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Am I an annoying patient?? GP / DOCTOR / NURSE QUESTION

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Sausagedog3 · 27/12/2022 23:14

I’ve had a problem with my skin for several years now. It started out of the blue and I had massive patches of weeping, oozing, scaly skin on my scalp, face and ears. I’ve posted about it before.

I’ve had countless appointments with the GP and nurses and everyone has been so nice and helpful, but I feel bad as I’ve taken up a lot of appointments. I was referred to dermatology but obviously with covid and waiting times it was around a year and a half and in that time I had countless appointments at the GP surgery because it kept flaring up again. We tried so many different antibiotic tablets, steroid creams, emollients and all sorts of shampoos and other things. We even tried antifungal tablets too. I tried hibiscrub, different elimination diets in case something in my diet was causing it, everything I could buy off the shelf. Some things helped initially but then it would just flare up again.

Once I was seen at dermatology (recently) they diagnosed it as psoriasis and gave me some stronger steroids which worked initially but then stopped. I’ve tried to get in contact with them to ask for another appointment as it’s flared up again but there’s a massive waiting list for appointments and understandably something like psoriasis isn’t urgent or as serious as other problems. I think I’m just supposed to go back to my GP again in the mean time. But I feel so embarrassed going back because I’m being that person who keeps coming back again and again. I’m also a massive over thinker and worry myself silly about nothing but I just felt so bad going back again and I didn’t want to be a frequent flyer that you always hear people talking about, but at the same time, it’s all flared up again and I’m really upset about it all. am I being a frequent flyer by going back again?

I could actually burst into tears- it’s all over the back of my head and my hair is literally soaked and tangled with liquid from the wet patches. It’s starting to move from my head to my neck and ears now too. I’m so worried because nothing seems to be helping it and I’ve followed all the instructions about applying the treatments. I just want it to stop 😢

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Ponderingwindow · 28/12/2022 16:04

severe skin problems are linked to higher rates of suicidal ideation and suicide. The constant itching and pain can lead to sleep deprivation and mental health problems.

Don’t feel guilty about advocating for yourself. Treating this issue before it gets worse means you may utilize fewer system resources overall.

there is a reason that my US insurance company pays for my ridiculously expensive biologics medication and it isn’t to be nice. It’s because the algorithms tell them that treating my skin condition properly will be cheaper than covering my care if my skin gets severely infected or I have a mental breakdown and end up on the psych ward.

OhYouBadBadKitten · 28/12/2022 15:54

Sausagedog3 · 27/12/2022 23:28

No, I wasn’t discharged, they said they would send out another appointment but understandably they’re really busy right now and it’s not an emergency so it will be a bit of a wait x

I would definitely phone the dermatology nurses. If you don't have their number, call the hospital switchboard and ask to get through. Dermatology are used to treatments not working or sudden flare ups, they aren't going to think badly of you and would, if they have the capacity, far rather treat you before it gets even worse.

SongforWhoever · 28/12/2022 14:26

Can your GP chase dermatology for an appointment? Sometimes hospitals take more notice of a GP saying something is serious than the patient.
Have you been to PALS to see if they can help with getting an appointment?

TiredandLate · 28/12/2022 14:21

Sorry you obviously know that but I don't understand why the gp isn't going down that route too.

TiredandLate · 28/12/2022 14:20

I saw your previous threads, I'm sorry things haven't improved. I'm no expert, only my own skin condition to go off, but surely the gp should be helping you treat these as open wounds rather than a typical psoriasis flare?? Mine was much less open and sore than yours and it took 6 months of daily treatment to get to a point it could be controlled with OTC meds, steroids and shampoos. You are still at square one and need to get the wounds healing before you can treat the cause, in my non expert opinion.

SunshineLollipopsRainbow · 28/12/2022 14:12

Capasal sorry. Stupid autocorrect

SunshineLollipopsRainbow · 28/12/2022 14:11

I have seborrhoeic dermatitis on my scalp and it looks like your picture, wet as well. I use capital therapeutic shampoo

wintersdreams · 28/12/2022 00:38

That sounds rough! I had a similar thing a few years ago and getting appointments with dermatology was like pulling teeth. My suggestion would be to be keep ringing dermatology secretaries to chase up appointments- don’t be afraid to be persistent! I think sometimes a lot of people don’t realise just how miserable and uncomfortable skin conditions can be. I did speak to my GP and they wrote a letter to the consultant asking them to see me asap so may be worth a shot too?

I ended up getting started on immunosuppressant injections in the end which have been an absolute god send- might be worth having a discussion about whether this would be a possibility for you. I’d also exhausted, tablets, light therapy, creams etc..

good luck x

user58202018484482910ugog19293843910 · 28/12/2022 00:24

My dad has that and has steroid injections and phototherapy.

He uses all the t gel, zinc, emollients under the sun and not yet found one that works.

Have you been swabbed/biopsied op? My dad has had that all done so he knows it's psoriasis but there's a condition linked to celiacs disease that can cause skin conditions.

Anceshywsj · 28/12/2022 00:23

Keep harassing dermatology is my advice. That looks so sore. I get guttate after a throat infection but I consider myself very lucky in that it goes away for a bit after four months or so. I end up covered head to toe in itchy spots. If it's itchy by advice would be a bath with apple cider vinegar (although it looks like yours are open wounds so probably not ideal but may help if they heal enough) or put a sock filled with oats in a bath. Dead sea salts are also something I've used and meant to be good. A lot of research points to gut health and a lacking of specific strains. I'm pretty certain ones is lactobacillus rhanasmos or something along those lines. A good probiotic could help maybe. There are biologics available for psoriasis, and UVB treatment. If finances allow could a UVB light be an option in the interim? I'm so sorry you're dealing with this. It's a vile disease and I can only tell you what I've learnt and offer virtual hugs.

UnicornsHaveDadsToo · 28/12/2022 00:23

Doctor married to another doctor here, and of further interest to you, with a best friend, yes, yet another doctor, with severe psoriasis and psoriatic arthritis.

I can assure you that you're NOT an annoying patient. Psoriasis can vary from mild and easy to treat to appallingly disabling and unresponsive all treatment, with everything in between. The more severely affected patients may need to be on heavy immunosuppressants and/or biological medicines which are usually monoclonal antibodies which modulate the immune system. The side effects and the cost of some of these can be pretty high so they need to follow a stepwise approach to treatment in accordance with NICE guidelines, local prescribing contracts etc, but not your primary and secondary care doctors will be desperately hoping to make you better. They'll be annoyed with the pathological processes, they'll be annoyed that your immune system isn't responding to the less destructive treatment, they'll be annoyed with themselves that they've failed to treat you, but they will NOT be annoyed with YOU. I can assure you of that from personal experience of being a doctor and treating patients.

Hope this helps settle your mind a little. 🙂

NestingSparrow · 28/12/2022 00:20

Dermatitis herpetiformis?

www.coeliac.org.uk/information-and-support/coeliac-disease/dermatitis-herpetiformis/

EllesB · 28/12/2022 00:18

Have they tried you on biologic medications (adalimumab or similar)? If not that’s what I’d be asking for as they tend to be very effective. I have a coworker with psoriasis that started on them and was fully clear in about two months.

They are expensive though. I’ve been out of the UK for a few years now so I’m not sure how the NHS is handling stuff like that. You might have to jump through some hoops and it’ll probably move at the usual snail-like pace of the NHS but it would be worth it.

Hotsweatymomspagetti · 28/12/2022 00:16

Have you tried any light therpy? Worked well with steroids. You will already know this but try not to stress the more stressed you are the worse it gets

NoSquirrels · 28/12/2022 00:13

It’s such a wait for dermatology (not complaining, I understand completely this isn’t life or death) and at the moment I can’t even rest my head on my pillow because my scalp is too painful.

You can’t sleep because you have treatment-resistant open wounds on your head. I’d say you need to make a greater fuss, to be honest. It’s not ‘just’ psoriasis.

SecretDoor · 28/12/2022 00:09

dermnetnz.org/topics/pityriasiform-seborrhoeide

Could be a severe form of seborrhoeic dermatitis. Try ketoconazole shampoo (nizoral is a brand) and do not use normal shampoos or soaps.
Consider topical steroids. Ask about oral antifungals - to be used for some weeks

catandcoffee · 28/12/2022 00:06

OP you must not feel guilty about using the service.
That skin condition needs expert help. Dont let them fob you off with just steroids.
Does water make your scalp worse ?

Karmakamelion · 28/12/2022 00:02

As a nurse I would definitely want you to keep coming back. We don't want you to be in pain and we don't know if you don't tell us. The "that" patients are the ones that kick off at you because their breathing is rubbish but carry on smoking 20 a day.... not someone who needs help and will listen to advice x

Onnabugeisha · 28/12/2022 00:00

Did dermatology send any scales off for testing? You might have both a bacterial and fungal skin infection going on. And it might not be the usual local ones in the British Isles but something you picked up on holiday. Even if it is psoriasis, an opportunistic bacterial/fungal infection could have taken hold. You really need them to run some tests. I’d call dermatology, tell them it’s gotten worse and try to book an appointment as soon as available.

BigMama32 · 27/12/2022 23:53

I would keep harassing the dermatology department, call to get an email address. From experience you’re much more likely to get a response.
GP is going to limited in why they can do for you for your psoriasis but may be able to offer something to help you get a restful nights sleep or manage the pain adequately. A re-referral can be done if you had been discharged from dermatology already.

RobertaFirmino · 27/12/2022 23:41

There is a lot more that can be done for psoriasis and you might even need DMARD or biologic treatment. The GP cant prescribe this, it has to be done by a specialist. Your poor scalp looks so sore and you shouldn't have to suffer like this. May I ask, do you get aches/pains in any of your joints at all or any nail irregularities? It's just that a rheumatologist might be of more use to you than dermatolgy right now.

In any case, you really must book another doc appointment asap. You aren't wasting anyone's time at all and you are NOT being a pain. You are in an active flare and it mustn't be dismissed or ignored.

Sausagedog3 · 27/12/2022 23:39

Wowzel · 27/12/2022 23:36

Contact your dermatology consultants secretary and see if they can sneak you into a cancellation appointment

I’ll definitely do that! I was already on the cancellation list but I’ll call tomorrow and see if there’s any cancelled appointments with all the bugs and flu going about right now, maybe some people have had to cancel. Thanks x

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Sausagedog3 · 27/12/2022 23:37

sausage767 · 27/12/2022 23:34

I’m going to go against the grain here. I assume your GP has exhausted all treatment suggestions for you, without being a specialist derm. I’m not sure what more your GP can do for you. If you need refills of things already prescribed, definitely pursue that. But I don’t think your GP is going to be able to suggest new treatment options for you.

No I actually know what you mean. Part of me was thinking the same thing- I don’t know what I want then or expect them to do😟they’ve already been really helpful with it all. I just don’t know what else to do. It’s such a wait for dermatology (not complaining, I understand completely this isn’t life or death) and at the moment I can’t even rest my head on my pillow because my scalp is too painful. I probably just need to be patient and wait for the appointment but I guess I just hoped something might help in the meantime but I was scared of being annoying/frequent flyer by going back to the gp for it x

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Wowzel · 27/12/2022 23:36

Contact your dermatology consultants secretary and see if they can sneak you into a cancellation appointment