Would you sleep with a male partner in women's underwear

the thought of his meat and two veg crammed into something lacy/silky makes me shudder

This has made me laugh and heave, in equal measure.

I did. Partner was in stockings and a corset. Was a massive turn on for both of us, but not something he wanted to do generally. Just a fun couple of times. A bit transgressive, a bit Berlin in the thirties. Naughty and fun.

I once climbed Into bed and my partner at the time had on womens nightwear.. nope, each to their own but not on my shift thanks

It would be a hard no from me. If he wants to wear knickers in his own time, let him tear on. But the thought of his meat and two veg crammed into something lacy/silky makes me shudder -would kinda kill my mood

yeah it would depend on the guy and the situation I suppose.

A guy confident to go to the RHPS in stockings heels and a corset could be a plus, a guy who thought he was prettier than I was, would be a no

They can wear whatever they want, but you can’t expect a woman to find a man in clothes not remotely designed for his body, sexy. Sorry, but underwear designed for a female body looks ridiculous on men.

I can’t vote because even the thought of them doing it solo is not at all alluring in any way whatsoever.

Biggest NO possible

No way would I even be with a guy like that ewwww

No. Not my thing. Women wearing boxers is for comfort. Men wearing women's underwear is for pleasure. Whatever floats your boat but it doesn't float mine.

A fetish is defined by the meaning that the fetish-object has for the person with the fetish.

Completely non-sexual things can become fetish-objects if someone becomes erotically fixated upon it.

For example, some men have a fetish for disability aids. This doesn’t make the disability aids intrinsically fetish-objects, it is the meaning in the mind of the person with the fetish which turns them into fetish-objects.

Disgusting

It would give me the ick I'm afraid

But only man made society has deemed these entirely man made things called clothes are for only one gender or the other.

I mean I have met some men with titties bigger than mine that could likely benefit from a sport bra but because they have a 'y' chromosome its not for them regardless of physical anatomy.

Why can't a man prefer a satin thong?

I wear boxer shorts with loungewear sometimes (basically just like wearing shorts) and I'm in no way a sexual deviant (although I am usually in this type of lounge wear when the act of coitus is initiated, I'm not sat watching telly after putting the kids to bed in my best finary) or transsexual. I know other girls that do too and no one calls women out on it. I couldn't wear them under jeans because it becomes bloody uncomfortable though, no idea how men do it.

Its the same vein as saying a man can't wear a salmon coloured shirt because society has deemed 'pink is for girls' and then calling him a homosexual deviant. I though as a society we had mostly moved past these types of sexist misogyny.

I think @MintIceo has it exactly for me, now and again it might be fun but when the fetish becomes more important then who you're with, that's a big No. It might be ego but I'd want my partner to want me not whatever thing floats his boat - crossdressers/furries/ BDSM, just not for me

Absolutely not, even before all this trans business men who liked women's clothing were a real red line for me. I asked a confused DH when we had only been dating for a short while if he had any desires that way and would have dumped him if he said yes.

Huge turn off. I've always maintained that any type of crossing dressing would be a deal-breaker for me. Gives me the ick.

For me personally it'd give me the boak but everyone is different

Personally, I think there's a bit of a difference between a kink and a fetish. Maybe just a distinction I make.

A kink, to me, is something you do every now and then that you enjoy and can spice things up a bit for you, of course if you both enjoy it, with the caveat that it's not all-consuming. You can still enjoy sex without the kink, but you also indulge in it at times.

Whereas I'd say a fetish sort of overpowers everything else, so that "regular" sex no longer excites you and you can't get off without it.

Almost like the difference between someone who enjoys alcohol and has a drink every so often vs. an alcoholic.

As long as it was "just" a kink and we could still enjoy sex without it, I'd be up for it. I have kinks but no fetishes, by the above conceptualisation.

Everyone needs to be in board, that goes without saying.

In the right circumstances - with the right person, I think I could find most things hot, including this. I think I'd try anything once. I don't need to test my theory out though as my DH would be horrified at the thought of this.

Oh, no thank you. The thought makes me very uncomfortable.

Definitely not.

Ain't that the truth😂

Nope. A
Cock and balls doesn't look any better in women's knickers.