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to be alarmed that more and more places are allowing dogs?

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wheelings · 26/04/2023 12:12

Just went to Wilko recently who had a sign up saying all dogs welcome. Went to a bistro and they allowed dogs too. Had lunch listening to small yappy dogs.

Since when did it become acceptable to allow dogs into shops and food places?

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Endlesssummer2022 · 26/04/2023 14:09

This place used to be interesting but I hardly bother now. It’s just dogs, trans, parking and surrogacy on repeat with the same outrage in different words. Yawnfest.

ChestermanBeach · 26/04/2023 14:07

*least

ChestermanBeach · 26/04/2023 14:05

Saschka · 26/04/2023 13:10

Oh I have! There is a pub near Box Hill in Surrey which a) does food, and b) is full of dogs. I saw a waiter trip over a dog on an extendable lead (owners sitting at one table ignoring the dog, which had wandered over on its leash to a different table to beg food). Waiter tripped over the lead while carrying about 4 mains. It was spectacular, food went everywhere.

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At leads the dog’s were there to clean up.

Coldilox · 26/04/2023 14:04

RichardHeed · 26/04/2023 13:51

It's grim like, and I bet people would be kicking off if a cafe was full of rotties or great danes, but small fuckerpoos seem to be fine and dandy.

Rotties are my favourite. I hope to get one when I retire. Am delighted to see rotties and great Dane’s in local dog friendly places.

Teder · 26/04/2023 14:04

DidyouNO · 26/04/2023 13:20

It's disgusting. I have a three year old who has severe complex needs and cannot be in an environment with dogs in. People shrug and say 'I'd rather be with dogs than kids' but humans aren't deathly allergic to other humans. My son is deathly allergic to dogs. I've witnessed several dog fights/disagreement because dogs fight over food. It must be awful for the animals. It's warm, sometimes too warm for a fur coated animal in a cafe and smells nice but I'd imagine confusing, then there are other dogs in a confined space. It's just horrible.

Not that I have any desire to take my dog to a cafe or shop (except occasionally, pets at home) but if I did and you politely explained, I would absolutely leave and not put your child at risk. I am sure many people would do the same. 🙂

Nomorescreentime · 26/04/2023 14:03

My Dd is allergic to dogs and she’s had a few awful flares from us going out for a meal to places I didn’t realise were dog friendly. Of course we avoid places we know are, but it’s sadly a barrier to us spending money in some local businesses.

ilovesooty · 26/04/2023 14:03

Runaway0 · 26/04/2023 12:42

There's too many chavs with poorly trained dogs who think it's their right to encroach on others enjoyment. What's with dogs being off lead in parks allowing them to jump up on members of the public?

chavs

Here we go again.

Teder · 26/04/2023 14:02

Jitterybugs · 26/04/2023 13:53

When they pant or shake, they create a cloud of bacteria, mould spores and dander. They also leave traces of feces behind when they sit on furniture.

Youve just described my ex 🤣

It is also a fairly accurate description of many toddlers. We allow them in our homes, on our furniture and I even allow mine in my bed!

Naunet · 26/04/2023 14:02

Tekkentime · 26/04/2023 14:00

The whole dog-mad craze since the pandemic is really making me dislike dogs. I used to think they were ok but now I bloody can't stand them and their owners! I'm sure owners used to be more respectful of others, it's a massive shame.

Maybe it should make you hate humans, not dogs, who had no fucking say in it.

Wiennetta · 26/04/2023 14:02

Saschka · 26/04/2023 13:10

Oh I have! There is a pub near Box Hill in Surrey which a) does food, and b) is full of dogs. I saw a waiter trip over a dog on an extendable lead (owners sitting at one table ignoring the dog, which had wandered over on its leash to a different table to beg food). Waiter tripped over the lead while carrying about 4 mains. It was spectacular, food went everywhere.

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Wow that’s terrible tbf!

ChestermanBeach · 26/04/2023 14:02

Lockheart · 26/04/2023 13:55

And for the poster who's horrified because dogs lick each others arses, I've got unfortunate news for you about a surprising number of people.

🤣

Teder · 26/04/2023 14:01

Lockheart · 26/04/2023 13:55

And for the poster who's horrified because dogs lick each others arses, I've got unfortunate news for you about a surprising number of people.

😂😂😂😂😂😂 some people live very sheltered lives, don’t shatter their illusions!

CheerIeader · 26/04/2023 14:01

It's gross and I absolutely hate it.

Tekkentime · 26/04/2023 14:00

The whole dog-mad craze since the pandemic is really making me dislike dogs. I used to think they were ok but now I bloody can't stand them and their owners! I'm sure owners used to be more respectful of others, it's a massive shame.

SliceOfCakeCupOfTea · 26/04/2023 13:58

Lockheart · 26/04/2023 13:55

And for the poster who's horrified because dogs lick each others arses, I've got unfortunate news for you about a surprising number of people.

Let's not forget that during COVID people had to be taught how to wash their hands and fuck knows where they've been.

ScribblingPixie · 26/04/2023 13:58

It's a sound business decision for a lot of places I'm sure. I tend to separate dog activity and socialising & shopping but I can now nip into my local store late at night for things while walking my dog. I can go into a cafe and buy a takeaway coffee which I'd never have done before as I won't leave my dog unattended. My DH has bought a pair of jeans while passing a store with our dog which had a dog-friendly sign up - he would have bought elsewhere otherwise. I'm sure it all mounts up.

BSB30 · 26/04/2023 13:58

Jitterybugs · 26/04/2023 13:53

When they pant or shake, they create a cloud of bacteria, mould spores and dander. They also leave traces of feces behind when they sit on furniture.

Youve just described my ex 🤣

😂😂😂

booktokbear · 26/04/2023 13:57

DewinDwl · 26/04/2023 12:24

Dangerous, unhygienic animals with entitled owners. YANBU.

Lol, generalisation much?

Thunderpunt · 26/04/2023 13:56

It's interesting, in Italy and France well behaved dogs are pretty much universally accepted in food establishments in my experience. And yet the UK, apparently as a dog loving nation seems really anti dogs in these places. I think rural pubs are ok for dogs, and it doesn't bother me if I go to a café or restaurant that does have dogs.
However as a restaurant owner I won't have dogs in, and it's nothing to do with what customers want. It's all to do with the bloody hair! My own dog moults like mad at home and it drives me potty. The thought of having to hoover up dog hair from our dark wood floors at the restaurant every time a dog comes in (and I don't care if you think they're non-shedding, those ones just tend to drop bits of leaves and twigs!) fills me with dread!

Missingmyusername · 26/04/2023 13:55

Jitterybugs · 26/04/2023 13:53

When they pant or shake, they create a cloud of bacteria, mould spores and dander. They also leave traces of feces behind when they sit on furniture.

Youve just described my ex 🤣

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Lockheart · 26/04/2023 13:55

And for the poster who's horrified because dogs lick each others arses, I've got unfortunate news for you about a surprising number of people.

Missingmyusername · 26/04/2023 13:55

@SliceOfCakeCupOfTea 🤣🙈

@Naunet you aren’t wrong.

Some people like dogs. Some don’t.
I’m team dog. 🐶

But also think I’m very live and let live. If someone had an allergy- I’d move. I frequent a lot of dog friendly places, so I’m pleased more establishments allow it.

If tarantula friendly cafes suddenly started opening you wouldn’t see me for dust. I would vote with my feet and not go to those places. Isn’t it simple? Plenty of places don’t allow dogs. You don’t even know some dogs are there, most owners have taken them for a walk beforehand- they just lie there.

Naunet · 26/04/2023 13:54

soggydigestives · 26/04/2023 13:51

It's because of silly entitled owners treating them as though they're human. They're animals. Should absolutely NOT be in shops, in particular food establishments. I saw a dog sat up in the booth with his mucky paws and face all over the table. Absolutely disgusting I don't know why health and safety allow it!

You’re aware humans are animals, yes?

Jitterybugs · 26/04/2023 13:53

When they pant or shake, they create a cloud of bacteria, mould spores and dander. They also leave traces of feces behind when they sit on furniture.

Youve just described my ex 🤣

Lockheart · 26/04/2023 13:53

Roughashouses · 26/04/2023 13:37

Let me know when you can call house

I think you forgot a couple:

  • mongrels
  • can I bring my pet tarantula?
  • one looked at me funny
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