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Who was PM during the best of times for you?

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verdantverdure · 29/03/2023 22:44

Me?

Blair. Brown, first bit of Cameron.

On paper I earn more money now but everything's tits up isn't it? From the economy to shit on beaches to being able to get access to the NHS when needed.

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Poppysmom22 · 17/08/2023 15:39

I wouldn't have thought so maybe it's because it was a long stretch of time that was so different to the years prior.

verdantverdure · 17/08/2023 15:37

Poppysmom22 · 17/08/2023 15:32

Blair / Brown for us

It's been Blair/Brown for most of us I think.

We can't all be the same age can we?!

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Poppysmom22 · 17/08/2023 15:32

Blair / Brown for us

Howpo · 17/08/2023 15:29

@HappiestSleeping Yes i do always vote, i d never ruin my ballot paper, it just encourages them.
I think i will vote for whoever looks like getting out the incumbent Tory.

Must admit i didn't realise Blair had a financial interest in oil companies, i did check.

Contemporary Circus sounds very tough, Bath Spa offer it and its full on performing and directing but i would like to think that people who do this, would try to work in the relevant sector.

Imho people in the UK don't pay enough tax to feel entitled to so many "free" things, if we want European levels of public service, we are going to have to pay European tax levels and get rid of Trident.

Inthedarkagain · 17/08/2023 15:22

I don't think people are entitled as such - we pay quite a lot in tax for health services and other services, so we are paying for it and shod expect it to be there when we need it. We also pay private companies lots of money, so would expect the same and not to expect them to do things like polite our waters abd make us ill.

Some things are about basic rights, for instance a child with SEN should be able to access a suitable education, which isn't happening for all children now. I think this 'everyone's entitled' attitude has allowed the government to not really do their job and build a functioning, growing country and instead has allowed corruption and plundering from wealthy elites to be rife. We have bailed out businesses and banks and they never change their behaviour, always expect bailouts to be funded by tax payers. That's pretty fucking entitled if you ask me.

HappiestSleeping · 17/08/2023 09:53

@Howpo

Yes, I agree about the personal responsibility. I am probably viewing the sense of entitlement as changing maybe because it came into my consciousness as a thing as I became aware of politics. Maybe it was there before. The fact that many expect to take out but complain about putting in verifies your point.

I was being facetious about the underwater basket weaving, I just meant that the majority of applicants I get for jobs now have degrees in weird and wonderful things, whereas they used to have degrees relevant for the workplace. I had a guy rock up for a senior position very proud of his achievement of a degree in contemporary circus.

It is true that Blair could not have gone to war without the whole due process and getting a vote through parliament, and it is also true that there were apparent threats that needed dealing with. It is also true that it didn't hurt his bank account as his investments in oil companies did very well as a result. I don't imagine he sleeps easily at night, but it is more comfortable crying in a Mercedes-Benz than it would be on a bicycle.

For years I've spoilt my ballot paper as it's the only way to vote for 'none of the above', but this is now too important to do that. The Conservatives cannot be allowed to continue to screw up the country. They're too detached from reality.

AuxArmesCitoyens · 17/08/2023 09:11

Lionel Jospin 😉

Howpo · 17/08/2023 08:51

@HappiestSleeping

For me, the sense of entitlement has always been there, the NHS, free education, social security safety net!
What has probably changed is personal responsibility has been removed, its always someone else's fault.

The UK is still about average for numbers of students who get a degree, we really did lag behind before & i don't know any Uni that offers a course in basket weaving, the issue we have now is student debt.

I don't think Blair went to war for personal gain, i think he had no choice, Sadam had used WMD in the past, no evidence he had destroyed them and Blair took the USA at face value.
What if Sadam had stayed in power, then used them on the Marsh Arabs, attacked Kuwait with them?
We'd all be saying Blair has their deaths on his hands!

Anyway, on balance, i'd still say Blair! but agree on EU and Starmer - not sure who i will vote for.

HappiestSleeping · 17/08/2023 07:54

Howpo · 17/08/2023 07:28

I think the biggest issues we are facing is on cost of living, so housing and rents - Thatcher sold off council housing, effectively privatising social housing for the least well off.
She also privatised our utilities (so can charge what they like) and failed to put in a state controlled system for North sea oil (as Norway did) so this golden opportunity wasted.

So think we need to go back a decade or two before we blame Blair.

All of those things are true, but eventually any government would have done that as the alternative would be to raise taxes and that wouldn't win elections.

In my humble opinion, the Blair government introduced a sense of entitlement to the generations since. I think he did the wrong thing for the right reasons. Take obtaining a degree. Controversial this may be but not everyone should have a degree. Everyone should have the chance to strive for one though which I think was his intention. What actually happened was that people now have a degree in underwater basket weaving and it's devalued the whole education system.

Since Blair there also seems to have been a shift of nobody taking responsibility for their own actions. It's always up to a mysterious 'they' to sort it out.

It can't be laid at the door of any single party though, as they are all as bad as each other. I think maybe a better question might be to asl which prime minister do you believe genuinely had the best interests of the UK at heart? For me this definitely is not Blair, who went to war for personal gain, i would say Brown did, i think Thatcher did although again didnt necessarily do the right things, i think May did but the rest? Not really. John Smith probably would have been good, or David Milliband.

@verdantverdure Blair did continue selling council houses when he could have stopped doing so.

I think the current system is unworkable now. I am politically homeless as I don't trust any of them. Starter isn't inspiring any sort of confidence, and I could never vote for the party that took us out of the EU.

beguilingeyes · 17/08/2023 07:41

Thatcher also encouraged the 'I'm alright Jack, sod the poor' mentality that seems to be prevalent now. The 'greed is good ' decade. I think a lot of this attitude came via the US but it was definitely fostered by the Thatcherite Tories.

verdantverdure · 17/08/2023 07:39

HappiestSleeping · 17/08/2023 06:55

Blair caused most of the problems we are suffering today and the conservatives made it worse with Brexit and the Trussterfuck.

Blair sold off the council houses, water, energy and the railways?

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Howpo · 17/08/2023 07:28

HappiestSleeping · 17/08/2023 06:55

Blair caused most of the problems we are suffering today and the conservatives made it worse with Brexit and the Trussterfuck.

I think the biggest issues we are facing is on cost of living, so housing and rents - Thatcher sold off council housing, effectively privatising social housing for the least well off.
She also privatised our utilities (so can charge what they like) and failed to put in a state controlled system for North sea oil (as Norway did) so this golden opportunity wasted.

So think we need to go back a decade or two before we blame Blair.

HappiestSleeping · 17/08/2023 06:55

Blair caused most of the problems we are suffering today and the conservatives made it worse with Brexit and the Trussterfuck.

verdantverdure · 17/08/2023 06:51

I had to assure my god-daughters (18 & 20) on FaceTime last night that things can get better so I don't think they'll be answering Sunak to this question in the future.

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SharonKaren · 11/08/2023 21:39

verdantverdure · 11/08/2023 18:10

*If you ask the question in 30 years the people who are 18 or so now will probably say Rishi Sunak (if he's around long enough) purely because, as the OP stated, he was PM during their best times. Not because he's a great PM but because it was their best times - young, beautiful, carefree (for five minutes ), able to travel, party with friends, go to university. No ties, few responsibilities, self belief.

As I said upthread, Thatcher was PM during my best times, but my best times had nothing to do with her, they were to do with being young, free, single and the world being my oyster*

I asked some 18 year olds at a party recently and they talked about climate change, sewage, Brexit screwing up study/travel/science, the things they can’t have/do because mortgages have gone up and potentially never being able to have children or a home of their own because wages are so low

It’s certainly possible they’ll say Sunak was PM during the best of times for them…

But only if things continue to get even worse.

Blair for me. I wasn't 18 nor was I carefree.

LakieLady · 11/08/2023 18:34

Wilson and Callaghan.

I was 18 when Wilson got elected for the second time. I had a public sector job and my wages went up loads of times. I was 19 when I left home, and moved into a really cheap, but big, rented flat with my boyfriend and another friend.

I have never felt so well off as I did then. We had at least two holidays a year, ran cars, I bought my work clothes in Jaeger and all my shoes came from Russell & Bromley, we were always going out: seeing bands, eating out, going to the theatre, the races, all sorts of stuff.

Then Thatcher got elected and it all went to shit.

verdantverdure · 11/08/2023 18:10

*If you ask the question in 30 years the people who are 18 or so now will probably say Rishi Sunak (if he's around long enough) purely because, as the OP stated, he was PM during their best times. Not because he's a great PM but because it was their best times - young, beautiful, carefree (for five minutes ), able to travel, party with friends, go to university. No ties, few responsibilities, self belief.

As I said upthread, Thatcher was PM during my best times, but my best times had nothing to do with her, they were to do with being young, free, single and the world being my oyster*

I asked some 18 year olds at a party recently and they talked about climate change, sewage, Brexit screwing up study/travel/science, the things they can’t have/do because mortgages have gone up and potentially never being able to have children or a home of their own because wages are so low

It’s certainly possible they’ll say Sunak was PM during the best of times for them…

But only if things continue to get even worse.

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AliTheMinx · 23/07/2023 17:10

Blair for me.

user1471538283 · 11/07/2023 18:05

Blair. I can vividly remember the relief when labour got in.

I went from struggling with pennies to having my child credit tripling in 2 weeks.

I also had support to do my degree.

Our lives visibly improved from then on.

verdantverdure · 11/07/2023 17:51

I’ll remember Johnson for Brexit lies covid mismanagement and Partygate, Truss for putting our mortgage up several hundred pounds a month and Sunak for financial mismanagement, putting the country in record debt, and punishing ordinary British people with low wages and high prices rather than tackling the true causes of this inflation such as Brexit and our sky high energy prices. Other countries have high inflation because they are spending huge amounts on infrastructure to future proof their countries. We just have it because the current Tories couldn’t run a bath.

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SnowFir · 25/06/2023 15:11

Blair/Brown

verdantverdure · 29/05/2023 10:45

Lovely @ILookAtTheFloor

The food bills, energy bills, hike in interest rates etc are all impacting us. I'm kind of dreading new school shoes and uniform etc in August already.

We won't be having any holidays during Rishi Sunak's tenure, and can't even have a day out at the seaside for a paddle because of all the sewage being dumped on our coastlines.

And the tomato shortage made me miserable for a while.

Worst of all my dad is ill and waiting ages for treatment because of the state of the NHS after 13 years of the Tories.

These things are what I will remember about the Sunak years.

The only person I know who is doing well is our local funeral director. Business is booming.

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ILookAtTheFloor · 28/05/2023 12:07

Mine is Rishi Sunak as I'm probably the happiest I've been? Touch wood don't want to jinx it!

Blair I was a kid/teen, Brown also, David Cameron a young mum had no money at all, trained to be a teacher, hated it, left. Was poor again.

The May/Boris/Truss times I had a job again, had another child, etc.

Hated Covid era and struggled with secondary infertility during this time.

Rishi I finally fell pregnant again, have more money in my job etc, children happy, have happy marriage so all in all- as I've always been relatively poor haha- now is my best era. Also feel more confident in myself.

verdantverdure · 28/05/2023 11:57

BluebellBlueballs · 27/05/2023 17:47

Blair.

I was too young to know the late 90s/ early 00s were not representative of how it would always be. I would appreciate them so much more now.

Because things got so much better, I thought things would continue getting better. Unfortunately we've been in a downward trajectory in this country for a while now. Sad

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verdantverdure · 28/05/2023 11:54

Hilariously I picked my whole 18- 30s period. Grin.

My mum picked the same Blair Brown Early Coalition period as me plus she tacked on the previous John Major period. And she's quite a lot older than me.

My dad says things have been pretty good in this country until about five or ten years ago. He's never known things so bad.

I don't know about 18 year olds but we do know a lot of people in their 20s and early 30s trying to emigrate because they just don't see a future for themselves here under these conditions.

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