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Do cleaners not do dishes?

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Fifi00 · 13/02/2023 13:47

My new cleaners seem a bit rubbish. I clean the loo , move clothes, I had already hoovered a couple of days ago and gave everything a proper scrub/mop there wasn't much for them to do but DD and DH had left breakfast dishes in the sink. The dishes were untouched and the cleaners left 30 mins early. I pay for 2 hours a week , 2 cleaners so 1 hour. Is washing some dishes and cleaning the sink really unacceptable?

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PoshHorseyBird · 13/02/2023 22:15

I work for myself as a cleaner and personally I don't mind doing the washing up. If my client walks in the kitchen I don't want their eye to be drawn straight to the dirty dishes left I want them to admire the clean kitchen 😂 obviously if someone had cooked a 3 course meal and left everything that would be different! But some breakfast dishes and the odd cup left around the house I'll wash up and leave on the draining board. As for them leaving half an hour early, no totally unacceptable. You can always find something to do, if not ask if the client wants an extra job doing. If not then tell the client you've finished early.

OoooohMatron · 13/02/2023 22:13

harrassedmumto3 · 13/02/2023 19:14

I wouldn't expect my cleaner to wash our dirty dishes. It's a respect thing, at least in my view.

So it's fine for someone to clean your toilet, where you shit, but not wash a couple of plates? 🤣

ladykale · 13/02/2023 22:12

RealBecca · 13/02/2023 13:54

The office cleaners dont do dishes so I wouldnt expect a domestic one to do so. They usually being their cleaning tools and dont think I've seen washing up liquid in there.

Have a list next time and expressly ask about dishes.

Who does dishes in an office if not the cleaner? It's even more important at work where everyone leaves their dirty dishes around the kitchen

ladykale · 13/02/2023 22:11

MeMyCatsAndMyBooks · 13/02/2023 13:50

No, dishes is usually a extra you have to pay for if they provide it. Most don't.

Aren't they paid based on time at the house?

ladykale · 13/02/2023 22:10

dollymixtured · 13/02/2023 13:49

Of course they don’t do your dishes!

You hire cleaners who wouldn't do dishes in the sink?! Isn't that part of cleaning the kitchen?!

YoungGiftedwithflab32 · 13/02/2023 22:05

I'm a cleaner, and I do anything that needs doing in the time I have, I generally try my best to do everything! Out of 10 clients only two will have dishes to clean, others usually have either do them their selves or put them in the dishwasher ( if you want the dishwasher emptied then ask for it to be done) If your cleaner is leaving early either tell the agency or talk to them directly! As you stated they were new cleaners so maybe they need to be told to do the dishes and if they have time left, to do x,y&z. I love it when a client leaves me a list of jobs (especially at a new clean) as I know what is expected of me!

DragonflyLady · 13/02/2023 21:51

I do what my clients want me to. None has asked me to do dishes. If I finish early and there’s some that need doing, I will do them. In one home, sometimes there’s dishes in the sink and I need to use the sink so I wash them. But generally people have put their dishes in the dishwasher.

OnceUponAThread · 13/02/2023 21:46

Suedomin · 13/02/2023 13:58

I wouldn't expect them to do the dishes anymore than I would expect them to do the Laundry. It's not their fault that you had already cleaned up and left nothing for them to do.
However if you prefer them to do the dishes in the future if they have time you should ask them.

Our cleaner does any dishes that are out and some laundry (bedsheets etc) 🤷🏼‍♀️. Always has done.

If she runs out of things to do she has even been known to do a spot of ironing.

If the house is already clean (e.g, we've had guests and done a lot for that) she will proactively look for things to fill her time.

She's amazing though.

lionelewis · 13/02/2023 21:41

What is disrespectful about cleaning a toilet?

Littleloveydovey · 13/02/2023 21:36

My house is tidy, my cleaner is a professional who cleans. She will wash any dishes there, but it’s rare I leave any. When I do, I expect her to clean them and she does,

Userusing1 · 13/02/2023 21:32

You probably just need to say which cleaning you want doing, no point in mopping if you have just done it

Motheranddaughter · 13/02/2023 21:30

Mine comes twice a week
First thing she does is unload/load the dishwasher and hang up the washing I have put on earlier

Cocobutt · 13/02/2023 21:25

Do you expect them to put laundry away in your drawers?

Do you expect them to strip the beds?
If so how often?

I think you need to be much more clear about what you want doing.

It’s so much easier to write a list and so everyone knows what is required of them.

Home help usually does things like washing them dishes and stripping the beds but most cleaners don’t, so a cleaner isn’t going to necessarily know that this is what you want doing.

Fifi00 · 13/02/2023 21:14

BigFeelingsMoment · 13/02/2023 19:55

On MN, no cleaners shouldn’t be expected to do anything and you should apologise for only letting them leave half an hour early. In the real world, most cleaners are happy to do the odd dish, or stack the dishwasher, so long as you don’t leave a mountain of washing up for them.

Either tell them that you’re a bit surprised about them leaving early and not cleaning the sink/dishes and come up with a list of “if you have time” jobs, or get new cleaners. Also agree with PP who said change of sheets on beds is always a good one if there’s not too much to do.

I know may as well just give them the money for no expectation of work 😩

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Fifi00 · 13/02/2023 21:13

Cocobutt · 13/02/2023 19:11

So I'm basically paying money for them to leave early and not assist in making my life easier. I may as well just sack them waste of time.

You chose to clean before she came and so you wasted your own money.

I’ve had numerous cleaning jobs and washing the dishes has never been a part of it.

Do you also expect them to do your laundry?

Why not have a list of things you want them to do.

Right thank you I will be parting ways with my current cleaner and hiring someone who will help me with dishes/laundry if the need arises.

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BigFeelingsMoment · 13/02/2023 19:55

On MN, no cleaners shouldn’t be expected to do anything and you should apologise for only letting them leave half an hour early. In the real world, most cleaners are happy to do the odd dish, or stack the dishwasher, so long as you don’t leave a mountain of washing up for them.

Either tell them that you’re a bit surprised about them leaving early and not cleaning the sink/dishes and come up with a list of “if you have time” jobs, or get new cleaners. Also agree with PP who said change of sheets on beds is always a good one if there’s not too much to do.

ThomasWaghornsConeHat · 13/02/2023 19:25

This is what puts me off hiring a cleaner. Finishing early when there is always something else to clean. Also it seems as long with not working their paid hours most cleaners can't be proactive and work to a list. Really good cleaners would work through a list then be proactive doing other things to fill the hours. If a cleaner can always do 2 hours in 1.5 why pay them for 2 hours? It takes 1.5 hours so pay them that.

Mybumlooksbig · 13/02/2023 19:14

I think if it's a case of a couple of bits yes not a full on huge amount. I did cleaning for years and would always wash up and clean sink just so the kitchen looked done.

harrassedmumto3 · 13/02/2023 19:14

I wouldn't expect my cleaner to wash our dirty dishes. It's a respect thing, at least in my view.

Motheranddaughter · 13/02/2023 19:13

Mine does dishes
Not sure what the problem is with that

Cocobutt · 13/02/2023 19:11

So I'm basically paying money for them to leave early and not assist in making my life easier. I may as well just sack them waste of time.

You chose to clean before she came and so you wasted your own money.

I’ve had numerous cleaning jobs and washing the dishes has never been a part of it.

Do you also expect them to do your laundry?

Why not have a list of things you want them to do.

Userusing1 · 13/02/2023 18:08

They probably thought they were there to go in the dishwasher.

Creamcrackersandricecakes · 13/02/2023 17:59

The state they've left your hob in is shocking - I'd get rid of them just for that. I'd never leave a client's cooker looking that grubby even if I was pushed for time, which they weren't!!

schnubbins · 13/02/2023 17:53

No .

2bazookas · 13/02/2023 17:50

That depends what you discussed and agreed with the cleaner before employing them.

If mine cheated on timekeeping on their very first day, that would also be their last.