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Paying cleaner for holidays

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Pipiste · 02/04/2023 22:22

I know it’s not about being unreasonable, but just wanted to gauge opinion as will need to get cash out by 0900 tomorrow!

Our cleaner is great, does a 2hr clean each week for £30 (3 bed, changes main bedsheets, mops everywhere, just a basic clean). So happy with her, she’s a whirlwind, it’s hard getting a cleaner round here. I give her a little present at Christmas and an extra week’s pay. Also pay if we have to cancel due to a bug. She’s very religious and is going back to Portugal for two weeks at Easter and is going to be hosting everyone, cooking, doing everting for the extended family (probably not relevant!).

Would usually not pay if she’s away on holiday, but as it’s an occasion more important to her than Christmas, should I give her extra? I was thinking of getting her an Easter card and putting £60 in it (£30 for the clean and £30 Easter bonus - although she’s away for two weeks, so maybe it should be £90, but that seems a bit over the top?). Haven’t had this dilemma before as had not had her over Easter, she started just after (she’s the first cleaner we’ve had).

Don’t want to get her an Easter gift or flowers as she won’t be in the country.

What does everyone else do?

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Pipiste · 02/04/2023 22:44

ACynicalDad · 02/04/2023 22:42

I don’t do weeks off as not sure about the precedent it sets, she takes quite a few, had her on a weekly standing order through covid and gave her double Christmas week. Much more, I don’t know….

Thanks, ours doesn’t take many holidays at all, maybe they fall on a weekend as she cleans our house mid week.

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Pipiste · 02/04/2023 22:43

ichundich · 02/04/2023 22:32

Only on MN...

Oh that’s sad. I’m on a few forums and people tend to be appreciative of paid workers, especially those who are juggling family and working life on both sides. Glad than MN are seen as good for that.

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ACynicalDad · 02/04/2023 22:42

I don’t do weeks off as not sure about the precedent it sets, she takes quite a few, had her on a weekly standing order through covid and gave her double Christmas week. Much more, I don’t know….

JenniferBarkley · 02/04/2023 22:41

ichundich · 02/04/2023 22:32

Only on MN...

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I often pay one of the weeks if our cleaner takes two weeks off. Probably not always.

Pipiste · 02/04/2023 22:38

Viviennemary · 02/04/2023 22:30

I don't usually agree with paying cleaners holiday pay but in your case she seems to do quite a lot in the two hours and her charge is fairly reasonable. I would give her two weeks pay. No bonus,

Oh I wasn’t going to give a bonus, it would
be one or two weeks pay while she’s in holiday.

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ichundich · 02/04/2023 22:32

Only on MN...

maddening · 02/04/2023 22:31

Ah, my cleaner and I are flexible so very lucky, I move hours when she needs to and vice versa

Viviennemary · 02/04/2023 22:30

I don't usually agree with paying cleaners holiday pay but in your case she seems to do quite a lot in the two hours and her charge is fairly reasonable. I would give her two weeks pay. No bonus,

Pipiste · 02/04/2023 22:29

maddening · 02/04/2023 22:26

I don't pay if my cleaner is away, but I usually add extra hours when she is back to bring the place back to scratch -.though I do clean while she's away I just think it isn't as.good.as when she has done it.

She can’t do extra hours as she look after her grandson straight after.

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Pipiste · 02/04/2023 22:28

FullBloom · 02/04/2023 22:26

Well I wouldn’t put her normal pay into the card- I think that would be confusing.

It would be very nice of you to pay her while she’s away but totally your choice. I don’t pay my cleaner when she’s on holiday but I do pay her when she’s ill, or we’re away and don’t need a clean, or it’s a bank holiday. Definitely worth paying well for a good cleaner.

Oh! I did that at Christmas! She didn’t seem confused about it. I just hate the ‘oh and this is extra’ as I hate explaining it and don’t want to seem patronising!

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Pipiste · 02/04/2023 22:26

Thanks, I’ll do that. I completely overthink these things!

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FullBloom · 02/04/2023 22:26

Well I wouldn’t put her normal pay into the card- I think that would be confusing.

It would be very nice of you to pay her while she’s away but totally your choice. I don’t pay my cleaner when she’s on holiday but I do pay her when she’s ill, or we’re away and don’t need a clean, or it’s a bank holiday. Definitely worth paying well for a good cleaner.

maddening · 02/04/2023 22:26

I don't pay if my cleaner is away, but I usually add extra hours when she is back to bring the place back to scratch -.though I do clean while she's away I just think it isn't as.good.as when she has done it.

caringcarer · 02/04/2023 22:25

I'm sure she'd be happy with £60