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I've been unfaithful and I don't know how tell DH

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Lostsoul0307 · 03/07/2023 11:48

I know I'm going to be absolutely annihilated for this but please believe me when I say I already feel terrible.

I was at a friends hen party this weekend at a holiday cottage with a group of about 20, on the Friday night a stripper had been hired and it was way more intimate than I was prepared for, he did a bit with whipped cream and a few of us licked off. I would never usually but I was really quite tipsy, there was a bit of crowd pressure and the whole thing was really quite arousing, I know these are lame excuses. I crossed a line and did stuff for way longer than I should.

I know I need to tell DH but I have no idea how to even go about bringing this up, he'll be crushed and I'm so disappointed in myself.

OP posts:
Comedycook · 03/07/2023 11:54

What did you actually do?

brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 03/07/2023 11:54

sounds like she went full nosh-off on the stripper, whereas some licked a bit of cream off.

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Lostsoul0307 · 03/07/2023 11:54

MrsO3 · 03/07/2023 11:52

"I crossed a line and did stuff for way longer than I should"
@Lostsoul0307 Can you clarify exactly what you done?

Sorry I can tell the messages from above I've been unclear.

I gave him a blowjob - not all the way but more than just a quick get the cream off.

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Bloodyleaverspartybollocks · 03/07/2023 11:53

You licked his Willy?
I'd be keeping that firmly to myself

YoungerDryas · 03/07/2023 11:53

Is this a reverse?

MrsO3 · 03/07/2023 11:52

"I crossed a line and did stuff for way longer than I should"
@Lostsoul0307 Can you clarify exactly what you done?

motheroreily · 03/07/2023 11:52

I'm a real prude and I wouldn't class this as cheating.

How would he react if you told him? Are you worried he'll find out?

dementedpixie · 03/07/2023 11:52

What did you actually do?

FOJN · 03/07/2023 11:51

Unless he's likely to hear it from someone else why would you hurt him by telling him?
Your guilt is for you to deal with.

anon2022anon · 03/07/2023 11:50

Do you class that as unfaithful? I don't. If I found out DP had done that to a female stripper, I'd be cross, but I wouldn't class that as cheating in the slightest