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Yr 1 teacher

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YumLemonCheesecake · 06/07/2023 21:02

Sorry this is so long but don't want to drip feed...

So DS found out his new class on Tuesday he’s happy he is with a few friends and he knows his new teacher a little bit from around the school, so all good in this respect.
He will have a teacher share (totally fine with this) but his teacher on Fridays I have a few issues with, she has only got this job a few weeks ago to start in September and this is where my potential issues start.

  1. She has no primary experience (she has been going in twice a week for an hour at a time this year to her child's class FS to help with reading).
Her original job before she had children was a dance teacher at a-level age - hence a teaching qualification, but no experience at all with younger children except her own child.
  1. She has been open and loud in her words “I’ll have to get (her child’s name) to teach me phonics, I have no f*ing clue what I’m doing”

3.Today I have been shown screen shots from another parent group she is on bitching about another parent in her DS's current class. laughing that her child has been put in Mrs * class "I hope she's disappointed she's got the worst teacher"

  1. She’s a very loud rude person in general, her child used to attend the same tennis class as DS, she would bring her dog into the playground while we waited, myself and 2 other mums have toddlers, who she used to shout at to keep out the way her dog is prone to be vicious around children, when we said they are in a playground she was very defensive saying she has to wait somewhere?!?

5.The job wasn't even advertised, I know at least 3 people who are primary trained with plenty of experience with great references who would of applied for this job so they can hardly say there is a shortage of people for the job.

I asked for a meeting with the headteacher today, I started to voice my concerns about her lack of qualifications and experience teaching my child she shut me down extremely quickly, stating that she has of course got a teaching qualification and that she would only be teaching topic work!?!? Then she proceeded to escort me out her office without even letting me bring up other concerns I had.

She will be the teacher on Fridays for the next 2 years as the teachers remain the same in yr2.
Am I just over reacting or should I expect the teacher teaching my child for 20% of the next two years have at least some primary experience?

I don't want to separate DS from his friends and I know the other classes are full so insisting he moves classes maybe impossible, other schools in our area are good but he is so settled moving him makes me worry.

What do you think my next steps should be? emailing the school governors? Please help, I feel I need to stick up for my child but I do feel a bit trapped, I know at least 2 other parents have also voiced concerns about this appointment but nothing seems to be helping?

OP posts:
Luxell934 · 06/07/2023 21:10

It sounds like she’s possibly the PPA cover especially if she’s only teaching certain subjects. A TA or higher level TA are legally able to cover this.

Dabralor · 06/07/2023 21:09

With all due respect, there isn't really anything you can do. She has been appointed by the school in accordance with their selection procedure, so you would imagine her qualifications and experience must have satisfied them, despite your suspicions about her WhatsApp activity and dog etc.

Sorry if that sound harsh but this is the reality of primary school - sometimes you will have teachers you love and other times, not so much. It's just the way it is. At least your son has friends with him and a competent teacher for the remaining 80% of the time. Look on the bright side!

calmcoco · 06/07/2023 21:09

For 20% in Year 1 I would not worry.

If the teacher is behaving unprofessionally, report it to the Head.

Yunner · 06/07/2023 21:08

It's not up to parents to choose their child's class based on the number of years of experience of the teachers.

GoodChat · 06/07/2023 21:07

Luxell934 · 06/07/2023 21:06

I just can’t believe this.

Some of it is probably inflated playground gossip

GoodChat · 06/07/2023 21:07

I'd leave him in his current class but perhaps have a chat with the head and suggest someone needs to have a chat with her around professional boundaries

Luxell934 · 06/07/2023 21:06

I just can’t believe this.

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