....to think men are, sorry, but AWFUL

I think I’ve actually been very restrained

You restrain yourself, or it could get nasty from you.

🤷🏻‍♀️ I think we’ve established you don’t think much of me or my advocacy for domestic abuse victims m.
I’m not going to lose any sleep over it.

I don't think you are as professional as you think you are.

I don’t use words like “deranged”
That’s you

@AdamRyan just to explain to you and manage you're expectations .... there is no penis license, never going to be one.....

A bit like identification cards.... it's never going to happen.

And for very obvious reasons, as history had taught us.

@GrinAndVomit

If you have such a professional job helping abused women should you really be on the Internet arguing with women?

You obviously feel like some of us are deranged and are calling us out.

Professionally you shouldn't be nasty to these woman.

Mental health etc.

I think I’ve actually been very restrained.

Here is a few highlights of what you’ve been directing at me

“not all women are as strong as some.”
which I commented was a smug and revolting attitude to have toward women who suffer domestic abuse.

“You have some serious issues.”
“You have an attitude problem”
“sorry that I have found good men and you haven't”
“I think you are deranged.”

Accusations of me being the perpetrator of domestic abuse multiple times

As well as one comment which was deleted by mumsnet (not reported by me)

I’ve not responded in any way at your level.
You need to grow up.

As he is lovely he would have no problem getting and keeping a penis license. And would be able to walk the dog whenever he liked.

AdamRyan

So you are not only arguing points that I haven't made but are name calling as well.

That is very grown up of you.

CBA

Have fun.

Is it liz? I'm not really sure it actually is. There is a power/,strength imbalance plus risk of physical damage from penetration which is very different between men and women

Do you think a man raping a man is as bad as a woman forcing him to have penetrative sex?

According to the law only a biological man can commit rape, yes. A woman can still force or compel a man to have penetrative sex, to whatever extent that may be though. The relative strengths of each person would clearly play a factor. You can call it sexual assault if you like but it's actually on a par with rape.

Is your not being entirely serious, what parts do you actually mean?

This is a discussion on a forum and it's hard to distinguish between crazy and totally bat shot crazy!

My DH (lovely he is) does the late night dog walk, should I Amazon prime a tag for him to arrive tomorrow or not?

Awww. I thought someone would have posted about how many men get conscripted and killed on oil rigs
Obviously MRA rhetoric has moved on.....

What's the male to female ratio in the army? Do we still have national service?

Why do you not get that since my abusive relationship I have been treated amazingly?

of course I am not being entirely serious about tagging men and enforcing curfews but if some of you here think women are not the underdog in a war with men everyday, you’re wrong. We know it’s not look ALL men. But almost ALL women are victims of men in some way. That includes the men that remain “respectful” but turn a blind eye to their friends abusive or misogynistic behaviour like it’s some kind of harmless boys club.

Eh? What are you talking about?

You are certainly reading more (making shit up) from what I wrote.
But then you are very good at that.

You are not a nice person.

God help the women you are trying to help.

While you are frantically MRA typing, I'm going to post counters and we'll cross over

1. women are overrepresented in nursing and care work: shifts, often involving clearing up bodily fluids
2. prostitution is the most dangerous occupation- considered a job when you are talking about penis wants but not a job when you are talking about danger
3. when you include caring women work much longer hours than men.
4. many armies round the world have women in front line service and we haven't had conscription in the UK since the 50s
5. MRAs don't understand how to analyse data and just think that gobbledegook stats sound clever, not realising that gasp there are plenty of intelligent women out there who can spot their bullshit from a mile off

@GrinAndVomit are you calling @PartridgeInAChair a liar? Really?

You don't think a women knows her own mind?

Give over 😂😂😂

@AdamRyan if a man called women "Karen's"
Would you think them sexist? (I would and would call them out on it BTW!)

I'm.not being sexist. I'm being anti-MRA

This idea that men do all the dirty/difficult/dangerous/antisocial work is an MRA trope designed to sound reasonable when actually it's demonstrably factually incorrect.

@AdamRyan if women BF then it kinda bad goes with the territory to "work" nights, because it's women's work?

But that is and always will be a choice.