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dimpleknee · 05/05/2023 18:21

I'm gobsmacked by babysitting rate- just been quoted £7-10 per hour! Possibly because I'm an older Mum who only got a fiver a night back in the day. Say you go for a meal and drinks with friends, leaving home at 7, back at midnight- £50??? Really? On top of night spends? Who can afford this?

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n3f5 · 17/12/2024 19:28

@Neurodiversitydoctor No, standard rate. She used to be £18 per hour!

wherethewaterisdarker · 17/12/2024 19:21

We pay our lovely babysitter £10 an hour and that seems like excellent value to me (tbf our kids are awake while she’s here, it’s not sitting and watching telly!). I have quite strong feelings about how much we devalue female care work and think it’s really important to treat it as a real job! God maybe we should pay her more 😂

Neurodiversitydoctor · 17/12/2024 19:03

n3f5 · 12/12/2024 14:09

Just got quoted £20 p/h!

Is that for a weekend in December ? That is absolutely peak of peak time it will be the most expensive night of the year.

We are South East ( not London) Dd gets £7:50/ hr double after midnight.

caramac04 · 16/12/2024 18:57

I’d happily babysit for £10ph. As a mother of 4 and a granny with professional training I am also very reliable and trustworthy. I’d get a new DBS if I thought I could earn a bit of pin money.

n3f5 · 12/12/2024 14:09

Just got quoted £20 p/h!

DonnaMarkZara · 02/08/2024 22:59

I am astounded that a Mother would think that 7-10 pounds an hour is expensive to keep
her children safe and happy !!! I pay my dog walker 15 pounds for a 40 minute walk ! Let's get things into perspective, These are your precious babies for heavens sake

Pipp223 · 09/06/2024 17:21

Average I see in my area is £12-£15 if they're doing kids food/bath/bed, maybe a bit less if they turn up when children are already asleep.
That's based on sitters who are already DBS checked, have references etc. They're generally qualified professionals who also work in a related field (teachers, nursery staff).

Theelephantinthecastle · 09/06/2024 17:20

WotchaDoing · 09/06/2024 17:09

You need to remember that most people pay tax on minimum wage, so paying £15 an hour cash in the hand is a lot!

That's a good point too

And I just realised the PP had also rolled in statutory holiday pay as well which you definitely don't need to do for a babysitter

I am a bit surprised by £15/hr, astonished by £20/hr that someone mentioned.

WotchaDoing · 09/06/2024 17:09

You need to remember that most people pay tax on minimum wage, so paying £15 an hour cash in the hand is a lot!

Theelephantinthecastle · 09/06/2024 16:50

Desperatelyseekingcommonsense · 09/06/2024 08:23

I’m not really surprised by the rates. If you roll statutory holiday pay in with min wage then it’s about £12.60 per hour. If you’re self employed and I assume you should be then £15 ph It’s probably a minimum to take home minimum wage.

Min wage isn't really relevant here as babysitters aren't employed by the parents.

It's not generally anyone's sole income, more a top up thing and is usually a fairly easy gig.

Our current babysitter is a teacher and she uses her babysitting time to do her marking, she charges £11/hr

Bayleaf25 · 09/06/2024 08:50

My 16-18 year old was paid £10 an hour (in the last couple of years).

HowWasTheEnd · 09/06/2024 08:49

My DDs babysat for £7-£8 an hour with a bit more for late nights for our neighbours kids. They went out a lot and the kids were nearly always in bed. It was money for nothing - the girls made hundreds and hundreds from it and hardly thought of it as work.

I'd employ a teen and pay maybe £9 depending where you live and depending on what they have to do.

There are plenty of responsible teens around and if the kids are easy or asleep it's not comparable to other jobs.

If you are paying a professional then obviously that's a different t situation.

Desperatelyseekingcommonsense · 09/06/2024 08:23

I’m not really surprised by the rates. If you roll statutory holiday pay in with min wage then it’s about £12.60 per hour. If you’re self employed and I assume you should be then £15 ph It’s probably a minimum to take home minimum wage.

MusicstillonMTV · 09/06/2024 07:51

Am surprised by the £15-20 hr rates

We are in London so it's generally more expensive here and we pay £10-12/hr. It does feel like a big cost for a night out but for us it's worth it a few times a year

Had a quick look at sitters.co.uk and they suggest £12/HR for London

Brumhilda · 09/06/2024 07:43

If we could find a babysitter that we like, then it would be a lot more than this to be fair. £15 an hour is run of the mill, and we’ve been quoted £20 with a minimum of £60 for a booking.

we only want to go out for a couple of hours to get away from our toddler, not even a whole night or anything.

BardsAreAssholes · 09/06/2024 07:26

Going rate for teens here is between £7.50 and £12 per hour depending on number of children and whether the teen is giving them dinner etc.

Mist of them volunteer at Rainbows or Beavers etc, so are known to many of the families as reliable and responsible.

The teen babysitters ‘bequeath’ the wealthy families to slightly younger friends or siblings as they age out and go off to university because they all love working for the high paying ones, quite naturally.

yogpot · 09/06/2024 07:06

I pay £15 which is a little expensive but we didn’t have many options where we live and she was the one with the best qualifications and references - plus, my child likes her. I interviewed some people charging minimum wage and they didn’t have the same level of references, it is what it is. I’m not going to skimp on my child’s welfare and even when he’s in bed my sitter is still responsible for him so I don’t think she should earn less. It’s a big responsibility!

She’s a star, she constantly offers to do housework when she sits, I tell her not to! She’s cheap compared to our £20 an hour cleaner, and slightly more expensive than our very good gardener who is £12 so frankly it’s my slightly shit cleaner I feel is more of a rip off.

Cel77 · 09/06/2024 06:57

How much would you want to be paid to look after other people's children for one evening?

FrancisBottomhill · 09/06/2024 06:29

NurseryNurse10 · 05/05/2023 18:53

Also, You still have to pay at least minimum wage which is
£10.42 for those aged 23 and over.
£10.18 for those aged 22-22.
£7.49 for those aged 18-20
£5.28 for under 18's

So as I said, if you want it cheap you will need to pick someone very young

Those are not the latest figures, now £6.40 is the under 18 rate and £11.44 for over 21s. You might not be required to pay that, but we feel it's only right even if babysitter is only 14 or something.

Tourmalines · 09/06/2024 03:30

Can’t understand why you would need to pay your adult children to babysit . I mean , then why not pay grandparents ? Im a grandparent but obviously I’ve never charged . Wouldn’t dream of it.

Readingthebelljar · 09/06/2024 03:16

I think it’s important to note that most people nanny/babysit as a profession and often rely solely on these earnings. Whilst they stay late, and awake, away from home, in your home and may have to do a range of things for children they don’t know, are you expecting to pay them £20 which can just about buy a lunch nowadays?

mnisannoyingAF · 06/05/2023 15:52

God I would loooove to pay only that. How much do you think your kids safety is worth?

Desperatelyseekingcommonsense · 06/05/2023 13:34

I know, I can’t afford it either so I don’t go anywhere unless they are with their Dad.

Gymmum82 · 06/05/2023 13:34

We pay £5 an hour for a 14 year old friends daughter to babysit.
When the kids were younger we’d pay a lady who worked in the nursery and she charged £12 an hour back then. Which was a good 5 years ago.
Seems reasonable to me. We’d only be out around 7pm to 11pm so £20 for a night out

drpet49 · 06/05/2023 13:29

SchoolShenanigans · 05/05/2023 18:32

Really?! So your babysitter, who sits watching TV while the children are upstairs/asleep earns £75 for 5 hours "work"?!

That's a rip off and im surprised many people pay that.

It would be different if she was cleaning your house, washing your laundry and organising your cupboards all night. But £75, tax free presumably, for sitting on their arse is crazy money.

I agree