying the exact words and she’s laughing saying something like omg that’s so funny because everyone says it’s you that made me famous and he said yes that’s why he wants her as part of the song.

Her image is about her being a good girl (even though some of her lyrics are shocking) and she was worried that this song would hurt that image and her brand.

StopBeingASquare · 15/07/2023 15:28

nokidshere · 15/07/2023 15:10

Of course. But I've never seen so much utter hysteria over a pop singer, which made me ask the question.

Ahh then you obviously weren't around for Donny Osmond, David Cassidy, Elvis, The Beatles and many others. I haven't been to 'a gig' for many years now but hysteria over pop stars is certainly not a new phenomenon.

No I wasn't around. I'm in my 20s.

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CountFoscoHasMiceInHisPocket · 15/07/2023 15:27

I’d rather my daughter want to go see someone like taylor though than Cardi B or something

I do find this element of the Taylor Swift fandom interesting. Her music is so mum and dad approved. Previously that would have been the kiss of death to a young artist.

Covetthee · 15/07/2023 15:24

I feel that way about Beyonce.

Really don’t get the fuss and everyone fawning at over ‘Queen B’🙄 people give her far too much credit.

if everyone liked the same artists it would be boring though.

I’d rather my daughter want to go see someone like taylor though than Cardi B or something

SayHi · 15/07/2023 15:24

tabulahrasa · 15/07/2023 15:06

It was edited, the full video shows that it wasn’t that she was responding to.

Kanye and kim edited it to make it look like she’d heard it.

It was very widely reported when the full video came out, in fairly surprised you’d know the first bit and not that tbh.

It’s crazy that you’ll believe her over actual evidence.

You can literally hear her speaking and discussing the song and the parts she likes and other things to do etc.

There was no editing and the full video shows that she’s a liar and it’s one of the many times she’s been called out being fake but people like you won’t hear of it.

SatelliteStomper · 15/07/2023 15:24

NashvilleQueen · 15/07/2023 14:33

@Jongleterre when I was growing up i hated everything mainstream. I thought Morrissey's disdain for popularism was the coolest thing ever. I didn't think you could like The Smiths and George Michael and so I made my choices. But as a middle aged woman (who still loves The Smiths) I see that Morrissey is an insufferable prick and that George Michael was not only incredibly talented but a kind and lovely human being. I kick myself for a sense of superiority over people who just liked something different.

Music snobbery is tiresome.

This absolutely nails it. In my 20s I was deep into the most obscure, alternative stuff I could find and I even used to write for one of the more pretentious music rags. I loathed 'pop' and held anything that I viewed as commercial or mainstream in complete disdain.

I was entirely wrong. I am now in my 50s and rediscovering the utterly life-affirming joy of good-quality pop music. I ADORE Harry Styles (hence username) and I am developing a taste for Taylor Swift. I think both of them are extremely talented and deserve the hype. Yes, there's still plenty of crap music out there to be dismissive of, but Taylor Swift ain't it.

And my 20-year-old Sonic Youth-obsessed ds also seriously rates Harry Styles (Taylor not so much tbh but hey ho).

CountFoscoHasMiceInHisPocket · 15/07/2023 15:24

PinkyFlamingo · 15/07/2023 15:18

But why do you have to understand the hype? Surely music is like everything else in life, everyone likes different things?

I think because social media has resulted in it being the hypiest hype that's ever hyped. Obviously there have always been mega popular bands and musicians that other people weren't into but the Swift thing being all over social media means it's almost impossible to fully filter it out. It feels a bit like watching people going through some kind of religious experience.

User135644 · 15/07/2023 15:21

Florenz · 15/07/2023 13:47

There really aren't that many great, iconic musicians around nowadays, so the likes of Beyonce and Taylor get treated like icons when they really shouldn't be.

Not many great bands around either. Glasto headliners this year were Guns n Roses (big success in the 80s) and Elton (big success in the 70s). Even the Arctics coming up to 20 years ago their heralded first album, where's all the new stuff that isn't drivel? Last year McCartney (Beatles in the 60s).

FadeAwayAndRadiate · 15/07/2023 15:19

PinkyFlamingo · 15/07/2023 15:18

But why do you have to understand the hype? Surely music is like everything else in life, everyone likes different things?

Exactly. Horrible goady thread with many spiteful comments about a successful talented young woman. The jealousy is rife on here. So unpleasant to see. I'm out. It's making me nauseous.

gigipom · 15/07/2023 15:18

Goodness I feel the same. I think her music is dreadful - so so boring.

PinkyFlamingo · 15/07/2023 15:18

But why do you have to understand the hype? Surely music is like everything else in life, everyone likes different things?

FadeAwayAndRadiate · 15/07/2023 15:17

DeeCee77 · 15/07/2023 15:07

So she sat at the piano like Freddie Mercury and came up with a song like he did with Bohemian Rhapsody?

Do me a favour.

More likely a guitar, but yeah she writes her own songs.

Why does that bother you so much? Why is Taylor's talent getting under your skin so much? Green doesn't suit you. Envy

DeeCee77 · 15/07/2023 15:16

aSofaNearYou · 15/07/2023 15:07

@DeeCee77 I mean, I think there's a bit of truth in what you're saying - the modern music industry is less geared up for creativity and individuality than it used to be. But at the same time you are very much saying what the previous generation used to say about the music you consider "great". Tale as old as time.

No, hence the "back in my day" trope doesn't apply to today.

Again, talent doesn't change, unfortunately for music the environment has, enormously. You said it, creativity, individuality...infinitely less as record companies go for pre-packaged acts (Cowell and co. playing a huge role), also theres no longer any regional movements (Merseybeat, Seattle grunge, London/NYC punk rock etc.) as they can't organically develop independently anymore as they become known very early via the internet.

xPissflapsx · 15/07/2023 15:16

I think maybe I'm too old for her... (what a Pile of wank) my 10yr quite likes her

FadeAwayAndRadiate · 15/07/2023 15:15

My neighbour is 29 by the way, not 929!!!

FadeAwayAndRadiate · 15/07/2023 15:15

AgathaSpencerGregson · 15/07/2023 15:11

I remember when Michael Jackson and Madonna came to the UK in the 80s. Everyone lost their minds about them too! I don’t see this as any different. Taylor in fact seems to be one of the few singers today to get close to those levels of mega stardom.

This. ^ Lots of jealousy towards Taylor on here. Beautiful, talented, gifted, successful, rich etc... It's understandable, but people are embarrassing themselves with their clear and obvious irrational hatred for her.

FadeAwayAndRadiate · 15/07/2023 15:12

@NashvilleQueen · Today 14:33

@Jongleterre when I was growing up i hated everything mainstream. I thought Morrissey's disdain for popularism was the coolest thing ever. I didn't think you could like The Smiths and George Michael and so I made my choices. But as a middle aged woman (who still loves The Smiths) I see that Morrissey is an insufferable prick and that George Michael was not only incredibly talented but a kind and lovely human being. I kick myself for a sense of superiority over people who just liked something different.

Music snobbery is tiresome.

Agree. It's so pathetic when people claim to hate popular and mainstream artists. And CLAIM they have never heard of their songs. Agree also that Morrisey is an insufferable little prick. I loathe the man.

As I said, the type of poster who is slagging off Taylor Swift and those who like her, are the same type who berate and mock people for liking Disney or for playing video games. Rude, arrogant little snobs. The same type who sneer at a woman in her 30s being given a soft toy for Valentine's Day 'because toys are for kids,' (when deep down they're jealous and bitter because no man ever buys them anything.) Grin

Same type who mock grown women who like Unicorns, (and other fantasy things like fairy gardens,) and also pop stars, and TV shows that are mainstream and popular with the young - like Love Island. A neighbour mine 929 y.o. woman) said the other week that her spiteful 35 y.o. colleague mocked her for going to Alton Towers, and said she was really childish.

There are some spectacularly rude and judgemental people out there. Some are on this thread sadly.

AgathaSpencerGregson · 15/07/2023 15:12

nokidshere · 15/07/2023 15:10

Of course. But I've never seen so much utter hysteria over a pop singer, which made me ask the question.

Ahh then you obviously weren't around for Donny Osmond, David Cassidy, Elvis, The Beatles and many others. I haven't been to 'a gig' for many years now but hysteria over pop stars is certainly not a new phenomenon.

Ah cross posted! Completely agree.
Or look at beatlemania. That was next level crazy stuff. The screaming!

tabulahrasa · 15/07/2023 15:11

DeeCee77 · 15/07/2023 15:07

So she sat at the piano like Freddie Mercury and came up with a song like he did with Bohemian Rhapsody?

Do me a favour.

She writes her own songs.

It’s not just her producers etc that say so, every artist she’s collaborated with say so, even John Mayer who would absolutely say if she didn’t given he’s complained publicly about the song she wrote about him.

AgathaSpencerGregson · 15/07/2023 15:11

I remember when Michael Jackson and Madonna came to the UK in the 80s. Everyone lost their minds about them too! I don’t see this as any different. Taylor in fact seems to be one of the few singers today to get close to those levels of mega stardom.

nokidshere · 15/07/2023 15:10

Of course. But I've never seen so much utter hysteria over a pop singer, which made me ask the question.

Ahh then you obviously weren't around for Donny Osmond, David Cassidy, Elvis, The Beatles and many others. I haven't been to 'a gig' for many years now but hysteria over pop stars is certainly not a new phenomenon.

DeeCee77 · 15/07/2023 15:07

tabulahrasa · 15/07/2023 15:03

“A pleasant girl with a guitar, who (along with a team of songwriters) has some decent tunes. And this the best today? “

There’s no team...

So she sat at the piano like Freddie Mercury and came up with a song like he did with Bohemian Rhapsody?

Do me a favour.