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To think we cannot afford to support Ukraine anymore

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Saysomething1234 · 04/01/2023 21:38

This may be an unpopular opinion but it is annoying me to no end and NC

We have a littany of issues crying out for funding domestically - NHS broken. Economy going down the drain. Pound down 20% in one year. Public services collapsing, Education system requiring re-investment, high taxes driving talent out. We can keep blaming our politicians but someone needs to prioritise where money goes - and no one is willing to talk about this

Yet we are spending hundreds of billions in supporting Ukraine in a war which has nothing to do with us. Yes we are morally supporting them but is there no amount which will be too much? We are paying both directly (through weapons and aid) and indirectly (through huge energy subsidies - last totalling north of £200bn) - we need to stop this spending, reduce energy prices, stop this craziness

How is this war something we can afford on the basis on principles and why aren't we more aggressively pushing for a negotiated settlement?

We cannot afford this. It sucks for Ukrainians but this is not UK's bill to foot.

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overworkedovertaxed · 05/01/2023 14:06

@JassyRadlett

The agreement, brokered by three EU diplomats, called for the creation of a national unity government, a presidential election by December 2014, and a return to an earlier Ukrainian constitution that would have curtailed Yanukovych’s powers.

The official said the United States worked with Yanukovych's government, Ukraine's opposition, and “other stakeholders to reach an agreement to put Ukraine back on track toward fulfilling the aspirations of the Ukrainian people for democracy, respect for human rights, European integration and long-term economic growth.”

With everything so elegantly brokered, not sure why the elected President had to flee. Just folks taking care of business I suppose.

OopsAnotherOne · 05/01/2023 14:04

As many others have said, it's a case of considering the fact that if Russia does invade Ukraine, will they stop there? Will they keep invading across Europe? How close to our country do we want them to invade to until we get involved? How many other countries will we stand by and watch Russia invade before we decide it's time to act?

You are correct OP that it is very, very expensive to assist in this way but it's been highly theorised that Russia is testing the water to see what they can get away with. Putin is an unpredictable force and he may not stop at Ukraine. Even if Putin does eventually manage to invade Ukraine but decides to stop there - will his eventual successor? Or will it be seen that Europe did so little that there would be the opportunity to invade other surrounding countries to increase Russia's grip.

However, I do also think that if other countries in Europe contributed more towards the Ukrainian efforts, we would then be in the position where we in the UK might not have to spend quite as much money on the support effort.

According to Algazeera's statistics (provided in December 2022), other than the USA and "EU Institutions", the UK is the highest provider of assistance, followed closely by Germany. Countries such as Poland, France, the Netherlands, Belgium, Switzerland, Estonia etc are contributing very little independently in the way of assistance, whether it be by financial, humanitarian or military means. Although almost every country is in a financial crisis of some kind or another currently, the UK is included in this and yet we are donating large amounts where other countries don't appear to be. Other countries need to step up to prevent Putin invading Ukraine and potentially moving further into Europe. I don't think we should withdraw support, but if other countries increased their levels of support it may be less necessary for us to spend as much - if we spent less but other countries gave similar amounts of assistance, Ukraine would have much more aid but the UK would be in a better financial position.

I do have a friend who is Ukrainian though so I may be biased in my absolute belief that we should contribute towards the Ukrainian defense effort. He is the same age as me (early 20s) and used to have a hobby doing WW1 and WW2 war reenactments as part of a group, taking photos and hosting displays for the public. It's gut wrenching to now see photos of him in full, modern military gear, carrying real, working weapons, forced to fight in a situation he never wanted to be part of. He is fighting to keep his home, his family, his sisters and his country safe.

DdraigGoch · 05/01/2023 14:02

ChillyFloss · 05/01/2023 00:41

This was my original post: "Why does the OP have to "be very specific"? All wars end with a negotiated settlement in one form or another. I think the OP is right to believe that too little emphasis is being place on this ATM. There was some talk recently of Russia being prepared to negotiate. I hope this is true."
Have you mixed me up with someone else? My position is that I believe the financial cost to the UK economy is too great to sustain long term and that we should be using our position within NATO for a settlement. Hardly fucking controversial.

What form exactly would this "negotiated settlement" take?

Autumnnewname · 05/01/2023 13:57

JassyRadlett · 05/01/2023 13:53

Fish in a fucking barrel, this thread.

It does prove a PP's point about how poor, unsophisticated and easily disprovable Russian propaganda is, though.

I think they get the checklist

DanseAvecLesLoups · 05/01/2023 13:57

YeezyPeasy · 05/01/2023 13:44

Even many Ukrainians don’t see the point of standing and fighting and have chosen the option to flee: www.thejc.com/news/news/an-exodus-for-our-times-the-jews-fleeing-ukraine-for-israel-2wiBIo0R1yvriVQHtXJqZe?reloadTime=1672531200010

Even more Russian jews have fled to Israel since the war began. What are they feeling from?

JassyRadlett · 05/01/2023 13:53

Fish in a fucking barrel, this thread.

It does prove a PP's point about how poor, unsophisticated and easily disprovable Russian propaganda is, though.

Autumnnewname · 05/01/2023 13:53

YeezyPeasy · 05/01/2023 13:44

Even many Ukrainians don’t see the point of standing and fighting and have chosen the option to flee: www.thejc.com/news/news/an-exodus-for-our-times-the-jews-fleeing-ukraine-for-israel-2wiBIo0R1yvriVQHtXJqZe?reloadTime=1672531200010

If this is meant to be a gotcha, then it's fallen short of the mark
Grin

SirMingeALot · 05/01/2023 13:53

SleeplessInEngland · 05/01/2023 13:50

Can't aruge with bot logic.

I suppose it must be much harder to get the staff in Russia now, what with so many of them having been fed into Putin's meat grinder.

JassyRadlett · 05/01/2023 13:53

overworkedovertaxed · 05/01/2023 13:42

"Mr Putin made this decision around Crimea and Ukraine, not because of some grand strategy but essentially because he was caught off-balance by the protests in the Maidan and Yanukovich then fleeing after we had brokered a deal to transition power in Ukraine"

You can watch it here:

Contemporary sources are your friend here in understanding exactly what deal Obama was talking about and who was party to it. Rather than relying on Mr Lavrov's reinterpretations of history.

Politico link

So, do you believe Vladimir Lukin was an Obama puppet at the time?

SleeplessInEngland · 05/01/2023 13:50

SirMingeALot · 05/01/2023 13:47

Are you quite sure that people fleeing the invading Russian forces is a point in your favour here?

Can't aruge with bot logic.

JassyRadlett · 05/01/2023 13:49

overworkedovertaxed · 05/01/2023 13:42

"Mr Putin made this decision around Crimea and Ukraine, not because of some grand strategy but essentially because he was caught off-balance by the protests in the Maidan and Yanukovich then fleeing after we had brokered a deal to transition power in Ukraine"

You can watch it here:

Yes, and I've shared his administration's statement about that interview including who 'we' referred to.

It's no kind of smoking gun that Euromaidan was orchestrated by the US.

DuchessofSandwich · 05/01/2023 13:48

I think you're missing the point a bit. It's not precisely that there is a war between Ukraine and Russua only. That's just the diplomatic version to hold a full scale nuclear war off. Actually there is a war/power struggle between Europe (including the UK) and Russia and the battle field is Ukraine. If Europe loses then Russia will invade every European country one by one.

Now you know that, do you understand why we need to send all we've got to Ukraine?

SirMingeALot · 05/01/2023 13:47

YeezyPeasy · 05/01/2023 13:44

Even many Ukrainians don’t see the point of standing and fighting and have chosen the option to flee: www.thejc.com/news/news/an-exodus-for-our-times-the-jews-fleeing-ukraine-for-israel-2wiBIo0R1yvriVQHtXJqZe?reloadTime=1672531200010

Are you quite sure that people fleeing the invading Russian forces is a point in your favour here?

YeezyPeasy · 05/01/2023 13:44

Even many Ukrainians don’t see the point of standing and fighting and have chosen the option to flee: www.thejc.com/news/news/an-exodus-for-our-times-the-jews-fleeing-ukraine-for-israel-2wiBIo0R1yvriVQHtXJqZe?reloadTime=1672531200010

overworkedovertaxed · 05/01/2023 13:42

JassyRadlett · 05/01/2023 13:24

Could we have nonpartisan sources please? Do you have the full text of what Obama actually said?

"Mr Putin made this decision around Crimea and Ukraine, not because of some grand strategy but essentially because he was caught off-balance by the protests in the Maidan and Yanukovich then fleeing after we had brokered a deal to transition power in Ukraine"

You can watch it here:

jannier · 05/01/2023 13:42

I wonder if the op originated in Russia

xogossipgirlxo · 05/01/2023 13:36

I agree we can't afford it anymore, but we also can't afford letting Russia win. It's cruel country. Did enough damage through the years.

SleeplessInEngland · 05/01/2023 13:35

The attitude to dismiss 30% of the voters who disagree with you as bots/directed by foreigners/idiots is a repeat pattern. this is EXACTLY what has happened to the 52% who voted for brexit

This is not the great argument for listening to cranks that you think it is.

SirMingeALot · 05/01/2023 13:35

Pothoswithasparkle · 05/01/2023 13:20

Russia is such a saviour.
Ukraine from nazis. Czechoslovakia from western liberals...

Quite. Unfortunately for Russia apologists, the exiled former Chief Rabbi of Moscow has some inconvenient observations to share on neo Nazism and the relative positions of Jewish people in Ukraine and Russia.

www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/world/2022/dec/30/exiled-chief-rabbi-jews-should-leave-russia-while-they-can-pinchas-goldschmidt-war-ukraine

The bots know best, though.

Saysomething1234 · 05/01/2023 13:31

DesdamonasHandkerchief · 05/01/2023 12:28

30% of those voting agree with me. are 30% of MN population russian bots?

Possibly not - but certainly all the Russian bots active on MN will have voted with you, and have probably been directed to do so, from all their active accounts to add to the numbers. It's also interesting to see that many of your more vociferous supporters have little to no posting history.
It must be depressing to find that 70% of voters and 95% of those commenting disagree with your OP.

The attitude to dismiss 30% of the voters who disagree with you as bots/directed by foreigners/idiots is a repeat pattern. this is EXACTLY what has happened to the 52% who voted for brexit

People can have differing opinions. does not invalidate their existence

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JassyRadlett · 05/01/2023 13:31

I mean bless the RPI, they waited a full day before regurgitating Lavrov's talking points.

Obama administration response to Lavrov's claims (via RFE):

In Washington, the Obama administration reacted to Lavrov's statement on February 2 by saying that Russia is pushing a “revisionist narrative of the crisis in Ukraine” that is “deeply troubling, but utterly unconvincing.”

A senior administration official told RFE/RL that Obama’s remarks referred to U.S. efforts to help resolve the crisis in the run-up to a February 21, 2014 deal signed by Yanukovych and what was then Ukraine's opposition.

The agreement, brokered by three EU diplomats, called for the creation of a national unity government, a presidential election by December 2014, and a return to an earlier Ukrainian constitution that would have curtailed Yanukovych’s powers.

The official said the United States worked with Yanukovych's government, Ukraine's opposition, and “other stakeholders to reach an agreement to put Ukraine back on track toward fulfilling the aspirations of the Ukrainian people for democracy, respect for human rights, European integration and long-term economic growth.”

The official said: “This effort included not just the United States but Russian and European government representatives as well."

DdraigGoch · 05/01/2023 13:26

Saysomething1234 · 04/01/2023 23:57

Your basis for supporting ukrainians is that you'd rather they die than your own relatives? i am glad you said it. nothing wrong with that logic. honesty is appreciated. i can see the rationale when it is not wrapped in the guise of morality.

Do you really think that the killing would stop if Ukrainians weren't armed? Did you see what those Russian butchers did to unarmed civilians in Bucha?

JassyRadlett · 05/01/2023 13:24

Could we have nonpartisan sources please? Do you have the full text of what Obama actually said?

JassyRadlett · 05/01/2023 13:23

Hont1986 · 05/01/2023 12:31

Ukraine has had enough of our taxpayer money. If Rishi wants to send some of his personal wealth, I won't stop him.

Ukraine didn't even exist as a country until about 30 years ago and the regions they want to claim back from Russia overwhelmingly voted to be part of Russia in multiple referendums. If Ukraine wants to be supported by the Western world, then they have to follow our democratic principles.

Well folks, we know one poster we can safely just ignore because they went that one step too far with the 'Ukraine didn't even exist...' trope. With that as the starting point, no reason to think that anything else won't also be lies - not even worth engaging as we'll just get more and more fiction in an attempt to obfuscate and confuse.

Pothoswithasparkle · 05/01/2023 13:20

Russia is such a saviour.
Ukraine from nazis. Czechoslovakia from western liberals...