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AIBU to think rape is now legal in the UK?

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verdantverdure · 29/03/2023 21:04

If there's almost no chance of a rapist being caught and punished then rape is legal, right?

Less than 0.7% are ever convicted.

Less than 1.4% are ever even charged

I'm not sure this is a government that cares about women, you guys.

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TooBigForMyBoots · 31/03/2023 15:37

Oh, our resident rozzer has arrived to Tansplain why piss poor rape convictions are in no the fault if a misogynist culture in policing.Hmm

MrsTerryPratchett · 31/03/2023 15:33

Felix125 · 31/03/2023 15:04

Its a huge topic as to why the conviction rate is so low. As has been mentioned on here, it is a difficult offence to prove beyond reasonable doubt as it is often one word against another. All the forensics are often immaterial if the suspect says that it was consensual.

You also have to consider that a lot of victims/survivors don't want to pursue the matter to court. They don't want to relive it all through the courts again in 6 months time. A lot just want to be supported and believed and that will be enough to allow them to move forward . A lot are content with the fact that the suspect has been arrested and interviewed and the whole case is recorded.

I don't think we should be putting any pressure on victims/survivors to pursue the cases to court against their will just because the conviction rate is low.

You'd think our resident police apologist would want to look at the ways you CAN increase reporting and conviction rather than blaming the victims and saying that its a bit hard.

A microcosm of the larger issue.

GobbieMaggie · 31/03/2023 15:32

I'm not sure this is a government that cares about women, you guys.

First of all the judiciary and the police are independent of the government nor has the burden of proof, in a criminal court, changed under this government.

Finally, what were the stats when Sir Keir Stamer, the multimillionaire, was head of the DPP ?.

Felix125 · 31/03/2023 15:30

Naunet
Evidence that has already been detailed on this thread for a start.

Such as..... unless i have missed it you need to refer to it.

As I said above, it is a difficult offence to prove beyond reasonable doubt as it is often one word against another. All the forensics are often immaterial if the suspect says that it was consensual.

Naunet · 31/03/2023 15:20

Felix125 · 31/03/2023 14:53

What evidence are you referring to?

Evidence that has already been detailed on this thread for a start.

Felix125 · 31/03/2023 15:04

Its a huge topic as to why the conviction rate is so low. As has been mentioned on here, it is a difficult offence to prove beyond reasonable doubt as it is often one word against another. All the forensics are often immaterial if the suspect says that it was consensual.

You also have to consider that a lot of victims/survivors don't want to pursue the matter to court. They don't want to relive it all through the courts again in 6 months time. A lot just want to be supported and believed and that will be enough to allow them to move forward . A lot are content with the fact that the suspect has been arrested and interviewed and the whole case is recorded.

I don't think we should be putting any pressure on victims/survivors to pursue the cases to court against their will just because the conviction rate is low.

Felix125 · 31/03/2023 14:56

If a rape is reported, it will be an urgent response to it - especially if it has just happened or within the forensic window

If it is an historic report - it will be still high up on the list of priorities as safeguarding will need to be done

Felix125 · 31/03/2023 14:53

What evidence are you referring to?

Naunet · 31/03/2023 14:51

Felix125 · 31/03/2023 14:49

Naunet
Oh please!!! As has been mentioned on this thread many times, they often have a shit tonne of evidence and still do nothing.

It often comes down to word against word - which often isn't enough to prove beyond reasonable;e doubt.

It often doesn’t, because there is plenty of evidence, but you keep telling yourself that.

Naunet · 31/03/2023 14:50

Lizzt2007 · 31/03/2023 14:21

They class urgent as immediate risk to life, imminent danger and crime in progress for example. Whilst rape is horrific if it's not happening at the time you call, which of course it's not likely to be, then calling 999 wouldn't get help any quicker than calling the non emergency line. 999 should be for happenings that need immediate police presence.

So why isn’t GBH on there? Same thing, no?

Felix125 · 31/03/2023 14:49

Naunet
Oh please!!! As has been mentioned on this thread many times, they often have a shit tonne of evidence and still do nothing.

It often comes down to word against word - which often isn't enough to prove beyond reasonable;e doubt.

tiggergoesbounce · 31/03/2023 14:49

No rape is not legal.
The difference is that the law states it as illegal.

Are you suggesting that because of the low conviction rate, we may as well make it legal ??? Or do you see the value in it still be illegal in law?

The coniviction rates are shocking and i believe that is an absolute disgrace and needs to change, but its still illegal.

Naunet · 31/03/2023 14:47

drpet49 · 31/03/2023 14:25

This. Police can’t magic evidence out of thin air.

Oh please!!! As has been mentioned on this thread many times, they often have a shit tonne of evidence and still do nothing.

inigomontoyahwillcox · 31/03/2023 14:42

YANBU, irrespective of what it states in statute, the outcome is essentially the same as if it was legal.

Women always have been - and continue to be - 2nd class citizens.

verdantverdure · 31/03/2023 14:32

What's the difference?

If you have almost zero chance of being punished for doing a rape then what's the difference between that and rape being legal?

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drpet49 · 31/03/2023 14:25

Lockheart · 29/03/2023 21:09

Rape is not legal in the UK. The law has not changed.

It is however often difficult to convict. And huge cuts to support services,.the police, and the courts mean it is now even more difficult.

This. Police can’t magic evidence out of thin air.

Biker47 · 31/03/2023 14:24

Brefugee · 30/03/2023 13:22

. So of course phone records are invaluable in establishing previous contact if any, and the nature.

is the accused rapist's phone also confiscated?

tbh in the UK I'd probably not bother reporting a rape either

Typically yes, along with their houses etc. being searched and pertinent information and items seized as well.

Lizzt2007 · 31/03/2023 14:21

SnackSizeRaisin · 29/03/2023 21:12

Well that's a bit concerning! How can rape be a non urgent enquiry?

They class urgent as immediate risk to life, imminent danger and crime in progress for example. Whilst rape is horrific if it's not happening at the time you call, which of course it's not likely to be, then calling 999 wouldn't get help any quicker than calling the non emergency line. 999 should be for happenings that need immediate police presence.

Naunet · 31/03/2023 14:15

MMMarmite · 31/03/2023 14:07

WTF? And they still put it on telly?

Yep, as if the fact that the man said he was trying his luck and so didn’t get consent made it all perfectly reasonable and fine, it’s just what lads do. I was absolutely disgusted at the time that the interviewing officers didn’t pick him up on that or even seem to think there was anything wrong with it.

Theres a couple of other cases I read about that we’re particularly shocking to me - a woman who was raped whilst in labour, and the man (her husband) got off with it, because of course, poor men can’t understand that the last thing a woman would want to do whilst giving birth, is have sex. Another where a woman was raped whilst wearing a tampon. The rapist claimed it was because she wanted it so bad she didn’t want to stop to take it out - because yeah, that’s what women do isn’t it? Then there was the girl in America who was gang raped whilst unconscious ON FILM, and the men still got off with it.

MMMarmite · 31/03/2023 14:07

Naunet · 31/03/2023 14:06

No, it’s really not as hard as we’re all led to believe. I remember watching a rape case (that ended up being dropped by the police) on 24 hours in police custody. The man ADMITTED he anally raped her, said he did not get her consent and was trying his luck - the police didn’t even pick him up on that confession in the interview.

WTF? And they still put it on telly?

Naunet · 31/03/2023 14:06

jcyclops · 30/03/2023 21:02

2018 figures:

Out of 100 reported rapes, 35 are dropped due to victim not supporting action. 60 are halted by police, 5 are passed to CPS, who prosecute 2 and convict 1.

Of the 60 halted by police, some will be because the perpetrators can not be identified and some identified perpetrators can not be traced, a few will be charged with other offences, but most will have no prospect of conviction.

The latest 1.6% figure is shocking, but the figure is only 5.6% for all reported crime, and rape is notoriously hard to distinguish from legal sexual activity.

No, it’s really not as hard as we’re all led to believe. I remember watching a rape case (that ended up being dropped by the police) on 24 hours in police custody. The man ADMITTED he anally raped her, said he did not get her consent and was trying his luck - the police didn’t even pick him up on that confession in the interview.

Naunet · 31/03/2023 13:59

You’re not wrong OP, we pay it lip service and that’s it. Men can rape freely in the knowledge that they have a huge, huge chance of getting away with it, and even if they are caught, and end up in court, there’s no big penalty.

MMMarmite · 31/03/2023 13:41

GIorious · 31/03/2023 11:34

I have been raped three times. The first time, when I was 17, I did go to the police. The policeman I spoke to told me that I shouldn't bother taking it further as I didn't have a 'hope in hell' of it going to court as I had absolutely no proof. It was also implied that I would end up looking like a troublemaker and it would be best to just leave it, and that because I'd had a few drinks at a party beforehand it would be harder to prove. That was, admittedly, 30-odd years ago but given the number of convictions for rape I'm not convinced much has changed re attitudes.

The second and third time I was raped I didn't even bother reporting it.

I'm sorry 💐 And angry on your behalf.

GIorious · 31/03/2023 11:34

I have been raped three times. The first time, when I was 17, I did go to the police. The policeman I spoke to told me that I shouldn't bother taking it further as I didn't have a 'hope in hell' of it going to court as I had absolutely no proof. It was also implied that I would end up looking like a troublemaker and it would be best to just leave it, and that because I'd had a few drinks at a party beforehand it would be harder to prove. That was, admittedly, 30-odd years ago but given the number of convictions for rape I'm not convinced much has changed re attitudes.

The second and third time I was raped I didn't even bother reporting it.

AdamRyan · 31/03/2023 10:26

Monstermoomoo · 30/03/2023 22:59

To be fair, it's the same everywhere. In Sweden they've recently let off a man as the girl he had fingered (I think she's 10, so very young and definitely not in any way, shape or form consensual) had essentially said he put his finger in her noonie, which apparently is very ambiguous as he possibly didn't penetrate her as noonie could be either vulva or vagina. So benefit of the doubt etc... 🤯 Absolutely disgraceful

It is not the same everywhere
I can believe that men get off assaults for spurious reasons everywhere. That's kind of understandable given the presumption of "innocent until proven guilty".

Sweden has "sex without consent" rather than rape and their conviction rate has increased as a result
https://www.reuters.com/article/us-sweden-crime-rape-law-trfn-idUSKBN23T2R3

This study showed England, Wales and Scotland had the lowest conviction rate in Europe in 2006 and we've got even worse since then

"Convictions have increased at an even
slower rate of 92%, doubling from 450 in 1985 to 863 in 2006. The conviction rate reached an all-time low of 5% in 2003 and 2004, with a slight reversal to 6% in 2005-2006, and 6.5% in 2006-7. This is the second lowest conviction rate in Europe after Scotland."

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=cwasu.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/England_and_Wales.pdf&ved=2ahUKEwj6u5Xp64X-AhUEnVwKHdWuATs4FBAWegQIAxAB&usg=AOvVaw0SoFyBVd88Nahl1QCokgqY

The British performance on prosecuting rapes is shameful and its insulting to say "its the same everywhere"

Rape conviction rates rise 75% in Sweden after change in the law

Rape conviction rates in Sweden have risen 75% in two years following a major change in the law, spurring calls on Monday for other countries to revamp their legislation.

https://www.reuters.com/article/us-sweden-crime-rape-law-trfn-idUSKBN23T2R3