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to be alarmed that more and more places are allowing dogs?

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wheelings · 26/04/2023 12:12

Just went to Wilko recently who had a sign up saying all dogs welcome. Went to a bistro and they allowed dogs too. Had lunch listening to small yappy dogs.

Since when did it become acceptable to allow dogs into shops and food places?

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Naunet · 26/04/2023 13:53

Redebs · 26/04/2023 13:46

Dogs shed dried skin, hair and drool. When they pant or shake, they create a cloud of bacteria, mould spores and dander. They also leave traces of feces behind when they sit on furniture.
Some dogs carry parasites and diseases that can transmit to humans, especially children or those who are immunocompromised.

Some people have allergies to dogs.
Some are afraid of them.

Whereas humans are bleach clean! No chance of catching anything from a human (Let’s quickly forget the manmade COVID pandemic).

Porkandbeans1 · 26/04/2023 13:52

leilani83 · 26/04/2023 13:49

If you're scared of bacteria how can you even leave the house? There's bacteria everywhere. YOU shed dried skin, hair and maybe even drool! 😂

This. And I've worked in many kitchens over the years, I would be more concerned about the cleanliness in there. 15 years old pot washers on a couple of quid an hour don't care.

RichardHeed · 26/04/2023 13:51

It's grim like, and I bet people would be kicking off if a cafe was full of rotties or great danes, but small fuckerpoos seem to be fine and dandy.

Teateaandmoretea · 26/04/2023 13:51

I must admit I haven’t noticed this, but I don’t go shopping much.

Dogs have always been allowed on buses though my mum said when she was a child they charged for them. So I was puzzled by this yesterday.

What has changed and is irritating is the dog indulgence and the yapping when they go out in gardens in greater numbers than before.

soggydigestives · 26/04/2023 13:51

It's because of silly entitled owners treating them as though they're human. They're animals. Should absolutely NOT be in shops, in particular food establishments. I saw a dog sat up in the booth with his mucky paws and face all over the table. Absolutely disgusting I don't know why health and safety allow it!

leilani83 · 26/04/2023 13:49

Redebs · 26/04/2023 13:46

Dogs shed dried skin, hair and drool. When they pant or shake, they create a cloud of bacteria, mould spores and dander. They also leave traces of feces behind when they sit on furniture.
Some dogs carry parasites and diseases that can transmit to humans, especially children or those who are immunocompromised.

Some people have allergies to dogs.
Some are afraid of them.

If you're scared of bacteria how can you even leave the house? There's bacteria everywhere. YOU shed dried skin, hair and maybe even drool! 😂

Porkandbeans1 · 26/04/2023 13:48

One of my favourite local restaurants allows dogs. I love it, especially when the owners don't mind you petting them. I won't take my dog out though. I find it too stressful.

LaLoba · 26/04/2023 13:48

DidyouNO · 26/04/2023 13:29

SliceOfCakeCupOfTea
Of course I do but there is rarely any cafes left that don't allow dogs in our area so we rarely
Eat out anymore. I had to move out of the queue in iceland this morning because of a pug tucked under someone's arm.
I'm really sad that my son cannot join in much anyway and now we can't do the things we'd like to do. Even finding a holiday that didn't allow dogs was really hard work.
So yes I do. All the time. But it should t be this hard.

That sounds rubbish for you all, I’m really sorry. I don’t take my dogs to enclosed public spaces as a rule, but on the whole if I got any signals that someone had major phobia or allergies, I’d give a wide berth so as to try not to make it worse.
It’s a shame that the people most likely to ask nicely for this kind of consideration are often those least likely to want to “impose”.

KimberleyClark · 26/04/2023 13:47

Chasingadvice · 26/04/2023 12:40

Or don't allow dogs in places they have no business being in. Like places that serve food and drinks. You may be happy with dirty dogs running around you when you eat but other people are not. And yes- all dogs are dirty. Your 'perfectly clean' animal still licks other animals arses.

I’ve never had dogs running around me in dog friendly places. Had plenty of kids doing that though.

Redebs · 26/04/2023 13:46

Dogs shed dried skin, hair and drool. When they pant or shake, they create a cloud of bacteria, mould spores and dander. They also leave traces of feces behind when they sit on furniture.
Some dogs carry parasites and diseases that can transmit to humans, especially children or those who are immunocompromised.

Some people have allergies to dogs.
Some are afraid of them.

GoodChat · 26/04/2023 13:45

aliloandabanana · 26/04/2023 13:07

What puzzles me is that shops and cafes must have had a reason for not letting in dogs previously, so what has changed? Surely it was for hygiene and food safety reasons that they weren't allowed in places where people were eating. I don't mind dogs but I don't understand why they need to be in shops and restaurants.

I think previously dogs were seen as dirty pets.

Now they're seen as family members.

EvelynKatie · 26/04/2023 13:45

BreviloquentBastard · 26/04/2023 12:31

I don't really get it to be honest. I have three dogs, I love dogs, they're great... but I don't want to take them shopping with me or to restaurants or pubs, if I'm going out they stay home. That's the benefit of dogs over children, you don't have to take them with you everywhere you go!

I feel like COVID and lockdown produced a lot of bad dog owners who never did separation work with their dogs so can't leave them alone for fear they'll destroy the house. My three can be happily left for hours if necessary, they just loaf on the sofa until we get back.

This! Also a dog lover and owner and I don't get how, especially since lockdown, people think they're like kids and can't go anywhere without them.

Emotionalsupportviper · 26/04/2023 13:44

If "more and ore places are allowing dogs" it is for one reason only.

They make more profit that way.

I imagine it also ultimately works to increase the popularity of the remaining places which don't allow dogs, boosting their profits, too.

Win-win, one would think, except you might have to travel further to find a dog-free tea shop.

mynameisbrian · 26/04/2023 13:43

I am pleased that our now dog friendly restaurant remains relatively dog free. The other local cafe is tiny and I wont go in it as I regularly found myself sat next to a large breed or someone with a small breed on there lap feeding it off the plate. Gross all round and I own a dog.

I don't want to sit in a restaurant with a dog so I choose to go to places without them or with not many dogs, not bothered with dogs in non food stores - alot of lock down dogs have separation anxiety so being able to take them with you is great

SliceOfCakeCupOfTea · 26/04/2023 13:43

Missingmyusername · 26/04/2023 13:41

Same thread every day.

Nah they are different. We'll have a new thread every time someone discovers another shop/cafe/restaurant brand that allows dogs. Yesterday's thread was about buses. Today's is Wilko's.

Coming next week: Dobbies.

CrescentstarMoon · 26/04/2023 13:43

LaLoba · 26/04/2023 13:04

I wonder how many people (including the cafe owners) were irritated by your child wandering around dropping food? Personally I see it as my responsibility to train my dog to drop on command, and wouldn’t take him to a cafe, but I wouldn’t appreciate a toddler bimbling around dropping food on the floor, and would consider her a trip hazard. Perhaps controlling your child will lead to less confrontation?

We were walking out as we had finished and we’re going home …… dd was just holding the rest of her chocolate to eat on the way to the station. She had sat down the whole time up till then

Naunet · 26/04/2023 13:41

DewinDwl · 26/04/2023 12:24

Dangerous, unhygienic animals with entitled owners. YANBU.

Good god, why do people say things like this? WE, human beings, invited dogs into our lives, we made them dependant on us, we used them to our benefit - to help the blind, to find bombs, to find people who are lost, to protect us and livestock from predators, to find bodies, to hunt, to search for drugs, to help us herd other animals, to alert us to epileptic fits etc. They save FAR, FAR more lives than they damage and despite being animals with far less intelligence than us, we hold them to a higher standard than we hold ourselves, expecting them to behave like robots. More dogs are beaten and hurt by people than the other way around, but who cares, they’re just animals, right?

I fucking HATE the human race, absolute parasites, we just take and take.

Missingmyusername · 26/04/2023 13:41

Same thread every day.

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Daisymae55 · 26/04/2023 13:40

I feel so mixed on this. I work in a high end boutique and we allow dogs. 90% of the dogs are calm, well behaved and cause no issues. Plus we all love seeing them and saying hi to them. However, the other 10% are either chaotic or like to pee everywhere.

That being said, we get a lot more well behaved dogs than we get well behaved children… (and I say this as a mum myself). The amount of parents who let their kids come in and cause carnage is far more frustrating to me than the odd dog peeing. Again, I say this as a mum to a very restless and easily annoyed toddler so I’m not hating on kids in general.

DisquietintheRanks · 26/04/2023 13:39

I don't think that objecting to dogs pissing and shitting (and barking, and jumping up) in the places that you eat and shop makes you a dog hater, does it?

I've seen dogs pissing on low shelving in Home Bargins. And the Silverburn shopping centre in Glasgow tried going dog friendly then had to backtrack due to fouling problems. Grim.

https://www.glasgowlive.co.uk/news/glasgows-silverburn-stop-dog-friendly-26185139

Silverburn to stop dog friendly trial amid 'dog poo' spotted in food court

The Barrhead Road shopping complex made the announcement on social media this morning that their dog-friendly trial will be coming to an end following feedback from customers.

https://www.glasgowlive.co.uk/news/glasgows-silverburn-stop-dog-friendly-26185139

Roughashouses · 26/04/2023 13:37

Let me know when you can call house

to be alarmed that more and more places are allowing dogs?
mn29 · 26/04/2023 13:36

mn29 · 26/04/2023 13:35

I hate that everyone is expected to like dogs just because a lot of people love them.

Do I mind you liking dogs and owning a dog? Not at all? Do I object to your dog running up to me and licking/jumping up on me? Absolutely. Would I like to eat in a restaurant/coffee shop etc and not have to contend with dogs? Yes.

Obviously no need for a question mark after not at all.

mn29 · 26/04/2023 13:35

I hate that everyone is expected to like dogs just because a lot of people love them.

Do I mind you liking dogs and owning a dog? Not at all? Do I object to your dog running up to me and licking/jumping up on me? Absolutely. Would I like to eat in a restaurant/coffee shop etc and not have to contend with dogs? Yes.

SquareRootOfAllEvil · 26/04/2023 13:34

Jaxhog · 26/04/2023 12:45

I like dogs but think there is a time and a place for them. The occasional, well-behaved dog in a pub or casual cafe is fine. But a pack of bustling dogs right next to me when I'm eating is not fine. Nor is a little dog peeing under my chair.

Too many dog owners think their dogs are little gods and far more important than other people. (This also applies to cellos)

What have you got against cellos? They definitely should be allowed everywhere - take up a lot of space, but generally clean and make a much more pleasant sound than dogs or children…

Trinityloop · 26/04/2023 13:34

My most mumsnet encounter in real life was about this
I once asked a pub if it was dog friendly, they said it wasn't so I said in a neutral tone "ah nevermind" and went to walk out.The customer by the door had a rant about how I should leave my dog at home, that I was entitled etc

The things is that as I had my dog outside, If it wasn't dog friendly then it didn't work for me. It's no more entitled then asking if they have suitable food options, or allow children.