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How do I tell DH that DD19 & BF18 want alone time

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Safarigiraffe · 04/01/2023 20:53

Hi DD19 & her BF18 want to start spending a bit more alone time together - basically when round here during the day to spend some time alone upstairs in her bedroom like at her bf house. DH did say before he felt uncomfortable with that but I do want to tell him they want to spend time together in her room as well as downstairs but not sure how to say it to him as he’s overprotective in his ways.

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Safarigiraffe · 04/01/2023 21:01

We have a through lounge area separate kitchen area

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Sunnydays0101 · 04/01/2023 21:00

I don’t actually think your DH is being particularly unreasonable. Is there a room downstairs they can hang out in, which doesn’t always have others in it ?

FindingMeno · 04/01/2023 20:56

Just tell him and he'll have to deal with it, or just tell them to do it if they want.
He's being a bit unreasonable I think!