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Swingstotheleftslidetotheright · 08/05/2023 16:14

I'm politically homeless at the moment in terms of who to vote for but morally I sit firmly centre/centre left. I'm very British with that it would seem.

I've seen over the last few years a very hard push left across social media and among the "chattering" classes which has seemingly come with a desire to shut down discussion, debate and conversation if it involves even the mildest of challenge to their way of thinking. What seems to be happening as a result of this shutting down and refusal to engage in a debate is a rise in harder line opposition, whereas before the two sides would have a somewhat heated and healthy discourse about an issue and come away mindful of each others views and with a solution in sight.

I'm noticing the louder the left shout the harder the, previously moderate, right push back and vice versa. Both sides appear to be getting more vocal and more extreme. I'm seeing this a lot around migration, feminism, the economy and crime. I'm now worried that this continued closure of conversation is going to lead us down a path of extremism - from one or both sides - and lead us to a dramatic and unwelcome rise from the far right.

Are we at a point of no return? Can we ever go back to being moderate and tolerant?

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Swingstotheleftslidetotheright · 08/05/2023 19:36

Newrumpus · 08/05/2023 17:59

You are worried about the wrong thing. We should be concerned about authoritarianism not matter which direction it is coming from. Current agendas around identity and environment are regressive but not always seen as such due to being associated with left wing ideologies. Left and right are outdated terms and seem to stop people thinking for themselves.

I agree

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SoTired12 · 08/05/2023 18:30

LadyWithLapdog · 08/05/2023 18:12

@SoTired12 im quoting myself above as you seem to have got it into your head you need to tell me about the left. I invite you to analyse the Tory right wing government policies. They’ve been in power for 13 long fucking years and they are the ones shutting down the right to protest.

I agree with PP that rather than getting bogged down in left and right we should debate the diminishing rights. But that wouldn’t make such a good thread title, would it?

There is no left and right anyway, all parties are practically the same. The right to protest has not been shut down, it was due to the coronation as a matter of security, you could go down with your placards now and start shouting "not my King" no-one would stop you.

peachespeachespeaches · 08/05/2023 18:29

TrickorTreacle · 08/05/2023 16:36

I worry more about the woke agenda, shutting down conversations, and political messages being put into cartoons. Disney used to put good messages in their films e.g. be true about yourself (Aladdin) and ohana means family (Lilo & Stitch) but in the last 3-4 years, it's been woke / political messages.

If this is your main concern I suggest you give yourself a stern talking to.

Endlesssummer2022 · 08/05/2023 18:15

Newrumpus · 08/05/2023 17:59

You are worried about the wrong thing. We should be concerned about authoritarianism not matter which direction it is coming from. Current agendas around identity and environment are regressive but not always seen as such due to being associated with left wing ideologies. Left and right are outdated terms and seem to stop people thinking for themselves.

This. Right and left are probably old fashioned ways of thinking now. For example DH and I were discussing only this morning how many environmentalists appear to use far right concepts in regard to climate change e.g. white people with 4 kids on iPhones can rail against birth rates and building factories in developing countries where entire villages use less resources. Or you can get lesbians and gays who take issue with trans now whereas back in the day all of those groups would be bucketed seen as ‘left wing’ causes. It’s not so clear cut these days.

LadyWithLapdog · 08/05/2023 18:12

LadyWithLapdog · 08/05/2023 17:19

”appropriate precautions” being rounding up people and gagging them? Do you know who else did this prior to visits? Some of the EE dictators. They admitted to hospital people with schizophrenia, known political dissidents, homeless people. All “just in case”. So yeah, not a path I thought we’d go down in this country. BTW those were left wing governments. Now this Tory right wing government is doing the same.

@SoTired12 im quoting myself above as you seem to have got it into your head you need to tell me about the left. I invite you to analyse the Tory right wing government policies. They’ve been in power for 13 long fucking years and they are the ones shutting down the right to protest.

I agree with PP that rather than getting bogged down in left and right we should debate the diminishing rights. But that wouldn’t make such a good thread title, would it?

Newrumpus · 08/05/2023 17:59

Swingstotheleftslidetotheright · 08/05/2023 16:14

I'm politically homeless at the moment in terms of who to vote for but morally I sit firmly centre/centre left. I'm very British with that it would seem.

I've seen over the last few years a very hard push left across social media and among the "chattering" classes which has seemingly come with a desire to shut down discussion, debate and conversation if it involves even the mildest of challenge to their way of thinking. What seems to be happening as a result of this shutting down and refusal to engage in a debate is a rise in harder line opposition, whereas before the two sides would have a somewhat heated and healthy discourse about an issue and come away mindful of each others views and with a solution in sight.

I'm noticing the louder the left shout the harder the, previously moderate, right push back and vice versa. Both sides appear to be getting more vocal and more extreme. I'm seeing this a lot around migration, feminism, the economy and crime. I'm now worried that this continued closure of conversation is going to lead us down a path of extremism - from one or both sides - and lead us to a dramatic and unwelcome rise from the far right.

Are we at a point of no return? Can we ever go back to being moderate and tolerant?

You are worried about the wrong thing. We should be concerned about authoritarianism not matter which direction it is coming from. Current agendas around identity and environment are regressive but not always seen as such due to being associated with left wing ideologies. Left and right are outdated terms and seem to stop people thinking for themselves.

SoTired12 · 08/05/2023 17:58

LadyWithLapdog · 08/05/2023 16:58

I’ll leave you to your mental gymnastics @Swingstotheleftslidetotheright There’s always the risk of terrorism. So? We gag people? How do you square the right to free speech and expression with pre-emptively rounding up people and gagging them. Cos Charlie boy might get upset.

From my experience it's 'the left' who don't agree with free speech, unless of course it suits them. If you have any opinion/thought that doesn't completely align with the one they've been fed, they will try and shut the conversation down by screaming things like "bigot" "racist" "transphobic" and in some cases would happily have a persons life destroyed for 'wrong think'.

Florissante · 08/05/2023 17:54

TheKeatingFive · 08/05/2023 16:24

I'm as worried about the far left as I am about the far right.

Agreed.

Jonei · 08/05/2023 17:36

hattie43 · 08/05/2023 17:31

But that's part of the debate . We have too many so-called vulnerable people who don't provide for themselves . The left will give whatever they want whereas the right want a level of social responsibility and are to a degree the main tax payers so want a say in where their taxes go .
I think things have gone too far for any party to be satisfied.

Yep.

Somebodiesmother · 08/05/2023 17:36

TrickorTreacle · 08/05/2023 16:36

I worry more about the woke agenda, shutting down conversations, and political messages being put into cartoons. Disney used to put good messages in their films e.g. be true about yourself (Aladdin) and ohana means family (Lilo & Stitch) but in the last 3-4 years, it's been woke / political messages.

Like what?

Qbish · 08/05/2023 17:33

Swingstotheleftslidetotheright · 08/05/2023 17:22

Why? Right wing = racism and antisemitism (broadly speaking)

Seriously?

Qbish · 08/05/2023 17:32

The far right have never got far in the UK. France or Italy, however...

Not to mention you know where.

Honestly, we're a pretty centrist country.

hattie43 · 08/05/2023 17:31

Elvira2000 · 08/05/2023 16:38

I'm as worried about the far left as I am about the far right.

As far as i can see, the right are advocating for reduced democractic rights, harsher treatment of immigrants, less money for public services and salaries. The right-wing policy of austery lead to around 100,000 deaths.

What do the far left advocate that could harm society so much? Again as far as i can see, there is no left far in the uk. (I live in scandinavia - honestly labour's policies are center/right leaning). I hear voices shouting about trans rights and cancel culture (as in a good thing) - is that the "far left"? To be honest, that seems as authoritarian as the right to me. And little to do with protecting the vulnerable in society, which is what the left is about.

But that's part of the debate . We have too many so-called vulnerable people who don't provide for themselves . The left will give whatever they want whereas the right want a level of social responsibility and are to a degree the main tax payers so want a say in where their taxes go .
I think things have gone too far for any party to be satisfied.

Swingstotheleftslidetotheright · 08/05/2023 17:26

Are we doing the wonderful Mumsnet thing of strawmanning a discussion? I do believe we are.

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TheHandmaiden · 08/05/2023 17:23

The Tory Party aren't right wing? My goodness I wonder what will happen to their diversity once they out of power?

Swingstotheleftslidetotheright · 08/05/2023 17:22

LadyWithLapdog · 08/05/2023 17:20

@SoTired12 Jesus fucking wept.

Why? Right wing = racism and antisemitism (broadly speaking)

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LadyWithLapdog · 08/05/2023 17:20

@SoTired12 Jesus fucking wept.

SoTired12 · 08/05/2023 17:19

LadyWithLapdog · 08/05/2023 16:54

Sorry to see you’re uncomfortable with the Tories being called right wing. But that’s the reality in the UK.

If the Tories were right wing then we wouldn't have the most ethnically diverse cabinet we have now, nor the level of immigration we have. We also wouldn't have/celebrate things like black history month/pride.

LadyWithLapdog · 08/05/2023 17:19

”appropriate precautions” being rounding up people and gagging them? Do you know who else did this prior to visits? Some of the EE dictators. They admitted to hospital people with schizophrenia, known political dissidents, homeless people. All “just in case”. So yeah, not a path I thought we’d go down in this country. BTW those were left wing governments. Now this Tory right wing government is doing the same.

LadyWithLapdog · 08/05/2023 17:15

@ILikePizzas heh? I can argue whatever I want. The Tories are right wing. They are shutting down protest. What’s your problem with me pointing this out? I don’t care how they are on a global scale. I live in the UK and I care about my life and rights here.

Swingstotheleftslidetotheright · 08/05/2023 17:10

LadyWithLapdog · 08/05/2023 16:58

I’ll leave you to your mental gymnastics @Swingstotheleftslidetotheright There’s always the risk of terrorism. So? We gag people? How do you square the right to free speech and expression with pre-emptively rounding up people and gagging them. Cos Charlie boy might get upset.

It's not mental gymnastics to know an event as big as the coronation will put people at risk and appropriate precautions will be necessary

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FourTeaFallOut · 08/05/2023 17:09

I think that there are good social and cultural anchors in this country that keep most of the country oscillating in the center. At the moment, those people aren't well represented by the noisiest commentators on either side.

I do think there has been push back in response to the social - progressivists and when people look for an alternative voice, the ones waiting in the wings are bolder conservative voices. But people aren't passive sponges - they listen and evaluate opinions against their everyday lives. I think our common sense values about fairness, truthfulness and compassion exist even when the 'knowledge class' have lost their fucking minds.

TheHandmaiden · 08/05/2023 17:06

I note these concerns suddenly seem to those on the right after it seems clear there will be a Labour government and the regressive agenda of the last five years, whooped on and encouraged in the mostly right wing press with Brexit, insulting our neighbours, cod racism in Home Secretaries, bullying civil servants and declaring the BBC as effective enemy, just might be waking up to the idea that this "vampires in charge of the blood bank" style of politics is not too pleasant if you don't agree.

I dare say it is. But since there's a right wing government that destroyed most of the conventions and rules to stop real abuse of power, you are going to have a left wing government that will enjoy power like this just as much. And on the way out, the Conservatives will try and reform the civil service to politicize it.

Wow, it's like they never thought they would lose. Yea, it will be a very nasty time to be a Conservative, and you can thank your own people for removing the boundaries in the last five years.

ILikePizzas · 08/05/2023 17:05

LadyWithLapdog · 08/05/2023 16:53

The right wing Tory government is shutting down the right to protest. What do you say about that @Swingstotheleftslidetotheright

You are focussing on arguing what and who is right or left and how much.

It's irrelevant. It's a distraction.

Instead of trying to label a thing and then arguing about the label - just debate the thing.

scatterolight · 08/05/2023 17:05

We can't "go back" because nations across the west are no longer the cohesive entities that they once were. In the modern era we champion individualism and diversity and that means vast attitudinal and cultural gulfs between people occupying the same geographical space. It's the price we pay.

In the US there is occasionally talk of secession both from left and right but it's doubtful that will come to anything and of course it can't apply to us. I believe the polarisation is here to stay and we just need to get used to it and be as gracious as we can to eachother.

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