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To hate fireworks and those who set them off

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Sallyh87 · 24/10/2022 22:10

I had just gotten my two year old who is a very bad sleeper and is sleep regressing down and suddenly very loud fireworks start which of course wakes her up.

I am so tired I am ready to cry.

9.30 on a Monday night, it’s not Mardi Gras! Surely they have jobs to go to in the morning.

Also, I don’t have one but I feel sorry for the dogs as well, the fireworks must scare them!

Anyway writing that down made me feel better.

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gogohmm · 25/10/2022 09:17

To those who smugly are saying their dogs aren't frightened by fireworks, mine wasn't either until he developed a disability I suppose, like arthritis, and he's now afraid of his own shadow.

Having legislation that bans fireworks after a certain time of day and only allows them on certain dates in private settings would be an appropriate option - outside of those dates you would need a licence (eg for outdoor concerts)

Brefugee · 25/10/2022 08:24

OP is allowed to feel stressed that her child who isn’t the best sleeper has been woken up by fireworks when she feels on the verge of tears herself as she’s so tired.

OP also came back when it was explained about Diwali and wished people happy Diwali, so posters painting her as the grumpy posessor of a PFB should do one.

There are many and various reasons, not least my ex-colleagues with PTSD, that fireworks should be a) only used by licensed people and b) silent. Both these things are possible.

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 25/10/2022 08:21

Don't then. I'll manage.

Glitteratitar · 25/10/2022 08:19

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 25/10/2022 08:18

Ok, so a dog chased you, fine.

And what have horses done to you? They suffer too, do they deserve it?

Not going to engage with someone who makes such mockery of something as serious as two children being chased by a dog and the dog lunging at and attacking one of us. Your attitude is disgusting and you should be ashamed.

Fairislefandango · 25/10/2022 08:18

I love fireworks. I've always had dogs and cats and none of them have ever been bothered by them, but I realise that some are. I do agree that limiting firework sales to public displays would be a good idea (mostly from a safety pov).

I agree that things shouldn't be banned just because some people don't ike them, but steps can be taken to reduce the impact, such as limit to official displays.

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 25/10/2022 08:18

Glitteratitar · 25/10/2022 08:14

Wow, just wow. What a way to show compassion to someone who revealed a traumatic childhood experience, which explains their position on dogs.

Shame on you. Shame on you.

Ok, so a dog chased you, fine.

And what have horses done to you? They suffer too, do they deserve it?

BitOutOfPractice · 25/10/2022 08:15

I do agree that dog owners (a large majority of them) have absolutely no conception and certainly no consideration that not everyone loves dogs and wants them everywhere they go: work, shops, restaurants, everywhere.

I don’t mind dogs and I certainly don’t like to think of them being scared. But I don’t want one sniffing up me when I’m in a shop, barking while I’m making a work call in the office, jumping up in the park, or sitting up on their owners lap next to me in a cafe, all of which has happened to me in the last week. The lack of consideration goes both ways.

MrsR87 · 25/10/2022 08:14

I dislike them a lot more now that I used to. Having them going off until 11pm isn’t great when you’ve got 2 DC under 2.

I am not sure a blanket ban is the way to go as this would probably just encourage illegal activity.

I would like to see some kind of legislation brought in that limits the amount of days they can be used and limits their usage to people who have a licence. I have seen so many unsafe practices when they are set off in people's homes, often by someone whom has consumed alcohol.

Glitteratitar · 25/10/2022 08:14

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 25/10/2022 08:11

And you hate all of them? And you dislike wildlife because a squirrel stole your sandwich once? Or did a blue tit look at you in a funny way last Wednesday?

Enjoy hating, if that makes you happy!

Wow, just wow. What a way to show compassion to someone who revealed a traumatic childhood experience, which explains their position on dogs.

Shame on you. Shame on you.

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 25/10/2022 08:11

Glitteratitar · 25/10/2022 08:08

Well when you’ve been chased by a dog and seen your best friend attacked by one, leaving her with scars on her leg to this day, I think it’s understandable?

And you hate all of them? And you dislike wildlife because a squirrel stole your sandwich once? Or did a blue tit look at you in a funny way last Wednesday?

Enjoy hating, if that makes you happy!

BitOutOfPractice · 25/10/2022 08:08

GuyMontag · 25/10/2022 00:43

Dogs make loads more noise than fireworks all day every day. At least fireworks don't shit on your lawn.

This is the very first comment on the trillion “I hate fireworks” threads I have seen on here and fb that has made me laugh so thank you!

Glitteratitar · 25/10/2022 08:08

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 25/10/2022 08:06

I have to say I feel sorry for someone whose happiness depends on not seeing dogs and wildlife.

Well when you’ve been chased by a dog and seen your best friend attacked by one, leaving her with scars on her leg to this day, I think it’s understandable?

Glitteratitar · 25/10/2022 08:07

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 25/10/2022 08:05

Ahem....

Here it is, what you wrote.

Dogs frighten me, and I’m not a fan of animals or wildlife. My happiness depends on not seeing them around. Why does my happiness and mental health not matter? Why is that ok?

Still can’t see where I said I hate wildlife and animals…

Read again.

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 25/10/2022 08:06

I have to say I feel sorry for someone whose happiness depends on not seeing dogs and wildlife.

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 25/10/2022 08:05

Glitteratitar · 25/10/2022 08:02

Maybe re-read what I actually wrote…?

Ahem....

Here it is, what you wrote.

Dogs frighten me, and I’m not a fan of animals or wildlife. My happiness depends on not seeing them around. Why does my happiness and mental health not matter? Why is that ok?

Glitteratitar · 25/10/2022 08:04

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 25/10/2022 07:40

Sorry, lost the quote. This is to the poster who wants dogs banned because they are scared of fireworks.

I don’t actually want dogs banned, although I do want them banned from shops and restaurants. There’s no
place for animals in places like that.

I was simply making the point that we can’t simply ban things just because we have an issue with it.

Wonnle · 25/10/2022 08:03

I hate the things and always have
They are basically explosives being sold with out much restriction on who can buy them , I can't go and buy a box of shotgun cartridges without the relevant licence

Glitteratitar · 25/10/2022 08:02

SimonaRazowska · 25/10/2022 07:43

That poster also hates all wildlife and animals, so I feel free to disregard her views

Maybe re-read what I actually wrote…?

SimonaRazowska · 25/10/2022 07:43

That poster also hates all wildlife and animals, so I feel free to disregard her views

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 25/10/2022 07:40

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 25/10/2022 06:56

What are your feelings on horses?

Sorry, lost the quote. This is to the poster who wants dogs banned because they are scared of fireworks.

SimonaRazowska · 25/10/2022 07:38

I hate fireworks too

we live rurally and they are so awful for local wildlife and all animals.

our village primary hosts a fireworks event every year, at the edge of the woods and fields. So far we have had horses escape in fright, running around the main road with one getting killed. The sheep in a panic, getting themselves all tangled in barbed wire, a couple of sheep died

local cats and dogs running away from home, getting killed on the road

it’s just horrible and I have not even included any affected humans here

Goodadvice1980 · 25/10/2022 07:34

YANBU. People can buy silent fireworks if they really want to litter the surrounding area with post-explosive debris and detritus.

Franticbutterfly · 25/10/2022 07:18

Going off around here after 11 last night. Think my dog has probably had a nervous breakdown. I just wish they stopped at 8 so he could have some peace.

Personally I would ban all domestic uses and just have the big displays done by trained professionals at set times!

corlan · 25/10/2022 07:11

They went on all bloody night here. I'd love to see the sale of fireworks banned unless you have a licence proving you're not a selfish twat who will set them off in the middle of the night 🤬

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 25/10/2022 06:56

What are your feelings on horses?

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