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to be alarmed that more and more places are allowing dogs?

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wheelings · 26/04/2023 12:12

Just went to Wilko recently who had a sign up saying all dogs welcome. Went to a bistro and they allowed dogs too. Had lunch listening to small yappy dogs.

Since when did it become acceptable to allow dogs into shops and food places?

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nochangeever · 26/04/2023 15:13

YANBU. After skirting round three piles of dog shit today, I wish ALL dogs and their owners to Hades.

I don't give a shit about #NADALT, use the terror laws to fine the shit out of dog owners.

ChestermanBeach · 26/04/2023 15:11

BruceAndNosh · 26/04/2023 15:08

It's not acceptable to me

If the shops/cafes/restaurant are ok with it, because they’re making money from it, then your opinion is irrelevant. 🤣

AlwaysGinPlease · 26/04/2023 15:09

@BruceAndNosh well luckily for everyone else what you think is a acceptable is irrelevant. Especially dog friendly business owners.

icanneverthinkofnc · 26/04/2023 15:09

Circe7 · 26/04/2023 14:49

Apparently 27% of households on the uk have a dog. It’s probably more in some parts of the country. It’s a huge section of the market to cut out.

Dogs are allowed in most cafes near me and it’s really rare that I’ve seen them cause a nuisance.

Exactly this, people wanting dog free will need to spend the ££ to counteract the loss of income from not allowing dogs.
It's purely financial, and businesses need to respond to what provides profits.

There are adult only hotels, campsites etc.. love the campsites because there is a market for them. Not everyone wants unhygienic, snotty, germy kids around them either..😉

DyslexicPoster · 26/04/2023 15:09

I think there's still plenty of places to eat that don't allow dogs. My friend lives near a dog friendly cafe and there are always dogs barking, yapping and lunging aggressively at other dogs in there. If my friend didn't suggest I'd never go in there. People get extremely upset on here about badly behaved kids in public, but kids needs to leave the house under the age of 18. If they didn't go to adult spaces as kids how will anyone grow up to wipe your bum when you get dementia and live in a care home. Kids need to interact with the world and learn. But they are less tolerated in the ul. In the pandemic mn was saying leave your kids locked in the car rather than a single mum take them into a shop. If it was a dog peoplecwould smash the car windows. Kids in a hot car was totally fine. MN is batshit. Always has been.

BruceAndNosh · 26/04/2023 15:08

Cheesyfootballs01 · 26/04/2023 12:17

God not another dog thread!

These questions have already been asked - it’s been acceptable for quite some time to let dogs in shops/cafe/restaurants etc….

It's not acceptable to me

AlwaysGinPlease · 26/04/2023 15:05

@Neededanewuserhandle good idea! They can all froth over there together as they clearly have nothing better to do and we can hide the topic!

AlwaysGinPlease · 26/04/2023 15:01

@Runaway0

These dogs aren't just taking themselves off to cafes and shops. They're with their human/s. Therefore that human has as much right as any other human to be there.

Honestly, dogs have been allowed in so many places for so long . Go elsewhere!

throwawayaway1 · 26/04/2023 15:01

leilani83 · 26/04/2023 13:49

If you're scared of bacteria how can you even leave the house? There's bacteria everywhere. YOU shed dried skin, hair and maybe even drool! 😂

@leilani83
@Redebs

Sorry to mention this, but so do the people preparing and serving your food
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FeltedDogs · 26/04/2023 14:57

I have dogs, I love dogs and if I lived in the UK I would no doubt enjoy an occasional lunch out with them. But, what I find galling is the smug show off way people are with their dogs, like performance pfb parents and almost dare anyone not to want a smelly muddy red setter sitting on your feet. My dogs are happy at home which is just as well because it's not like that where I live although I can recommend a Mulberry Bayswater for taking a chihuahua on the metro to the vet undetected 😀

Blossomtoes · 26/04/2023 14:57

Neededanewuserhandle · 26/04/2023 12:43

MNHQ - time for a separate section for the rabid dog haters please.

Oh, yes please.

LaMaG · 26/04/2023 14:53

I am from Rep of Ireland and visit family in UK frequently and its one of the biggest cultural differences i can see. I cannot get over seeing dogs everywhere in the UK. Here they are not allowed anywhere indoors - not shops, public transport or cafes/ restaurants. There may be some dog friendly places I don't know of but generally they are kept at home.

ScribblingPixie · 26/04/2023 14:52

angela99999 · 26/04/2023 14:33

I stopped going to a local cafe once this started happening, and so did many other people. They were just left with a few dog owners and eventually folded.

Unlikely that their business folded because they accepted dogs - if it didn't work for them, surely they'd have changed their policy.

Dulra · 26/04/2023 14:52

I remember being in France about 20 years ago and being pretty shocked at the amount of dogs in restaurants and cafes sitting on owners laps, licking food off the table and running around I thought it was disgusting then and think it's disgusting now. Each to their own though all I want is restaurant/ cafe owners to be clear that they allow dogs so I know to go elsewhere

Lancasterel · 26/04/2023 14:50

Runaway0 · 26/04/2023 14:45

A question to some dog owners why is it acceptable to unleash and allow them jump up on strangers? It's not acceptable from any other animal. I don't want a random dog climbing on me while I'm running. If your dog has shit recall leash it .

Totally agree. The amount of times on a walk I hear “it’s ok, he’s only being friendly” whilst a huge dog almost knocks over my kids is ridiculous.

I understand your dog is being friendly, but we don’t want any dog friends right now!

Circe7 · 26/04/2023 14:49

Apparently 27% of households on the uk have a dog. It’s probably more in some parts of the country. It’s a huge section of the market to cut out.

Dogs are allowed in most cafes near me and it’s really rare that I’ve seen them cause a nuisance.

Lancasterel · 26/04/2023 14:47

AlwaysGinPlease · 26/04/2023 14:45

They need to get over their fear then. Why should other people change their behavior because people can't cope with everyday life?

I don’t think small children can just “get over their fear” of animals (often larger than them!) who can be unpredictable and unruly! Like I said, I love dogs personally but don’t think they should take precedence over people!

Runaway0 · 26/04/2023 14:46

AlwaysGinPlease · 26/04/2023 14:45

They need to get over their fear then. Why should other people change their behavior because people can't cope with everyday life?

Some people have been bitten and attacked by dogs so dont like them. Humans have priority over dogs in human spaces.

AlwaysGinPlease · 26/04/2023 14:45

Lancasterel · 26/04/2023 14:42

Love dogs but don’t agree with them being allowed in shops, cafes etc - it’s not hygenic and very unfair to children in particular who are scared of dogs!

They need to get over their fear then. Why should other people change their behavior because people can't cope with everyday life?

Runaway0 · 26/04/2023 14:45

A question to some dog owners why is it acceptable to unleash and allow them jump up on strangers? It's not acceptable from any other animal. I don't want a random dog climbing on me while I'm running. If your dog has shit recall leash it .

JohnnyYenSetHimselfOnFireAgain · 26/04/2023 14:44

booktokbear · 26/04/2023 13:57

Lol, generalisation much?

I think @DewinDwl is describing kids.

Itakecreaminmycoffee · 26/04/2023 14:43

You've just reminded me - we went to a local country pub for Mother's Day and one woman had her dog sat on the seat next to her. I was gobsmacked.

Lancasterel · 26/04/2023 14:42

Love dogs but don’t agree with them being allowed in shops, cafes etc - it’s not hygenic and very unfair to children in particular who are scared of dogs!

Grimeduster · 26/04/2023 14:42

thedevilinablackdress · 26/04/2023 12:32

Was fairly surprised to see the Gaucho restaurant near my office advertising being dog friendly. It seems to pitch itself as a swanky glam place. Seemed wrong.

Do they still bring out the tray of raw meat and stand next to your table to tell you about it? Can't imagine that would go well with a labrador lying in wait under the table.

AlwaysGinPlease · 26/04/2023 14:41

Seriously!??? ANOTHER anti dog thread ?! There's one already with basically the same title. It's getting bloody ridiculous now!

Newsflash for you - if an establishment allows dogs in then you'll see dogs in there. HTH.