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to be alarmed that more and more places are allowing dogs?

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wheelings · 26/04/2023 12:12

Just went to Wilko recently who had a sign up saying all dogs welcome. Went to a bistro and they allowed dogs too. Had lunch listening to small yappy dogs.

Since when did it become acceptable to allow dogs into shops and food places?

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Daisybuttercup12345 · 27/04/2023 17:36

DewinDwl · 26/04/2023 12:24

Dangerous, unhygienic animals with entitled owners. YANBU.

Don't be so ridiculous and judgemental.

thecrispfiend · 27/04/2023 17:33

I don't get this obsession with dogs... we always had a dog growing up but never a big deal made of it. Now I have colleagues wanting to put their dogs on teams calls and show me pictures of them some even have their own social media pages. The people that are batty over their dogs seem to mainly be either people who are child free by choice or people whose kids have flown the nest. I'm glad the dogs bring happiness but I can't get too excited about them really. Businesses allow them in because it makes good business sense I suppose with so many households owning a dog now

dollybird · 27/04/2023 17:29

When you're sitting in a pub eating your lunch, and a dog at the next table has a crap on the floor, you know it's gone too far.

DancedByTheLightOfTheMoon · 27/04/2023 17:22

I would much rather encounter dogs whilst out and about than miserable sour faced humans anyday.

MrsSkylerWhite · 27/04/2023 17:18

Runaway0

“It's selfish dragging your dog along wherever you want to “

agrree, most at far happier at home in peace.

AlwaysGinPlease · 27/04/2023 17:14

All this frothing makes me even happier to take my (incredibly well behaved) dogs to all the usual places. Happy in the knowledge that it's pissing some loon dog hater off . I didn't ever think like this but all these anti dog people are making me think that way.

fitzwilliamdarcy · 27/04/2023 16:39

AskMeMore · 27/04/2023 16:30

@fitzwilliamdarcy I did not see that. Plenty of younger people with disabilities are in care homes. Do you mean only people 90 plus? 80 plus? Any adult in a care home?

I mean voluntary euthanasia. Where people can choose for themselves whether they do not have quality of life and no longer wish to be alive. I am a huge advocate for that policy (and would take advantage of it, myself).

In hindsight I should not have said I hope that care homes no longer exist. That is my own prejudice as I’ve seen dreadful things happen in them, but clearly there will continue to be a need for them and in that case I hope that they are improved so that they enrich the lives of those who reside there (rather than the opposite, which is my experience).

RampantIvy · 27/04/2023 16:39

Mumsnet really hates dogs🙄
don't go.to.places that allow dogs if it's a problem for you.

IMO it's a pretty even split @x2boys
Dog lovers think that mumsnet hates dogs. I don't mind them.

I don't have a problem with anyone bringing a well trained dog to anywhere I have chosen to go. I can anticipate that if a place gets too full of lots of badly behaved dogs then pandemonium will follow.

Cake is far more of a danger in a cafe. Mine once got hold of two large slices of homemade carrot cake (with sultanas) and gobbled the lot. That was an expensive vet bill.

Isn't that a risk that all dog owners have to anticipate when taking their dogs into a cafe?

I think that as fewer and fewer places ban dogs it does become more difficult for people who are allergic to dogs or who are dog phobic. Yoy then reach a point where dog allergic and dog phobic people are afraid to leave the house. There needs to be some balance.

I saw a large dog pee on some maxi dresses in M&S not long ago. The owner didn't notice, but I pointed it out to the staff. Disgusting.

I saw this sign on a rug stall in Ely last year @NeverTrustAPoliceman

to be alarmed that more and more places are allowing dogs?
AskMeMore · 27/04/2023 16:30

@fitzwilliamdarcy I did not see that. Plenty of younger people with disabilities are in care homes. Do you mean only people 90 plus? 80 plus? Any adult in a care home?

fitzwilliamdarcy · 27/04/2023 16:22

@AskMeMore It’s actually really wound me up how you’ve twisted my words - there is quite clearly a difference between care homes (where many people have no quality of life) and caters for people with disabilities, where assistance is needed to help someone achieve quality of life and dignity. You know this but for whatever reason have tried to insinuate that I’m promoting eugenics, for reasons best known to you.

fitzwilliamdarcy · 27/04/2023 16:18

@WalkingAwayNow I don’t like dogs, so I don’t have an addled brain, but go off I guess.

@AskMeMore Yes because that’s exactly what I said. 🙄

AskMeMore · 27/04/2023 15:27

@fitzwilliamdarcy So anyone disabled who needs their arse wiped should be killed?

WalkingAwayNow · 27/04/2023 15:04

AlwaysGinPlease · 27/04/2023 14:09

Agreed. Had dogs my whole life, frequented many a Dog friendly establishment many times over the years and I have NEVER seen any such nonsense happening as reported by the Anti Dog Brigade! Ever!

I have however seen countless badly behaved children...

Do you not think there are more incompetent dog-owners now than before?

Why do you think dog-owners/lovers are also complaining here about the increasing problems caused by dogs? What’s their agenda?

WalkingAwayNow · 27/04/2023 15:01

fitzwilliamdarcy · 27/04/2023 12:29

I suspect the reason why many hate dogs is because they know that a far bigger segment of the general public will stop and fuss over a dog but not their child. It’s jealousy, basically.

I work with someone who gets cross a lot about how nobody will stop and ask about or fuss over her “gorgeous bundle” but they will over “some random mutt”.

As for care homes etc. I’m hoping for more for your kids than to do that job - I hope that care homes no longer exist and there’ll be a way to end your own life with dignity when you get to the point where someone would have to wipe your arse for you. Would also stop the endless nonsense of “you must tolerate my obnoxious sticky children because they’ll be wiping your bum one day” or whatever.

‘I suspect the reason why many hate dogs is because they know that a far bigger segment of the general public will stop and fuss over a dog but not their child. It’s jealousy, basically’

Lol. What a desperate reach. Thanks for the laugh though.

Your doggy-addled brain cannot accept the more ordinary reasons for not liking dogs so you invented this one. Ha, nice try though; at least it’s inventive. 👏

Yellowdays · 27/04/2023 14:56

Although I do think it would be unreasonable to take one to a toddler group.

Yellowdays · 27/04/2023 14:55

Here dogs are allowed in certain restaurants, but it would be uncommon to see more than one at any particular time. So I thinks it's a fuss over nothing. I don't have a dog either.

Tanith · 27/04/2023 14:52

vodkaredbullgirl · 27/04/2023 13:46

Why would you take your dog to a toddler group?

No idea! It sounds like a disaster waiting to happen.

Silverrocks · 27/04/2023 14:30

I hate it, of course service dogs are different and I think some pubs allowing dogs is great so people have a choice, but when it seems to be everywhere now there's no escape from them. Not everyone likes dogs yet wherever you go you're likely to have one snaffling round your feet, shedding and stinking the place.

yoohoo0 · 27/04/2023 14:23

AlwaysGinPlease · 27/04/2023 14:09

Agreed. Had dogs my whole life, frequented many a Dog friendly establishment many times over the years and I have NEVER seen any such nonsense happening as reported by the Anti Dog Brigade! Ever!

I have however seen countless badly behaved children...

@AlwaysGinPlease yet it is mostly dogs who are banned and not children....

SquareRootOfAllEvil · 27/04/2023 14:20

Is it different in city centre type places? Urban dogs Vs rural dogs?

I think it might be - the dogs I’ve seen in pubs at the end / in the middle of a long country walk do not seem to be the same as some of the yappy accessories in some town cafes…

AlwaysGinPlease · 27/04/2023 14:09

SliceOfCakeCupOfTea · 27/04/2023 14:03

I will admit that I just shake my head when I read some of the stories on these threads about dogs pissing on clothes, climbing on tables in cafes, getting into fights in pubs etc.

I just don't believe these stories are true! At least not most of them.
I grew up with dogs, our local shops, pubs, cafes etc are all dog friendly, my friends and family still have dogs so I'm regularly in these places with dogs and have never seen half of what people are talking about. My parents own a dog who is absolutely not friendly either. We took him to a pub once, realised it was more stress for us to keep him calm so just didn't take him back. Which is what the majority of experienced dog owners would do.

Is it different in city centre type places? Urban dogs Vs rural dogs?

Agreed. Had dogs my whole life, frequented many a Dog friendly establishment many times over the years and I have NEVER seen any such nonsense happening as reported by the Anti Dog Brigade! Ever!

I have however seen countless badly behaved children...

SliceOfCakeCupOfTea · 27/04/2023 14:03

I will admit that I just shake my head when I read some of the stories on these threads about dogs pissing on clothes, climbing on tables in cafes, getting into fights in pubs etc.

I just don't believe these stories are true! At least not most of them.
I grew up with dogs, our local shops, pubs, cafes etc are all dog friendly, my friends and family still have dogs so I'm regularly in these places with dogs and have never seen half of what people are talking about. My parents own a dog who is absolutely not friendly either. We took him to a pub once, realised it was more stress for us to keep him calm so just didn't take him back. Which is what the majority of experienced dog owners would do.

Is it different in city centre type places? Urban dogs Vs rural dogs?

AlwaysGinPlease · 27/04/2023 13:57

@Elphame

Wow. Your poor dogs. Grapes , raisins currants and sultanas are toxic for ALL dogs. Regardless of breed etc. you should know this as an owner.

fitzwilliamdarcy · 27/04/2023 13:56

Thesharkradar · 27/04/2023 13:29

Imagine the headline:
"MAN'S ARM RIPPED OFF IN TESCO DOG ATTACK"
Tesco frantically trying to cover it up whilst multiple footages of the attack with blood sprayed all over the chiller cabinets are uploaded on social media.
I strongly suspect that would put an end to all the dog friendliness.

I think you might just have an overactive imagination.

Mercurial123 · 27/04/2023 13:50

YouJustDoYou · 27/04/2023 13:45

I wouldn't mind if the owners actually had control over their animals so they don't jump up all the time, but so many just bray out the name of the dog over and over whilst the dog ignores them completely.

I've experienced this often, not with dogs but young children.