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To not pay to choose seats but expect to sit together?

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Peachpicklepie · 24/06/2023 17:41

I'll be flying with easyjet on a short flight (just over an hour) soon. It will be me, my toddler (2 years 4 months) and my baby (four months). Baby will be on my lap. According to the website they will sit children near an accompanying adult - surely in the case of a two year old this means next to?! I really don't want to spend another £20 on choosing seats if it's unnecessary.

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ContinuousProcrastination · 24/06/2023 19:06

If anyone asked me to change seats I would say yes if you pay me the price I paid for this seat.

And if the pilot/cabin crew said the plane isnt moving till someone moves?

Someone always moves. Maybe its not you but someone does.

TeenDivided · 24/06/2023 19:06

JenWillsiam · 24/06/2023 18:59

How does that make sense?

Standard price £100.
If 4 of you are booking = £400

If you choose to opt out of ensuring sitting together, reduced to £360

Single person booking also gets discount of £10 so pays £90.

Then it would be seen as an active discount, rather than an active add on.

readbooksdrinktea · 24/06/2023 19:06

Just don't ask other people to move then. Unless you pay them, that is.

ContinuousProcrastination · 24/06/2023 19:05

Civil aviations rules don’t require it.

They don't need to. The crew of the plane have a responsibility to ensure safety and with a child as young as 2, they will hold up a flight until another passenger agrees to move. I've seen this done a few times.

Hippydippydipchip · 24/06/2023 19:04

99victoria · 24/06/2023 19:02

With Easyjet, you can check-in online 30 days before you fly and they issue your seat and boarding pass so there is no need to be stressed that you might not be seated together. If you check in 30 days before you fly and you find they have allocated you seats apart (highly unlikely I think) then you have the opportunity at that time to change your seat and, if necessary, pay for the one you want.

I did this a few days ago… checked in bang on 30 days.

All 4 of us are sat together on both flights.

I thought easyjet tried to seat you together but Ryanair broke you up on purpose.

Figgygal · 24/06/2023 19:04

I fly with them regularly
Never paid
Never been split
Have a 11 and 6yo

keyboardkat · 24/06/2023 19:03

I think it should be mandatory to pay for seats together if travelling with kids under say 10 for example. Booking/check in will know ages from the passport details.

If anyone asked me to change seats I would say yes if you pay me the price I paid for this seat.

ContinuousProcrastination · 24/06/2023 19:03

A lot of people here don't seem to grasp the concept of 'no frills' and understand how low cost airlines work.

A lot of people on here don't seem to grasp basic safety.

No UK, US or EU airline/pilot will depart with essentially an unaccompanied toddler. 99% of the time you'll easily get seats together at check in. On the rare occasion this doesn't happen eg due to delays etc, they'll simply move other passengers and they will not take off until they happens. They cannot assume (force) a random stranger will take responsibility for a toddler and its simply not safe.

Don't pay. It's the airline's responsibility to safely fly you and your toddler to your destination, and that includes seating you with your children.

99victoria · 24/06/2023 19:02

With Easyjet, you can check-in online 30 days before you fly and they issue your seat and boarding pass so there is no need to be stressed that you might not be seated together. If you check in 30 days before you fly and you find they have allocated you seats apart (highly unlikely I think) then you have the opportunity at that time to change your seat and, if necessary, pay for the one you want.

JenWillsiam · 24/06/2023 18:59

TeenDivided · 24/06/2023 18:00

It's a shame they don't price with the 'sit together' price and then a group has to actively opt out and a single person gets an automatic discount.

How does that make sense?

JenWillsiam · 24/06/2023 18:58

Itsadogone · 24/06/2023 17:42

I’d probably just pay the money but realistically they can’t not sit them with you at that age 🙈

Civil aviations rules don’t require it. The risk is others with pay and there won’t be sufficient seats left.

ContinuousProcrastination · 24/06/2023 18:57

SIL just came back from her holiday and her 8 year old was seated in front of her.
Luckily a kind lady offered to swap

Eh? An 8 year old is very, very different to a 2 year old. 6 y o DS sat in front of me on a flight recently, small plane & complicated delay situation. He was fine, politely offered the old bloke next to him one of his sweets then listened to his yoto player. I just passed him forward a drink etc.

A toddler can't go to the loo alone, or sort themselves out with a colouring book, and could be upset/scared. An 8 year old will usually be fine.

fetchacloth · 24/06/2023 18:57

TonTonMacoute · 24/06/2023 18:47

A lot of people here don't seem to grasp the concept of 'no frills' and understand how low cost airlines work.

Exactly what I was thinking 🤔.
If I had a young family I would just pay up and accept it for what it was .
No way would I want to be seen as a problem for others.

99victoria · 24/06/2023 18:56

We fly with Easyjet all the time - I've never paid for seats and we're always seated together

jc12689 · 24/06/2023 18:55

Just get there early

ilovesooty · 24/06/2023 18:55

ZeldaWillTellYourFortune · 24/06/2023 18:18

No.

Why should people pay for something they don't need or want, such as food, luggage space, a specific seat?

I love a la carte pricing. I buy what I want from the airlines and others are free to do the same. I don't purchase what I don't need.

Those who need a seat next to a family member, should buy it.

Agreed. As it happens I usually pay to select a seat for flights longer than a couple of hours, but I don't see why I should put up with higher base rates so that families can have seat selection included

And if I've paid for my chosen seat, I'm not moving out of it to accommodate people who didn't pay to ensure they're sitting next to their children.

USaYwHatNow · 24/06/2023 18:55

Having just flown with a 10mo, and having paid £60 for my husband and I to sit together and people STILL trying to sit itln our seats and then kicked off because we were daring to fly with a baby, just pay the £20. Surely a small price to pay for peace of mind? And yes, you'd like to think that algorithms would mean a 2yo would be sat literally right next to the accompanying parent, but stranger and more inconvenient things have happened. So to prevent any dramas, anyone kicking off or causing any delays just pay the twenty quid.

yogasaurus · 24/06/2023 18:55

HerMammy · 24/06/2023 18:54

Not this again, just pay £20, every flight lately has a steward going up and down trying to get ppl to move because some tight parent hasnt pre booked a seat.

Yep, and everyone else on the flight glaring at the cheap, entitled parent in disgust.

yogasaurus · 24/06/2023 18:54

Amandasummers · 24/06/2023 18:44

What about if you suddenly had the responsibility of a random 2 year old that wasn't yours next to you without their parent?

Why would you assume the responsibility for a random child sat next to you? They’re nothing to do with you.

HerMammy · 24/06/2023 18:54

Not this again, just pay £20, every flight lately has a steward going up and down trying to get ppl to move because some tight parent hasnt pre booked a seat.

maddiemookins16mum · 24/06/2023 18:53

Risk it if you want, your choice. But don’t blame anyone but yourself when it goes tits up.

Gothambutnotahamster · 24/06/2023 18:53

EasyJet has always seated us together and my kids are older than yours. I wouldn't pay Op but then wouldn't expect anyone to switch with me as I haven't paid.

Riapia · 24/06/2023 18:53

I find it difficult to believe that anyone faced with sitting next to someone else’s 2 y.o. Wouldn’t grab the opportunity to swap seats.

I8toys · 24/06/2023 18:52

Others should not be shamed or pressurised into giving up their paid seats for you. I paid for my kids and family to sit together you pay for yours. I don't care about the airlines policy and shaming them. Its the right thing to do for all passengers and your kids.

fetchacloth · 24/06/2023 18:52

Sorry but YABU on this one.
As others have said if I've paid for specific seat I expect to sit there and not be made to feel guilty for not budging.
With children so young it's a bit of a no brainer really.