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Why do people get bought and brought mixed up?

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Starllight · 30/01/2023 07:41

A Monday morning irk of mine… Surely people know the difference?

Bought - past tense of buy

Brought - past tense of bring

As a side note, where I now live in Scotland I have never come across anyone get this mixed up. Perhaps that’s why it irks me when I see it?!

YABU - They’re both very similar and easy to get them mixed up
YANBU - It looks/sounds completely ridiculous when people use ‘brought’ instead of bought

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ZeroFuchsGiven · 30/01/2023 09:38

Aprilx · 30/01/2023 08:48

They sound quite similar but they do not mean anything remotely similar. Confused

I can’t vote on the thread though because I have never come across anybody mixing up these words.

You have now! 😂

Catnary · 30/01/2023 09:38

TotallyAverage · 30/01/2023 09:26

The main thing I notice with Scots is saying 'have went' instead of gone. My own extremely well educated DH, in a senior job, thinks nothing of saying

And as you'll see from figure 19a of your packs, the markets have went down significantly in the 3rd quarter...

🤦🏻‍♀️ He says nobody at his work is bothered by it as long as he makes them money but it bothers me!

I know this so well! It always really amazes me when otherwise well-spoken or intelligent Scots do this. At a push it is dialect, but I don’t think it qualifies as Scots language so not legitimate on those grounds.

A similar one is “I done” instead of “I did”.

“The markets have went down significantly in the last quarter. When I done a comparison with 2021/22, I observed that…”

TotallyAverage · 30/01/2023 09:36

It's a total affectation with my brother, but 😂 the west of Scotland did not feature in his upbringing! Daft lad

JanglyBeads · 30/01/2023 09:35

Another Cambridge graduate here who mixes these up unless I think carefully, boop (sort of!). This more likely to make the mistake in speech than in writing. I can recall the moment in my tweens when I realised they were two different words, and why, and that I'd been getting them wrong.

Am also well read, educated, and pretty excellent at all other parts of English grammar, to put the other suggested reasons to bed (so to speak).

Starllight · 30/01/2023 09:33

TotallyAverage · 30/01/2023 09:31

One thing an English friend pointed out to me was when I said ‘I’m coming just now’. I didn’t realise until then that we unnecessarily say ‘just’

😂 I would definitely just say this and not even realise it. It's been pointed out to me that I say 'so' a lot, and in particular I start every sentence with so... My brother ends every sentence with 'but' for some reason.

Was work ok this week?
Yeah, glad it's Friday, but.
You having a takeaway?
Nah, got some food in the fridge, but.

🤷‍♀️

I didn’t realise that ‘but’ seems to generally be said in the West of Scotland. DP from the Highlands cringes every time he hears it 😂

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jannier · 30/01/2023 09:32

Starllight · 30/01/2023 07:49

Thanks for your perspective.

I see if frequently on MN so it obviously is quite easily mixed up by people. To me they are so different which is why I can’t understand how they get mixed up.

I don’t think they mean similar things though, like a PP said. In my head they almost mean opposites. Brought - you buy something so take it from the shop. Brought - you bring something so you take it with you

Think you just demonstrated why it's often mixed up in your last set of definitions.

BankOfDave · 30/01/2023 09:31

I wouldn’t judge based on MN threads OP. People are often typing quickly, on phones with tiny touchscreens, and my phone does an annoying autocorrect. I can’t be bothered to proof everything because I have a masters degree and know I can spell very well ta very much. Also let’s not forget this is just a SM platform and (mostly) supposed to be a bit of fun/light relief.

There are threads on this sort of thing ALLLL the time. Any minute now someone will come along agreeing with you and make a typo themselves. Then quickly highlight it was ‘a mistake’ and of course they know how to spell, it’s just everyone else who doesn’t 🤷‍♀️

TotallyAverage · 30/01/2023 09:31

One thing an English friend pointed out to me was when I said ‘I’m coming just now’. I didn’t realise until then that we unnecessarily say ‘just’

😂 I would definitely just say this and not even realise it. It's been pointed out to me that I say 'so' a lot, and in particular I start every sentence with so... My brother ends every sentence with 'but' for some reason.

Was work ok this week?
Yeah, glad it's Friday, but.
You having a takeaway?
Nah, got some food in the fridge, but.

🤷‍♀️

NearlyMidnight · 30/01/2023 09:28

I also think it's true people live in a more verbal world - it's therefore easy.
Also, as PP's example showed, the two words can be used in similar circumstances as in:
At a party: Did you bring any wine? v Did you buy any wine?
Answer yes. (I bought it and then I brought it - either way - we have wine)

Secondly though poor education followed by an outcry, (trying to be inclusive) if you try to educate or correct.

BertieBotts · 30/01/2023 09:28

I think r is quite a weak sound in a lot of English accents and it can easily be missed, but also, people mispronounce words all the time, and not everybody thinks about language in a joined up way (past tense of bring vs buy etc) - somebody could very well assume that there is just one word (bought/brought) and it's just people pronouncing it differently. So they use whichever is their preferred pronunciation interchangeably.

There are lots of words in English which have two meanings, so it wouldn't be that weird. And the meaning isn't even that dissimilar anyway. You could use brought in most places where you mean bought and it could have the same meaning, because in purchasing (buying) an item, you usually also take (bring) it away from the shop or vendor.

Starllight · 30/01/2023 09:28

RitaFires · 30/01/2023 09:22

I do think bought/brought is an English thing. I'm Irish and an equivalent one I've seen among Irish people is thought/taught because a lot of people pronounce them similarly.

Have you noticed a Scottish equivalent OP?

Off the top of my head I can’t think of words that regularly get mixed up.

The regional dialects up here are weird and wonderful though! One thing an English friend pointed out to me was when I said ‘I’m coming just now’. I didn’t realise until then that we unnecessarily say ‘just’. People will sometimes say ‘I’m coming the now’ 😅

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Butchyrestingface · 30/01/2023 09:28

As a side note, where I now live in Scotland I have never come across anyone get this mixed up. Perhaps that’s why it irks me when I see it?!

We know how to roll our Rs.

TotallyAverage · 30/01/2023 09:26

The main thing I notice with Scots is saying 'have went' instead of gone. My own extremely well educated DH, in a senior job, thinks nothing of saying

And as you'll see from figure 19a of your packs, the markets have went down significantly in the 3rd quarter...

🤦🏻‍♀️ He says nobody at his work is bothered by it as long as he makes them money but it bothers me!

Yarrawonga · 30/01/2023 09:26

While writing?

ethermint · 30/01/2023 09:26

come on OP, I am sure there's one spelling you occasionally get wrong!

Yarrawonga · 30/01/2023 09:25

The majority of people seem to say loose when they mean lose.

Does anybody actually say loose when they mean lose? I see quite a few people make the mistake whine writing. I often wonder if they tut whenever they see it written correctly.

Applesandcarrots · 30/01/2023 09:24

Maybe they need to start teaching as if the taught ESOL students. Don't know personally single fellow immigrant who would not get have/of, brought/bought and so on. Schools proper drilled it in! I still wake up thinking of irregular verbs!😂

TotallyAverage · 30/01/2023 09:23

Same with draw and drawer. Scots tend to say dror or draw-er so harder to mix up with draw.

RitaFires · 30/01/2023 09:22

I do think bought/brought is an English thing. I'm Irish and an equivalent one I've seen among Irish people is thought/taught because a lot of people pronounce them similarly.

Have you noticed a Scottish equivalent OP?

Berlinlover · 30/01/2023 09:22

MondayBob · 30/01/2023 07:58

Loose and lose

The majority of people seem to say loose when they mean lose.

TotallyAverage · 30/01/2023 09:22

I always use the wrong discrete/ discreet

The way to remember is: Crete is an island, on its own. So discrete is a standalone point. That was a game changer for me 🙂

I think with bought and brought it's mostly down to Scots rolling their rrrrrrrs. I've never really seen or heard it up here.

Thepeopleversuswork · 30/01/2023 09:22

PrincessHoneysuckle · 30/01/2023 07:53

Yes and don't even get me started on specific and Pacific

That one really does make me cringe. Bought/brought I find much easier to understand. It's quite obvious to me how that happens.

Plbrookes · 30/01/2023 09:21

'Lead' is frequently written where 'led' is meant. But life goes on ...

Joyfuljolly · 30/01/2023 09:21

I’ve never really seen this. But it’s the “draws” instead of drawers thing for me. It’s such a common term, spoken and written regularly, it’s surprising when people don’t know a drawer is called a drawer and erroneously think it’s a draw.

AndyWarholsPiehole · 30/01/2023 09:19

I always use the wrong discrete/ discreet.

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