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Did the captain Tom foundation charity really use the money to build their own spa pool??

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Terryer · 05/07/2023 07:25

Just reading the paper this morning and see the family of Captain Tom have been ordered to pull down a building in their garden with a spa pool. I think it's a planning issue but the inference is that they used the money raised to build it. Did they really?

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CathyorClaire · 05/07/2023 10:08

It was a nice story to run with at the time. Especially with all the other relentless shit.

It became just as relentless.

Tidsleytiddy · 05/07/2023 10:06

musixa · 05/07/2023 09:54

I voiced a criticism of Captain Tom on here when he was knighted and, metaphorically, that's exactly what happened. The whole thread (I wasn't the OP) ended up being deleted as folk were getting vicious whenever anyone dared say anything about him that wasn't a fawning accolade.

That’s what I mean! Why couldn’t people have their own opinions? Why the collective “love” for him? Didn’t get it and I never will.

VegetablesFightingToReclaimTheAubergieneEmoji · 05/07/2023 10:03

CathyorClaire · 05/07/2023 09:59

I do criticise the BBC because they were relentless in their coverage on Breakfast News, the family, Captain Tom, and all were on every single morning.

Agree with this.

IIRC think it was BBC Breakfast that first picked it up and ran with it. I suspect they were cynically picked as the easiest target by the PR daughter given their long standing practice of highlighting tug-at-the- heartstrings 'human interest' stories.

Set that against the background of constant broadcasts of clapping for the NHS and the propaganda about being kind, looking out for each other and saving lives beamed to a bored nation with nothing to do but watch TV and it's no wonder it took off.

It was a nice story to run with at the time. Especially with all the other relentless shit.

CathyorClaire · 05/07/2023 09:59

I do criticise the BBC because they were relentless in their coverage on Breakfast News, the family, Captain Tom, and all were on every single morning.

Agree with this.

IIRC think it was BBC Breakfast that first picked it up and ran with it. I suspect they were cynically picked as the easiest target by the PR daughter given their long standing practice of highlighting tug-at-the- heartstrings 'human interest' stories.

Set that against the background of constant broadcasts of clapping for the NHS and the propaganda about being kind, looking out for each other and saving lives beamed to a bored nation with nothing to do but watch TV and it's no wonder it took off.

Bellajac · 05/07/2023 09:56

I didn't have a view on Captain Tom one way or another. He seemed like a nice old man trying to do a good thing. I wasn't so keen on the publicity hungry daughter and the media's obsession with him. I certainly wouldn't have taken my elderly and frail father to Barbados at the height of a pandemic knowing that catching covid could kill him. Which it did. But perhaps the lure of the business class flights (which I'm sure were provided free by BA) was too much. I don't know. It wasn't wise and I wouldn't have done it.

TrundleWheel76 · 05/07/2023 09:55

user1492757084 · 05/07/2023 09:49

It sounds legit! Old people need spas and water exercise venues. Captain Tom was a hero and a doer. He offered hope to the locked up. If a spa building is built on his walking track all the better for his elderly friends, family and neighbours.

I very much doubt that Hannah intended to let the neighbours use it.

musixa · 05/07/2023 09:54

Tidsleytiddy · 05/07/2023 09:35

Anyone who said at the time they weren’t interested in Captain Tom would’ve been tarred and feathered. Well I thought he was a soppy old duffer who should have butted out of the NHS problem

I voiced a criticism of Captain Tom on here when he was knighted and, metaphorically, that's exactly what happened. The whole thread (I wasn't the OP) ended up being deleted as folk were getting vicious whenever anyone dared say anything about him that wasn't a fawning accolade.

LivinDaylights · 05/07/2023 09:52

BoredandFifty · 05/07/2023 09:25

Captain Tom cheered us all up and distracted us at a very stressful time. If a very old chap could make the massive effort to walk round his garden and have a stiff upper lip through it all, then we could all muddle through it.

Unfortunately his offspring do not seem to have inherited his selflessness.

Did he? I didn't feel cheered up by the old chap walking around his rather large garden (for a photo op) distracting the media away from the actual news. I didn't buy any of it at the time and found it all quite nauseating. I found it odd at the time he was being made out to he some hero, getting a knighthood?? It was all very bizarre, almost like everyone had lost touch with reality!

Tidsleytiddy · 05/07/2023 09:52

user1492757084 · 05/07/2023 09:49

It sounds legit! Old people need spas and water exercise venues. Captain Tom was a hero and a doer. He offered hope to the locked up. If a spa building is built on his walking track all the better for his elderly friends, family and neighbours.

How naive

Skinnermarink · 05/07/2023 09:51

user1492757084 · 05/07/2023 09:49

It sounds legit! Old people need spas and water exercise venues. Captain Tom was a hero and a doer. He offered hope to the locked up. If a spa building is built on his walking track all the better for his elderly friends, family and neighbours.

Oh sure, dear old Doreen from number 15 is having a lovely little jacuzzi sesh as we speak.

toomuchlaundry · 05/07/2023 09:51

I remember it being clearly stated that the money was going to NHS charities and not the NHS itself.

If people want more money for healthcare then either we all need to pay more taxes or have some insurance type scheme to help cover some of the costs, the NHS can’t carry on as it is

Tidsleytiddy · 05/07/2023 09:51

Calloffruity · 05/07/2023 09:50

Speak for yourself, he didn't cheer me up. I just thought how utterly depressing it was that the public would cheer on fundraising for the NHS. It's not a fucking charity.

As for a stiff upper lip, he was wealthy man who'd lived a lovely privileged life walking around his lovely garden enjoying the side of lockdown many less privileged people couldn't.

And selfless? He travelled to Barbados unvaccinated in the height of the pandemic. Not very selfless.

Love this. No, he didn’t cheer me up either. Was sick of the hype

Calloffruity · 05/07/2023 09:50

BoredandFifty · 05/07/2023 09:25

Captain Tom cheered us all up and distracted us at a very stressful time. If a very old chap could make the massive effort to walk round his garden and have a stiff upper lip through it all, then we could all muddle through it.

Unfortunately his offspring do not seem to have inherited his selflessness.

Speak for yourself, he didn't cheer me up. I just thought how utterly depressing it was that the public would cheer on fundraising for the NHS. It's not a fucking charity.

As for a stiff upper lip, he was wealthy man who'd lived a lovely privileged life walking around his lovely garden enjoying the side of lockdown many less privileged people couldn't.

And selfless? He travelled to Barbados unvaccinated in the height of the pandemic. Not very selfless.

user1492757084 · 05/07/2023 09:49

It sounds legit! Old people need spas and water exercise venues. Captain Tom was a hero and a doer. He offered hope to the locked up. If a spa building is built on his walking track all the better for his elderly friends, family and neighbours.

VegetablesFightingToReclaimTheAubergieneEmoji · 05/07/2023 09:49

I didn’t think it was sketchy until Barbados. I thought it was just an old man who was trying to keep busy in lockdown and raise a few quid.
then every opportunity he got wheeled out for more and more. It would be too much for most.

Tidsleytiddy · 05/07/2023 09:48

All bent. The lot of it

Mrsjayy · 05/07/2023 09:48

Tbf it was documented that they were raising money for the NHS together charities not the actual NHS there was reports on breakfast tv and what not what the charities do/provide, it might have got lost in translation though.it 🤔

UsernameNotAvailableArghh · 05/07/2023 09:47

Flickersy · 05/07/2023 07:47

There was Captain Tom gin, Captain Tom baseball caps, that god awful cringe song with Michael Ball... Anything that could be monetised.

It appears that gin company owner is married to the Carillion bloke who pocketed millions.
https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/captain-tom-moore-charity-gin-law-b2075691.html

Captain Tom gin pulled from sale after ‘breach of charity law’

Exclusive: Bottles of £100 gin removed from distillery’s website after questions raised by The Independent

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/captain-tom-moore-charity-gin-law-b2075691.html

DeliciouslyDecadent · 05/07/2023 09:45

My understanding was that the money was being used for 'goody bags' for nurses, or things like refreshments for them. All very well but I don't think this is what people donated for. They assumed it might be for more staff, scanners, etc.

User106487665 · 05/07/2023 09:44

I think that she liked being on the news and in the forefront, it was a bit all about her

Lastusernamecantthinkofanotherone · 05/07/2023 09:44

What many people didn’t understand at the time is NHS core funding is ring fenced.

you cannot donate money to provide core services. That is provided from the NHS budget.

so none of the money could ever have gone to “the nhs”.

what you can do is donate for non-core provisions. Donations can fund research projects, set up iPad lending schemes, pay for play specialists, therapists etc.

the money was never going to go where the public though it was.

Seeingadistance · 05/07/2023 09:43

Flickersy · 05/07/2023 07:46

While the original bit of raising money for the NHS was lovely, the whole circus that followed was a festival of exploitation masterminded by the daughter in PR and was hyped up on mawkisk jingoistic sentiment. It was obvious what was happening. But at the time if you said that on here you would be well and truly rounded on by the ignorant.

Yep!

User106487665 · 05/07/2023 09:42

I don't think he was doing laps as he had that walker, he was going up and down that large drive/pathway.

Blackcatisabitofapsycho · 05/07/2023 09:41

Bloodysoapoperas · 05/07/2023 09:34

@GeorgeMichaelsCat don't they deserve bashing though ? It's not as if they are doing a good job are they ?
Or are you one of those folk who stick by their 'team' unquestioningly ?

Yes. Not on threads where it isn’t relevant, though. Endless whataboutery doesn’t get any of us anywhere, it just is a way of deflection.

Felford · 05/07/2023 09:39

Did he actually do all the laps of his garden? I wouldn't bet on it if the daughter was counting..