Been on four dates with a man, enjoyed our dates and becoming more and more attracted to him. He's 34 and I'm 30, we both have a child each.
Last night the conversation turned sexual over texts and he told me that he struggles to get hard and often doesn't come. He said that we can use other means like tongue and fingers though.
In my experience, men that have this problem so young are either using drugs or too much porn.
It's obviously worked in the past as he has a child, so wouldn't the obvious thing be to look at what has happened since then and sort it rather than just declaring that his dick doesn't work.
I feel bad but it's just given me the ick, I can't really be bothered dealing with anything like that. I would like a normal sex life.
AIBU?