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School Trip to Morocco

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Goldsand · 17/10/2022 19:00

My DDs secondary school have just announced they will be doing a school trip in the next school year to Morocco for my daughters year.

It’s normally Iceland but they have changed it to Morocco this time.

A couple of other mums have said they won’t be sending their kids as they don’t think it’s safe to send their teen girls there.

Iv never been personally but I thought it was a safe country overall.

However, now I’m doubting myself …. I was going to agree to her going even though i think it’s steep as it’s over £1,000.

So…

YABU - It’s safe, don’t worry about it.
YANBU - I would never send my teen child there on a school trip.

OP posts:
MeetPi · 18/10/2022 00:38

Clymene · 17/10/2022 23:35

I'm very well travelled (not British) and I loved Marrakesh. There's a lot of racism on these boards. As well as a lot of teacher hate (people really expect teachers to pay to take a group of 13 year olds away?)

I don't think it's necessarily racist to state facts about what happened to others on trips there (ie. not opinion). You may not like what is being stated, but that doesn't mean it's racist. It's important to recognise that not all Moroccan men are being called unsavoury, just some.

Hobnobsandbroomstick · 18/10/2022 00:34

Clymene · 17/10/2022 23:35

I'm very well travelled (not British) and I loved Marrakesh. There's a lot of racism on these boards. As well as a lot of teacher hate (people really expect teachers to pay to take a group of 13 year olds away?)

It's not racist to think that it's a terrible idea to suggest taking a group of 13 year olds to Morocco on a trip. I'm remembering school trips myself when I was 13: we were allowed to wander off on our own for hours at a time, which would be a nightmare in the souk.

16/17 years maybe, but not 13 year olds.

AffIt · 18/10/2022 00:33

Absolutely not.

I've travelled and lived abroad extensively, including Latin America, South East / East Asia, the Indian subcontinent, the Middle East, North Africa etc and the only two places I have ever felt genuinely unsafe in were Cambodia (specifically Phnom Penh) and Morocco, especially (but not limited to) Marrakesh.

Also, £1k? And it's a state school? Realistically, how many people will be able to afford this?

Ellmau · 18/10/2022 00:32

I wouldn't.

I suspect a lot of other parents of DDs will think the same, which means far more boys at this school will get to go on a school trip.

I'd be asking the school if that is acceptable.

Agree with the PP who said they dropped Iceland because of the cost.

shinyshoes5566 · 18/10/2022 00:30

I wouldn't take a Year 8 trip to Morocco - girls or boys. They'd struggle with the food for a start and it's a big culture change regarding animal welfare etc. Year 11s maybe, but only if they're (very) good at French.

Justasec321 · 18/10/2022 00:26

Clymene · 17/10/2022 23:35

I'm very well travelled (not British) and I loved Marrakesh. There's a lot of racism on these boards. As well as a lot of teacher hate (people really expect teachers to pay to take a group of 13 year olds away?)

I am well travelled too but truly never experienced so much jaw dropping agression, sexual harrassment, and down right threatening behaviour in my life.

I went back many years later to try again with my dh. Same.

Appalling.

Proceed with caution.

ManAboutTown · 18/10/2022 00:21

@AnTeallach - went with a blonde girlfriend to Cairo about 30 years ago - we were mid 20s.

The amount of hassle she got on the streets was ridiculous although the worst offenders backed off after I threatened to belt a couple of them

MeetPi · 18/10/2022 00:19

My 16-year-old niece went on a school trip two years ago for two weeks. She enjoyed it, but had some dodgy experiences with men propositioning her and her friends everywhere they went (she was dressed appropriately, but that didn't stop them). Apparently she even had a few marriage proposals. She also became desperately ill at one stage with food poisoning. Other than those things, she loved Morocco!

GonnaGonnaGoing · 18/10/2022 00:15

@bridgetreilly

Get on to the Foreign Office now and tell them about your amazing safe experience. They'll have changed all the nonsense on there by the morning!

AnTeallach · 18/10/2022 00:15

We were there 6 yrs ago.

bridgetreilly · 18/10/2022 00:13

I went to Marrakech last month and was surprised by how safe I felt. No harassment, either from sellers or sexists. People I was with said it has improved massively in past 20 years. I would let her go. It is amazing!

AnTeallach · 18/10/2022 00:05

I took my 3 kids to Morocco when my son was 21 and two daughters were 16 and 18. The girls covered up in long skirts and baggy shirts and still had a ridiculous amount of hassle. One is blonde and blue-eyed and got really upset at men constantly taking photos of her on their phones, wherever we went. It got so bad at one point that the girls opted to stay in the riad one day, rather than face yet more hassle outside.

I'd been before when I was 20, with a blonde cousin, who'd also ended up being massively hassled. Though things had moved on, in that women were much more visible working as police officers, in banks, etc, in our experience they hadn't as far as the treatment of western women was concerned. Sad.

Downdaysoon · 18/10/2022 00:00

Clymene · 17/10/2022 23:35

I'm very well travelled (not British) and I loved Marrakesh. There's a lot of racism on these boards. As well as a lot of teacher hate (people really expect teachers to pay to take a group of 13 year olds away?)

I'm also well travelled, and really did not like Morocco due to the way I was spoken to and treated just because I did not have a penis. It does not mean some one is racist or not well travelled, to dislike a country.

AintNoPartyLikeANumber10Party · 18/10/2022 00:00

@Goldsand if you haven’t already, please read the Foreign Office advice - high likelihood of terrorist acts against Western tourists, possibility of politically motivated kidnap of tourists, dangerous roads with high fatalities, expectation that young women will dress and behave modestly yet still be harassed. And it’s an earthquake zone. For £1000 too.

www.gov.uk/foreign-travel-advice/morocco/safety-and-security

It would be an absolute no from me. If you are still not sure, ask to see the school’s risk assessment.

slummymummy35 · 17/10/2022 23:59

I went to Morocco on a school trip for 3 weeks when I was 17! Best time of my life and I ended up deciding to study Arabic at uni because of it! She will be fine x

GonnaGonnaGoing · 17/10/2022 23:58

Google Gov,Uk Morocco.
Read it
Print it out
Bring it the school
Ask The Fool who thought it would be a good idea for their thoughts
Write up their thoughts on how they are going to deal with the problems that are clearly described on the government website.
Circulate the government page and The Fool's responses to all Yr 8 parents.
Do not let your daughter go.

Downdaysoon · 17/10/2022 23:54

No way would I allow teachers to supervise my DD in Morocco. They would need eyes in the back of their heads to keep a group of young girls safe and secure there.

ManAboutTown · 17/10/2022 23:48

I've done a fair bit of business work in Morocco - everyone I met down there was really welcoming - the women who worked in our office dressed like Western European women and behaved like people in London.

This is at the top end of the working market though and like many Muslim countries the number of sleazy men hanging around would make me feel uncomfortable about letting my 13 year old daughter go on a school trip there.

I was in Casablanca which isn't a tourist destination like Marrakech but I imagine that would attract more bad people (particularly with drug scene and alleged child sex issues there)

For a grand I would knock this on the head although if it was 5 days trekking in the Atlas I would be much more inclined to let it go

As an aside one of my kids did a school trip to Iceland - loved the scenery but said the food was desperately bad

RewildingAmbridge · 17/10/2022 23:47

I was in my late twenties and with DH in Marrakech very modestly dressed, shoulders to ankles covered at all times and got groped by young men twice in three days, once right between my legs while I was using a cash point, DH was standing about ten feet away. Where are they staying and what's the itinerary? We drove down to Essaouira and that was much friendlier, the trek in the atlas mountains was amazing. The owners of the Riad we stayed in were wonderful hosts, but central Marrakech, I wouldn't go back.

MMAMPWGHAP · 17/10/2022 23:47

After all the diversity and inclusion education that goes on in schools today surely it should stick in the throat that the school has chosen to go to a country where homosexuality is ILLEGAL.

Hardly practising what they preach is it?

MightyOaks · 17/10/2022 23:45

@GCAcademic Ah of course, sorry, sleep deprived! 💤

Cherryblossoms85 · 17/10/2022 23:45

Meh, life isn't safe. She'll learn a lot and her teachers will be there the whole time.

GCAcademic · 17/10/2022 23:38

MightyOaks · 17/10/2022 23:37

Inclusive in what way?

I’m pretty sure that poster was being sarcastic.

MightyOaks · 17/10/2022 23:38

@Goldsand Could you offer to go with them? As a parent helper? That way you can chaperone

MightyOaks · 17/10/2022 23:37

Darbs76 · 17/10/2022 19:37

Our school sent a letter the other day for a trip to Tokyo, nearly 3k. Very inclusive!

Inclusive in what way?