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Why are mental health services in the UK so utterly shit?

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Whichwhatnow · 17/06/2023 23:08

Trying to get mental health support this week after multiple suicides of friends and other issues. Nowt out there available. I'm lucky, I can pay. But how does someone on benefits or NMW pay for therapy?? Surely this should be a basic support element of the NHS?

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MaybeDoctor · 18/06/2023 11:37

I have a relative with chronic depression (several attempts to take their own life). A few years ago the service seemed to be working quite well - there was a Crisis team they could call if needed and I think they were permanently on the list of the service.

Of course, that was all disbanded and reorganised and now whenever they have a crisis they have to contact a central hub and there seems to be a constant drive to get them ‘signed off’ the service. Whereas really they would benefit from ongoing preventative monitoring. Not to mention the farcical business of having to beg their GP for an appointment in order to get their psychiatric medication (consultant does not prescribe it) - just what a person with depression is so confident and able to do…🤔

It’s pretty poor.

roarfeckingroarr · 18/06/2023 11:33

I agree it's shit. I think so much needs to come before people reach crisis.

Whichwhatnow · 18/06/2023 11:33

roarfeckingroarr · 18/06/2023 11:28

Are all the anti Tories here volunteering to pay more tax themselves, or is it just "rich people"?

Can't talk for anyone else but I earn a bit over 100k. I don't think there's an option to pay more tax? I've always been entirely happy to pay the tax I do and also support several local charities involved with homelessness, DV support and a local food bank

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roarfeckingroarr · 18/06/2023 11:28

Are all the anti Tories here volunteering to pay more tax themselves, or is it just "rich people"?

Whichwhatnow · 18/06/2023 11:24

Whichwhatnow · 18/06/2023 11:23

I have BPD, C-PSTD, OCD plus stage 4 cirrhosis with symptoms including hepatic encephalopathy. I've been sectioned three times for suicide attempts. This is far from just 'grief'.

C-PTSD obviously

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Whichwhatnow · 18/06/2023 11:23

SparklyShoesandTutus · 18/06/2023 11:18

Came here to say this. The expectations placed on mental health services are part of the reason they are massively over subscribed.
I am sorry to hear of your losses OP, however grief isn't a mental illness which requires treatment. We have become a society that are unable to deal with intense emotions and want quick fixes, sadly these just don't exist.
SOBS are a great organisation that support individuals bereaved by suicide.

I have BPD, C-PSTD, OCD plus stage 4 cirrhosis with symptoms including hepatic encephalopathy. I've been sectioned three times for suicide attempts. This is far from just 'grief'.

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SparklyShoesandTutus · 18/06/2023 11:18

Endofroadwhatnext · 17/06/2023 23:32

OP Im very sorry to hear about your losses.
I think it depends on what you mean by shit and what your expectations are.
i work in MH and there is no doubt we are hugely under resourced in terms of demand which increases year on year.
People often have an expectation of medium to long term “support” which doesn’t exist as similarly to other NHS services its about offering treatment or recommendations for the client and GP to go away and work on.
Since austerity we get a large percentage of people presenting in emotional distress due to social and financial factors and a lot of substance misuse which also isn’t resourced within MH but externally and provision again is patchy.
Many people I see have been seen over and over but haven’t implemented any changes at all to self manage mild to moderate issues but still have an expectation of being made well.
Actual therapy (psychotherapy) is incredibly expensive to deliver so is gate-kept for the most complex and severe presentations. The self referral services (IAPT)offer short term CBT type input but again its not supportive its goal oriented.
services do generally do a fairly good job of keeping the most unwell people safe and cared for (psychosis, severe bipolar etc). The MH service is full of specialist services with highly trained compassionate professionals however working at 150% capacity for extended periods (basically everyday, forever!) leads to compassion fatigue and moral injury which makes it harder to be truly responsive to patients sadly.
As a-last point, there are lots of ‘low cost Therapy’ services which provide counselling and psychotherapy on a fixed low donation or sliding scale and these are the services I often signpost to.
In terms of support for you Op I’m going to dig out a number and post on here in a bit x

Came here to say this. The expectations placed on mental health services are part of the reason they are massively over subscribed.
I am sorry to hear of your losses OP, however grief isn't a mental illness which requires treatment. We have become a society that are unable to deal with intense emotions and want quick fixes, sadly these just don't exist.
SOBS are a great organisation that support individuals bereaved by suicide.

Cantonet · 18/06/2023 11:16

Mental health care is even more woeful for teens & children. Camhs are not worth bothering with. In fact they're more about covering their backs rather than providing any useful help. Basically going private is the only option. But in many areas even the private option is now overwhelmed.

allabouttheboy · 18/06/2023 11:13

I also read that as more people have become mentally unwell, the funding has been stretched more thinly. So those with very serious mental illness are also getting less support.

JamSandle · 18/06/2023 11:12

allabouttheboy · 18/06/2023 11:10

We need life to be better. Life is too difficult for too many people.

This. Quality of life is decreasing for many. Our environments make us sick.

allabouttheboy · 18/06/2023 11:10

We need life to be better. Life is too difficult for too many people.

Whichwhatnow · 18/06/2023 11:08

Whichwhatnow · 18/06/2023 11:02

I'm a lifelong Labour Party member so not sure this is my fault!

I wish other people weren't quite so ignorant/dismissive of other's problems. Like I say, I can pay for therapy but what about those who can't?

Anyway the paramedics came round yesterday to assess me as I was trying to commit suicide - I will be honest, I was hoping to be sectioned. But no, there's no support. At least my husband has gone to his dad's for a couple of days so I have some breathing space

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JamSandle · 18/06/2023 11:03

I dont think there is any good country to be mentally unwell.

Noone seems to have cracked how to treat it properly.

Whichwhatnow · 18/06/2023 11:02

wildfirewonder · 18/06/2023 08:19

Vote Tory, get shit public services.

Sorry you have been affected @Whichwhatnow but basically the way you were treated is a political choice made by the voters of the country and the government they elected.

I'm a lifelong Labour Party member so not sure this is my fault!

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daffodilandtulip · 18/06/2023 09:38

Funding.

If you're lucky enough to speak to a crisis team that don't think your problems can be solved by having a hot bath, then there won't be any beds for you anyway.

If you get a bed, you'll be turfed out in days as some research once said that it can increase risky behaviour by staying in long term, so they can get away with kicking you out without doing any therapy.

If you're super lucky and get referred to the community team, you'll see someone fortnightly, who has a caseload of about 50 people, that they are forced to discharge in certain timeframes or the trust doesn't get paid.

Add to that staff burnout and attitudes...

(Ex RMN)

ripplingwater · 18/06/2023 09:30

Because its chronically under funded by the government. I worked on a psych ward for a decade and I was completely burnt out at the end. Lots of staff going on long term sick because of budget cuts, lack of staff and lack of staff support. Crisis management is a very stressful role and in my opinion, there are limits to how long staff can work in such an area due to their own mental health limits. I dont think I could go back to it even if I wanted to for the above reasons. It really took a toll on me.

Howpo · 18/06/2023 09:24

x2boys · 18/06/2023 09:13

Well it was my experience 🙄

But not backed up by the facts, there will always be shite people who then deliver poor services, that happens under all Govts, they cannot change human nature.
But generally speaking, nhs services were better.

Megeyhi527 · 18/06/2023 09:21

My experience of mental health services under Labour was so much better to what my children under the Tories are experiencing.

I had PND. Under Labour within days of it being picked up at under post natal services I had a health visitor visiting regularly and very swiftly had access to a support group( with a crèche), individual therapy and medication alongside a referrral for a volunteer who used to drop in and also accompany me to the local children’s centre.

WaterfallF · 18/06/2023 09:14

The country is practically bankrupt.

x2boys · 18/06/2023 09:13

Howpo · 18/06/2023 09:11

Not my personal experience or that backed up by the stats.. but Tory supporters will always say "oh worse under Labour" just to defend their appalling record.

I guess next you'll be telling us under Labour there were 8m people on waiting lists? or denying that the Tories doubled the waiting list between 2010 and 2020?

https://www.nuffieldtrust.org.uk/resource/chart-of-the-week-how-has-the-waiting-list-changed-over-the-years

Well it was my experience 🙄

x2boys · 18/06/2023 09:12

Inkypot · 17/06/2023 23:55

Yip. I work in mental health and completely agree with you.
The post with folks casually discussing earning £100k+ in their 20s like it's something we all do kinda says it all. Dreadful state of affairs when people can vote Tory despite the shit job they did in lockdown. But hey ho, typical I'm alright Jack attitude unfortunately.

Did you work in mental.health under Labour ?
Because I did and it was crap then too in fact it was under the Labour government that the cuts in the mental health trust I worked in at least started ,there is a lot wrong with mental health services,but it's always been known as the Cinderella service of the NHS.

Howpo · 18/06/2023 09:11

x2boys · 18/06/2023 09:06

It's always been crap.,it was still crap.under Labour ,I w was redeployed twice in 12 months due to cuts in 2005 in the mental.health trust I worked for
perhaps ,if the trust's didn't do ridiculous things like refurbishing a ward at the cost of £1000,000 only to close it down less than a year later they would have more money ,this happened several times in the trust I was employed in.

Not my personal experience or that backed up by the stats.. but Tory supporters will always say "oh worse under Labour" just to defend their appalling record.

I guess next you'll be telling us under Labour there were 8m people on waiting lists? or denying that the Tories doubled the waiting list between 2010 and 2020?

https://www.nuffieldtrust.org.uk/resource/chart-of-the-week-how-has-the-waiting-list-changed-over-the-years

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Chart of the week: How has the waiting list changed over the years?

Each week we present analysis of data in chart form to illustrate some key issues and invite discussion. The waiting list in England recently topped six million people, which is the largest figure since the NHS was established in 1948. John Appleby loo...

https://www.nuffieldtrust.org.uk/resource/chart-of-the-week-how-has-the-waiting-list-changed-over-the-years

BreathesOutSlowly · 18/06/2023 09:07

Megeyhi527 · 18/06/2023 08:57

BreathesOutSlowly

Good for you however to get to that point many with need therapy and psychiatry for several years.

I have a son with similar experiences as yourself. The level of provision has been appalling so like many he is spiralling not learning how to support himself which will end up costing the NHS more.

I have two children severely mentally unwell and I keep hearing from professionals that lack of money is a big issue.

I think lack of early neurodiversity diagnosis and support is a massive issue. So many young people in crisis seem to have late diagnosed neurodiversities of some kind.

Neurodiversity awareness within services needs to improve massively.

Also the fact Cahms is a shitshow doesn’t help. The boards are littered with parents up and down the country whose children are being massively let down. There are some gems within the system but the system itself is broken.It needs a massive overhaul and better investment. Then perhaps we wouldn’t see so many needing adult services.

Transition to adult services with better 18-25 provision is urgently needed. It’s shocking in our area.

Money and more staff.

Finally and most importantly we need a government that gives a shit. The Tories don’t.

I understand. My point was not that it is perfect. It isn't and in many cases it is totally unfit for purpose. I have a DC who was ideating suicide who was seen by CAHMS once, and after a long wait, and then discharged. His diagnosis of ASD took more than two, very difficult, years. I get it.

However I also see a lot of people on Mumsnet who have 'mental health' who are bemoaning the state of the service. For many of these it is likely that a bit more self care would improve the situation but there is an assumption that therapy should be available on demand for everything. The NHS can't deal with this and shouldn't be expected to. We humans have a duty to take a bit more control where it is relevant.

x2boys · 18/06/2023 09:06

Mourningmorning · 17/06/2023 23:30

Because thick idiots keep voting for Tory governments.

It's always been crap.,it was still crap.under Labour ,I w was redeployed twice in 12 months due to cuts in 2005 in the mental.health trust I worked for
perhaps ,if the trust's didn't do ridiculous things like refurbishing a ward at the cost of £1000,000 only to close it down less than a year later they would have more money ,this happened several times in the trust I was employed in.

JennieTheZebra · 18/06/2023 09:03

@Whichwhatnow Who made those diagnoses? Would it be possible to be referred back to that team (I imagine the CMHT)? Have you had DBT/emotional coping skills support? It sounds like you could do with that input or at least a “top up” (as well as support for your current situation too). The concern is that, in many areas, IAPT (local CBT/counselling) won’t accept referrals with a BPD diagnosis but your GP/IAPT should be aware of this and refer you back to the CMHT.