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To think that there's no solution for me (fat legs and the beach)

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JMSA · 08/06/2023 20:12

I am very overweight and am going to Greece next month. I am making a massive effort to lose weight, but let's face it, I've left it too late.
I really envy overweight people who have decent legs! You can conceal a flabby stomach or bum with good 'shaping' swimwear. But you can't cover up fat, toddler-like legs. Of course you can put on a sarong or cover-up while wafting around the pool. But the thought of the dreaded walk between sunlounger and sea/pool is leaving me cold! I'd look ridiculous with one of the skirted swimsuits, and there's no point because the skirt is too short. Swim leggings might make me stand out more than just my actual legs!
Is there a solution I haven't come across?
Thank you.
PS I've always had bad legs, even at my slimmest. The varicose veins and corned beef tinted skin don't help the cellulite either.

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Beachbodyready · 08/06/2023 20:22

mine are plus size - i can’t remember if they are Yours Clothing or Simply Be. They are a couple of years old and get worn regularly so I definitely recommend them. They still sell them because I recently recommended them to someone else.

LucyLucyAppleJuice · 08/06/2023 20:22

You could be me! Even at my slimmest, I've always had huge legs with veins and they're either milk bottle white or corned beef pink. I wear black swim leggings and a tankini top now and I feel so much more confident. I think mine were from Yours clothing but Amazon also sell them, you could also check out modest swimwear websites for something suitable.

Flockameanie · 08/06/2023 20:20

I think the best solution is to love your body and realise no one else gives a crap (and if they do, screw them!)

Have a lovely holiday.

Comedycook · 08/06/2023 20:19

No one cares...in the nicest possible way. Slap some fake tan on and enjoy your holiday

JMSA · 08/06/2023 20:17

Beachbodyready · 08/06/2023 20:16

I wear swim leggings and they make me feel like I’ve got a yoga body. I love them and don’t feel at all self conscious

Thanks and love the apt username Grin
If there's a brand you'd recommend in particular, please do let me know.

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Beachbodyready · 08/06/2023 20:16

I wear swim leggings and they make me feel like I’ve got a yoga body. I love them and don’t feel at all self conscious

JMSA · 08/06/2023 20:15

Both of you! Star

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JMSA · 08/06/2023 20:15

Thank you. Unfortunately it does trouble me, but you are absolutely right.

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Talipesmum · 08/06/2023 20:14

Honestly, the best solution is to think about how nice the water feels on your legs, how warm the sun feels on your skin, and just brazen it out. Enjoy living your life, nobody else cares nearly as much as you do, you’re your own worst critic. This earth is for everyone, enjoy it.

SideProfile · 08/06/2023 20:14

Honestly I don’t look twice at peoples legs!

Go with whatever makes you feel comfortable , if that’s a sarong or whatever but I assure you, you’re the only one that’s worried about them.

Don’t let it consume you and ruin your holiday - enjoy x