DD is 15 , she's in a relationship and her bf is also 15, theyve been in an on/off relationship since they were in year 7 but they haven't broken up for over a year.
He was diagnosed with sepsis last year and he was very unwell, he is still struggling with being very tired and weak etc. It did also affect DD a lot but she is now okay and she's supporting him.
It's his birthday this weekend and he's invited DD to spend it with him and his family at a small party which I have no issue with, the issue is he's asked DD to sleep over on Friday night, which I've said no to as I feel they're still too young.
DD is very annoyed at this and has said they aren't going to have sex (which I didn't mention) which I should ‘already know’ as he is still not 100% well, I don't care about him as it's the one thing he wants (he hasn't asked for a present, just to see her) etc.
I'm now wondering if I'm being a bit mean by saying no.
So mumsnet, AIBU?