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‘He’s so bright but he just won’t work’

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WeightInLine · 19/05/2023 13:47

If he was ‘so bright’ then he’d know he needs to work to get results.

The ‘clever but won’t work’ thing is trotted about so many DC, but it’s self defeating. DC worry that if they did work hard but dont’t get Grade As, what then? So they don’t work, and keep the myth of their cleverness alive.

Meanwhile parents convince themselves their children are ‘very bright’ but [x excuse]. It all leads to poor mental health in teens as the myth and the outcome diverge.

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Tinfoilhatwearer · 19/05/2023 13:49

YABU if you're that bright you don't need to work and can coast through mandatory testing. It's a shock in the real world when actual work is required so it's probably better to be a bit more average and have to learn how to work when you're younger

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