Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

to be alarmed that more and more places are allowing dogs?

640 replies

wheelings · 26/04/2023 12:12

Just went to Wilko recently who had a sign up saying all dogs welcome. Went to a bistro and they allowed dogs too. Had lunch listening to small yappy dogs.

Since when did it become acceptable to allow dogs into shops and food places?

OP posts:
Thread gallery
6
LaylaLjungberg · 26/04/2023 16:03

It’s good for solo people who wouldn’t be able to go on holidays or days out without a dog friendly place.

IClaudine · 26/04/2023 16:02

TheGander · 26/04/2023 15:32

I think it’s fear of losing trade. It seems everyone has a dog now and businesses are under such pressure they allow it. I also notice the affluence of dogs outdoors: on beaches, in the countryside etc. Yes I know it’s always happened but if you’re not an owner you are less forgiving of dog poo, discarded plastic poo bags etc when out on walks.

This made me laugh. I'm imagining dogs swanking around in designer sunglasses and diamond encrusted collars.

Asiatoyork · 26/04/2023 15:59

So presumably you exclusively take your child to non-dog friendly places then and you check if somewhere is dog friendly?

It never ceases to amaze me how unsympathetic and unkind people are about children with serious illnesses when dogs are involved. Straight off this is the reply to someone saying their child has complex needs and a deathly allergy to dogs.

Can’t you imagine how stressful life is to have your child at risk of a deadly allergy every time you try to leave the house and do something normal, and manage to dredge up a bit of sympathy?

sydsmum · 26/04/2023 15:50

I for one think it's wonderful. I'd much rather have dogs milling around than all the screaming, uncontrolled children anyway. Bring on the cat friendly signs. 😺

shutthewindownow · 26/04/2023 15:48

DewinDwl · 26/04/2023 12:24

Dangerous, unhygienic animals with entitled owners. YANBU.

😂😂😂

Strawberrydelight78 · 26/04/2023 15:48

We have a local dog friendly cafe on the beach. But it's popular with dog walker's so they would lose customers if dog's weren't welcome. All dogs get a free sausage and they have dog ice-cream on sale. It's always busy and the majority have dog's with them. I've been in a few times with my kids they aren't dog lovers but never had a problem with dogs barking in there.

Dibblydoodahdah · 26/04/2023 15:43

I have a severe allergy to dogs. They seem to sense it and run at me. I can come up in hives even if they touch me through clothing, and they bring on asthma attacks. Please, please if you have a dog DO NOT let it touch anyone that you do not know. And DO NOT assume that someone is scared of dogs because they are avoiding them and then try to pacify the person. I am not afraid of your dog, I am afraid of being ill and possibly ending up in hospital as I have done on several occasions. Is it really too much to ask to be able to wander through John Lewis without encountering an assault course of dogs?!!

greencheetah · 26/04/2023 15:43

I don't understand these threads to be honest.

If you/your DC/whoever doesn't like/is allergic to/afraid of dogs, don't go to the dog friendly bistro/cafe/shop.

Same as people who do have/like to mix with dogs choose to go to dog friendly places.

Strawberrydelight78 · 26/04/2023 15:42

Yes I know some Wilko's have closed. Ours is still open for now it's always busy being in the town centre. But if the whole chain is struggling then like the other chain stores in our town will go into liquidation. Some never reopened after lockdown.

caramac04 · 26/04/2023 15:42

Re the dog eating dropped chocolate, well dogs are opportunistic eaters and I think the dog owner was OTT, I wouldn’t have complained had it been my dog. However, my dc were not allowed to walk around eating.
I do think that some, say 50%, of eateries should be dog free so people have the choice to avoid dogs as is their prerogative.

TheGander · 26/04/2023 15:41

This ( dogs everywhere) has an impact on the shared environment is what I meant .

Tinybrother · 26/04/2023 15:40

TwoFluffyDogsOnMyBed · 26/04/2023 15:36

I’ve got a ‘yappy little bastard’ and he really is friendly…he’s never even done the mouthing thing that puppies do let alone bite. He’s just anxious and not the brightest spark! A lot of people can’t read dog language and can’t tell the difference between a normal bark and a snarly bark with teeth.

That said, I rarely take him in shops/cafes because it can be embarrassing and occasionally someone will over-react and not take it in good humour, and act as if he’s an XL Bully and not a bichon frise.

Oh come on, people aren’t objecting to the friendliness of the bark, you know that! It’s a horrible noise to listen to, just like a wailing child is. Parents are expected to take children making unacceptable noise out to calm down.

TheGander · 26/04/2023 15:40

There has also been a 50% rise in dog ownership since Covid. It’s noticeable. I don’t think people who are uncomfortable about it or just commenting should be slapped down as being dog haters . This place lol

bofski14 · 26/04/2023 15:40

YANBU. I'm sick of seeing stinking hairy mutts when I'm trying to eat a meal or shop. I'm allergic to dogs and don't expect to see them in clothes shops or inner precinct restaurants but fuck me, I guess. I shouldn't have to be on high alert doing normal everyday things without worrying about suddenly getting allergic or stepping on paws. Leave the dogs at home. Not everyone loves them as much as you do. A tiny chihuahua under a table isn't going to bother some people. How about when it's an XL bully off the lead sniffing at your child? I was having a meal in a beer garden last week with my child when an alsatian bounded over out of nowhere and had its head in her crotch. And of course the owner says "It's fine, she won't hurt her". No it's not fucking fine. Get your dog off my child.

Tinybrother · 26/04/2023 15:38

Presumably dog owners bring in enough money to make it worth it. I don’t really like it (and I do like dogs generally), but then loads of people object to the fact that people like me who have small children in tow are allowed into shops and cafes and restaurants - and clearly people like me spend enough money from the venue’s POV as we continue to be welcome too

ComtesseDeSpair · 26/04/2023 15:38

DarkForces · 26/04/2023 15:14

oh yay. Another dog thread. I'm unclear how it's entitled to take my dog places they're allowed. I only go to places that state they are dog friendly and check if there's specific tables/areas they'd prefer my to use.
My pup loves going to a cafe. They had a special dog menu and blankets the last place we ate. She was a paying customer!

YMMV but I don’t think most dogs do love cafes, though. Dogs generally like relaxing in their own territory around their people, and being in the outdoors sniffing about and making new doggy friends. Half the dogs I see in cafes look stressed and on edge at all the commotion and immediately perk up and can’t wait to head towards the door the moment their owner starts making leaving motions. I don’t think those owners are thinking about their dog’s needs at all.

Strawberrydelight78 · 26/04/2023 15:38

I'm not a dog owner most shop's that sell food don't allow it. I wouldn't do it myself even when I have taken my small pet's to the vet's in a pet carrier (rabbits and guinea pigs) I wouldn't go in a shop. Because I consider people with allergies. A pet shop I would but there's a couple local that pet sit for us when we go on holiday.

TwoFluffyDogsOnMyBed · 26/04/2023 15:36

Can2022getanyworse · 26/04/2023 15:17

I am not a dog lover but can certainly appreciate the joy they bring to folk, and enrich their lives.

We have a lovely local dog friendly pub near us. Great for a stop on the big dog walking route. Lots of knackered dogs, and I'm quite happy to see a snoozy or chilled out dog sitting under a table. What I don't like is the dogs who are constantly on alert or the little yappy bastards. I watched one lady last weekend spend 2 entire hours holding her dog's lead as it was tense, standing, constantly mobile and pulling the whole time. It obviously wasn't happy or comfortable in the surroundings, but 'he's friendly' was called more times than I was comfortable with.

Theres a time and place for dogs, and I think owners need too be more aware of how happy their dog is to be in places they're not used to.

I’ve got a ‘yappy little bastard’ and he really is friendly…he’s never even done the mouthing thing that puppies do let alone bite. He’s just anxious and not the brightest spark! A lot of people can’t read dog language and can’t tell the difference between a normal bark and a snarly bark with teeth.

That said, I rarely take him in shops/cafes because it can be embarrassing and occasionally someone will over-react and not take it in good humour, and act as if he’s an XL Bully and not a bichon frise.

Fannehflaps · 26/04/2023 15:36

I’d rather be in a place full of dogs than grumpy people like you. Mumsnet is full of haters. ☺️

AskMeMore · 26/04/2023 15:35

In the past people tied their dogs up outside. You can no longer do this. I am pleased dogs are allowed lots of places. Lots of pubs even offer free dog biscuits.

justasoul · 26/04/2023 15:34

I don’t mind dogs most of the time but there was a dog at my local Tesco the other day with a ‘service dog’ lead - dog was not even trained, never mind a service dog level of training Grin it was a massive, adult Labrador type, going around bumping and licking people, dragging the person it was meant to be assisting… Confused

Trained, well behaved dogs are fine.

Leopardprintisaneutral · 26/04/2023 15:34

I don't mind dog-friendly places, so long as they state this upfront so I know not to go in them. No other pet owner feels this entitlement to take their animals with them

wheelings · 26/04/2023 15:34

AlwaysGinPlease · 26/04/2023 14:45

They need to get over their fear then. Why should other people change their behavior because people can't cope with everyday life?

@AlwaysGinPlease Can you explain how DC with SEN should get over their fear?

OP posts:
TheGander · 26/04/2023 15:32

I think it’s fear of losing trade. It seems everyone has a dog now and businesses are under such pressure they allow it. I also notice the affluence of dogs outdoors: on beaches, in the countryside etc. Yes I know it’s always happened but if you’re not an owner you are less forgiving of dog poo, discarded plastic poo bags etc when out on walks.

KarmaStar · 26/04/2023 15:31

Why don't mn just have a whole topic of dog haters where they could moan to their hearts content rather than constantly clogging aibu with anti dog threads.
Yabvu.🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕

Swipe left for the next trending thread