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to wonder if a 5’7 female is ‘big’

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moonmoon123 · 07/01/2023 18:47

I’m a 5’7 and a half female, in your completely honest opinion do you think I’m tall or average height. I feel massive and huge next to every other girl, don’t wear heels ever and hate it.
im just under 9st and feel I just look like this absolute giant.
I never am called tall by anyone but believe I am.
In your opinion is 5’7-5’8 ‘really tall’ for a female

OP posts:
Dacadactyl · 07/07/2023 17:01

I'm 5 foot 7 and know what you mean at times. I feel very tall around smaller women, even tho I know I'm not really.

I'm glad of my height because I can get away with putting a few pounds on and it not be so obvious.

tweener · 07/07/2023 17:01

According to the internet the average height in the UK for a woman is 5 foot 3, so by that you would definitely be taller than average.

OhhhhhhhhBiscuits · 07/07/2023 17:00

I'm 5'11 and feel like a giant compared to all my friends, it doesn't bother me and I can get things off the top shelf in the supermarket unlike my teeny tiny mum at 5'2.

JoshLymanIsHotterThanSam · 07/07/2023 16:58

I’m 5’8 and consider myself to be moderately tall. I have long legs so need to wear tall clothing for bottom half. But I don’t think it’s ridiculously tall. Just a little taller than average.

Anxioys · 07/07/2023 16:55

5 7 is tall for a British woman because most Brit men aren't much taller.

But strikingly tall or supermodel so then no. You would be rather small in the Netherlands!

Anonymouseposter · 07/07/2023 16:53

It’s not ‘big’. Taller end of average. Tallish but nothing that would stand out.

Splat92 · 07/07/2023 13:45

I'm 5'7"and would have said I'm on the taller side of average

WaltzingWaters · 07/07/2023 13:39

I mean I’m 5ft so yeah I think you’re tall, but even someone 5ft1 is tall in my books 🤣

So obviously I have the complete opposite problem.

Orangebadger · 07/07/2023 13:36

5'4" is average height for women in the UK so yes 5'7" is tall but not extremely tall, just regular tall. I would say over 5'10" is very tall

Dalekjastninerels · 07/07/2023 11:14

I think height is relative; I am 5ft'6 and have been called both short and tall.

Applesinmyhouse · 07/07/2023 11:13

I’m a whisker over 5.8. I’m taller than 75% of other women and about 50% of men. I’ve never considered myself tall but people describe me as tall? My friend growing up was 6ft so I felt short in comparison. But doctors and stuff have described me as tall 🤷🏻‍♀️ honestly when I’m with my 5.2 petite SIL I feel like the jolly green giant.

Matildatoldsuchdreadfullies · 07/07/2023 11:11

My 5ft 9 DD seems to specialise in 5ft friends. She looks a giant compared to them. My 5ft 8 DD goes for taller (5 ft 8+) friends. So she looks average to short. My 5ft 4 DD has average height friends, so looks entirely average.

I’m 5 ft 51/2 - so not massively shorter than OP - and feel very average.

Dalekjastninerels · 07/07/2023 11:08

ZeroFuchsGiven · 07/01/2023 18:49

What do you mean 'half female'?

😂

Pissing myself here (not literally!)

Obviously it means OP is female and is 5'7.

Happy to be of assistance Grin

0Oo · 07/07/2023 11:04

I'm 5'7" and am very average around London/south east.

In Amsterdam I was mostly short in stature.

In Belgium I was very tall. I reakon it's because they don't drink much milk, and they haven't got fresh milk. It's all UHT.

KettrickenSmiled · 09/01/2023 10:12

I don't understand your post OP - do you never go out in society, so have no idea of the relative height ranges of other humans?

MarieIVanArkleStinks · 09/01/2023 09:47

Yep, I used to be the tallest woman always in a room at 5.11 but not any more, I rarely feel tall these days.

It was abnormally tall when I was at school (I'm mid-40s). I was teased for it something rotten: called Big Bird and told the helicopters were coming to do my hair! I always wore flats and developed a horrendous stoop, for which my mother used to tell me off. At that age I'd have given my back molars to be a few inches shorter.

Nowadays, it's relatively usual.

HRTQueen · 08/01/2023 22:52

Most my friends are around your height

I’m 5’2 so often feel small. When I go to Germany or Holland I feel tiny

catfunk · 08/01/2023 22:47

I'm the same height and I'm average amongst my female friends, and colleagues. some are much taller. Some are shorter.

oversized · 08/01/2023 22:43

yes you are tall. Taller than many but not exceptional or "eyebrow raising" tall.

i'd say 5ft 3 - 5ft 6 is the average/most common range

i'm 5 ft 9 and 10 stone. i feel like a huge manly giant compared to a lot of other women. i'm broader framed and taller than most other women i encounter. Not the flabbiest though - a lot of overweight people!

i's say most women i'm friends with are around 5 ft 3 to 5 ft 6. So i'm not massively taller but i do feel like a wider, scaled up version. hate it and have never felt feminine enough as i've got a boxy shape and no waist.

i'd say i'm taller than 50% of men i encounter too. A lot of short guys in the UK.

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LexMitior · 08/01/2023 22:12

6 foot. 5 foot 7 is not very tall to me!

GetMeOut87 · 08/01/2023 21:50

I'm 5'7".Never felt huge. It's maybe a bit on the taller side but not particularly.

RewildingAmbridge · 08/01/2023 21:38

Also when I drop to sub ten stone I look unwell. I think at that height you're BMI is under the healthy range.

RewildingAmbridge · 08/01/2023 21:37

I'm 5'9 I am taller than average. I do not feel like a giant. MIL and DHs aunt are around the same height as me and DHs female cousin is several inches taller. At Christmas I actually felt small as DH FIL, uncle and male cousin are all 6'2-6'5. I don't often wear high heels as then I do feel conspicuously tall (also I can't walk in them). I'm not sure why height is something to be embarrassed about? I never have to ask men to reach things for me!

StaceySolomonSwash · 08/01/2023 21:33

5'7" and below 9 stone is underweight.

racquel86 · 08/01/2023 21:18

Depends on who you hang around with...... I grew early and was massive compared to all my fiends but as times gone on I'm pretty average albeit slightly taller than some..... I'm 5ft6 and 8st. Sometimes I do wear heels but not often but that's cos ima nurse so inappropriate most days, and I have insecurities from growing fast as a child and towering over everyone but actually it would not at all be unreasonable at my height to wear heels if I fancied it and I have done pre child when I used to be able to go out and enjoy myself 🤣