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To not pay to choose seats but expect to sit together?

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Peachpicklepie · 24/06/2023 17:41

I'll be flying with easyjet on a short flight (just over an hour) soon. It will be me, my toddler (2 years 4 months) and my baby (four months). Baby will be on my lap. According to the website they will sit children near an accompanying adult - surely in the case of a two year old this means next to?! I really don't want to spend another £20 on choosing seats if it's unnecessary.

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Titsywoo · 24/06/2023 18:41

babyproblems · 24/06/2023 18:22

I’m with you OP I think it’s a ridiculous, money grabbing policy that’s literally the only point of it. I won’t fly with cheap airlines who charge for this because it’s a fucking piss take and they don’t deserve my business. Call and ask them - I expect they legally have to sit you with your two year old. I expect they’ll try not to tell you a clear answer. x

I've had to pay it with BA. Maybe they are a low cost airline now?

Mammamia2023 · 24/06/2023 18:39

NuffSaidSam · 24/06/2023 18:13

Is the seat you want next to an unaccompanied 2 year old?! That's the last seat on the plane I'd want.

Probably not tbf but i definitely would not move out of principal and as pp said have a resting bitch face 🤣

LlynTegid · 24/06/2023 18:37

This is one of the issues that should be a non-issue because separating those on a booking should be unlawful, part of a modern consumer act to stop this kind of rip-offs.

As that won't happen, pay the extra.

BungleandGeorge · 24/06/2023 18:37

I’d just pay it, it’s not a huge amount. They could quite reasonably and safely seat you across the aisle. Lots of other people do pay do the amount of seats not booked might be minimal. Your toddler might like a window seat too

Quartz2208 · 24/06/2023 18:35

Both times I have been on easyjet at half term we have a 20 minute delay when people were moved to ensure people were sat together. Both times the threat was used that the plane would not take off until it was sorted.

the flight before I was sitting with my then 9 year old and 13 year old ( and the 9 year old looked older) if I would move and no I was with my children both of whom are nervous flyers

Badabingbadaboomm · 24/06/2023 18:34

I think children under 6 should definitely be sat next to parents. They are too young otherwise to be sat alone.

I don’t think you should have to pay for This but I do think there should be an option to flag your booking as having a young child so that when seats are allocated you are next to them if they are below a certain age.

Chocolatelover3 · 24/06/2023 18:33

I’d pay the £20
I have seen so many “should I have given up my seat so child could sit next to mum?” Articles so assuming they don’t always do this

ShouldGoToBed · 24/06/2023 18:32

id pay it unless you’re 100% certain you’ll get to the airport in plenty of time to check in early. I was too tight to pay it once when DS was 2, thinking they’d never separate us so no point, and we ended up being some of the last people to check in, plane was full, I was across the aisle from toddler and DH in a completely different part of the plane. It was hideous, he screamed all through takeoff and landing and I vowed never to risk it again.

ChristmasCwtch · 24/06/2023 18:30

I’ve always been sat next to mine despite not booking seats. I was secretly hoping my 5 year would be in another row 😂

Throwncrumbs · 24/06/2023 18:27

When you pick your flights you have to choose your seat before paying, at least that’s what happens when in the app. Cheapest are £5.99 I think. I would risk it because there might not be 2 seats together and people do not like moving from the seats that they’ve paid to sit in

LovedmyRaleighChopper · 24/06/2023 18:26

I wouldn’t pay it, presuming you check in as soon as allowed which is 30 days pre flight with EasyJet. Just checked in for 8 of us including a 9month old ( no seat) and a 5 year old dgs and we are all seated together. That’s EasyJet and that’s 30 days pre flight. When I book the flights I put a reminder on my phone to check in as soon as the allowed date so there are still plenty of unallocated seats. The only time I’ve ever had the party been split has been Ryanair, I’m convinced they have a secret plan to deliberately split up people travelling together to make them more likely to pay!

Sighhhhh · 24/06/2023 18:24

I….wouldn’t be moving if you asked me to.

MargotBamborough · 24/06/2023 18:24

ZeldaWillTellYourFortune · 24/06/2023 18:18

No.

Why should people pay for something they don't need or want, such as food, luggage space, a specific seat?

I love a la carte pricing. I buy what I want from the airlines and others are free to do the same. I don't purchase what I don't need.

Those who need a seat next to a family member, should buy it.

You're not paying less for not having those things.

Everyone else is paying more if they want them.

It's difficult to say no to paying for luggage because your luggage needs are largely dictated by the reason for your travel and the length of your stay.

Paying for seats is where passengers should all just have said, "You're having a laugh, right? No." Given that most people don't actually need to be seated beside their travelling companions, it's an argument the passengers could have won against the airlines by just refusing to pay (and then causing chaos for airline staff by moving around once on the plane).

But because enough people started paying, it's now become a thing.

Another prediction: airlines will start saying you can't bring your own food and drink but must only eat or drink food purchased on board.

VisionsOfSplendour · 24/06/2023 18:24

SerafinasGoose · 24/06/2023 18:17

Not this again?

I was thinking the same, this has been done to death, I've only read to the end to see if anything that hasn't been posted many times before was said,

Bluewhale40 · 24/06/2023 18:24

If you check in as soon as check in opens you will get seats together.

I have never paid and never not all been seated in a row. I have 4 kids and have flown a lot with easyJet and Ryanscare, though have not flown with the latter recently.

Always check in as soon as possible though.

CapEBarra · 24/06/2023 18:23

I’ve never paid for my kids. I always hoped they’d be placed elsewhere so I could have a bit of peace, but no, they were always plonked right next to me.

(this is a joke, keyboard warriors! Seriously though I’ve never paid extra, never asked anyone to change seats, and I wouldn’t).

Gooseysgirl · 24/06/2023 18:23

Georgyporky · 24/06/2023 18:15

There was a point upthread about airlines might start making people pay to use the loo. That (insert nasty word) O'Leary proposed to do just that.

One of my besties and Ryanair hater says she would piss on the seat rather than pay to use the loo on the plane. TBH I don't think he would ever get away with denying people having their basic human needs met in that situation. Half the time MO'L is just shit stirring for the publicity!

babyproblems · 24/06/2023 18:22

I’m with you OP I think it’s a ridiculous, money grabbing policy that’s literally the only point of it. I won’t fly with cheap airlines who charge for this because it’s a fucking piss take and they don’t deserve my business. Call and ask them - I expect they legally have to sit you with your two year old. I expect they’ll try not to tell you a clear answer. x

yogasaurus · 24/06/2023 18:20

MargotBamborough · 24/06/2023 18:12

Nobody ever thought airlines would start charging you to bring a hold bag. And then they never thought airlines would start charging you to bring a cabin bag.

And yet here we are.

Ok well you make your stand.

I’ll pay £20 on an annual holiday to sit next to my family.

newjobnewstartihope · 24/06/2023 18:19

People who don't agree with it always fly with low cost airlines

ImAOneWayMotorway · 24/06/2023 18:18

My youngest is the same age as your toddler, I'd pay to ensure everyone is sat together. We aren't moving because you are a cheeky chancer travelling alone with 2 kids, I'd 100% decline to switch with you. I assume you accept you might be sat behind your toddler, that counts as nearby in airline terms.

ZeldaWillTellYourFortune · 24/06/2023 18:18

MargotBamborough · 24/06/2023 18:15

The only reason airlines have got away with charging for this is because of the mugs who just accepted it and paid up.

No.

Why should people pay for something they don't need or want, such as food, luggage space, a specific seat?

I love a la carte pricing. I buy what I want from the airlines and others are free to do the same. I don't purchase what I don't need.

Those who need a seat next to a family member, should buy it.

HappiDaze · 24/06/2023 18:17

They sit under 12 DC with a parent

AuntieMarys · 24/06/2023 18:17

Oh just pay

SerafinasGoose · 24/06/2023 18:17

Not this again?