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Am I an awful a parent as I feel? Third Covid round has messed me up and I’m freaking out.

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Cloxs · 04/07/2023 08:52

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Have had two back to back Covid infections - it took me a good 6 weeks to be back to myself after the last one. Tested positive (weak) a couple of weeks into this new infection (or it’s a relapse, who knows, LO was also really poorly at same time).

im at week 3 from this infection. I was so poorly I convinced myself I had a stroke cause of the vertigo and other symptoms- went to hospital and was clear.

ive struggled with things health wise since my LO was born. I’ve been told I’m burned out and exhausted and need a lot of rest.

I feel like a terrible mum. My parents care for my LO so much more than I feel comfortable with and I feel like a waste of space cause I can’t snap out of the exhaustion. I was getting there - 80% normal again after a slow steady slump and this further infection has made me feel hopeless.

my symptoms are severe brain fog, derealisation, weakness, dizziness, exhaustion. I think 70% is due to this second infection when I’d not got over the first one.

is anyone else struggling to get over Covid as much as me? I feel so ostracised and sick of the comments from other mums that I just need to get out and socialise. Of course I want to do that - when I feel well I do - a lot. But struggling to even walk to bathroom and back with this recent infection.

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UndercoverCop · 04/07/2023 09:00

Have you had a long Covid diagnosis? Your symptoms sound similar to a colleague

No - cause I fully recovered in 6 weeks prior - GP said not until 12 weeks post infection would they consider that.

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WonderfulUsername · 04/07/2023 08:58

How old is your baby?

Could health anxiety be playing a part?

To be honest, I'd stop testing and try to take each day as it comes. There's definitely some truth in getting out and about/fresh air/ exercise making us feel a bit better.

Do you get out with friends or do any hobbies?

She’s 21 months

I agree and yes I have hobbies - plenty of them - but right now I’m feeling too unwell to leave the house. I suffer health anxiety but as a result of having had such bad issues with Covid. I’m in therapy for it.

when I feel physically well I do a lot of things - gardening, out with LO, socialising, journaling, music. Right now I can’t even shower cause the exhaustion and brain fog is too intense.

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UndercoverCop · 04/07/2023 09:00

Have you had a long Covid diagnosis? Your symptoms sound similar to a colleague

WonderfulUsername · 04/07/2023 08:58

How old is your baby?

Could health anxiety be playing a part?

To be honest, I'd stop testing and try to take each day as it comes. There's definitely some truth in getting out and about/fresh air/ exercise making us feel a bit better.

Do you get out with friends or do any hobbies?

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