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To ask for a handhold I feel so alone

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elm26 · 06/10/2022 23:21

I'm due to have a 6/7 week scan tomorrow after multiple miscarriages (double figures) and I've got period like cramps and bleeding.

I've been bleeding on and off for 2 weeks, no clots.

I feel so alone and I just want to cancel my scan in the morning. Time and time again I've sat in that waiting area, I've had to listen to the "I'm sorry" words, I've had to sit in the family room with a useless leaflet about miscarriage and a box of tissues.

I'm not religious but I could really do with some positive thoughts being put out there for me tonight, I'm not sure I can endure another loss 😢

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LifeandLemons40 · 27/05/2023 22:24

Awww, I've never seen the original post but this was so heart warming to see. Congrats OP, she's beautiful!!

BumpyaDaisyevna · 27/05/2023 21:13

Welcome little Tilly! You are a much loved and much wanted beautiful little girl!

MillyMolly74 · 26/05/2023 20:20

Congratulations 🌻💕

VicTommo · 26/05/2023 08:41

Aw! So cute! Congratulations 🎉

TheMousePipes · 25/05/2023 14:45

Aww, congratulations! She’s beautiful, an absolute peach! Enjoy your little family - it’s hard work but so so worth it!

Ladylalaboo1 · 24/05/2023 22:33

Omg 😍😍😍 she is a absolutely perfect. Congratulations I remember reading your very first post and knowing that anxiety you felt. It's all been worth it, she's so beautiful. Enjoy your wonderful newborn bubble xxxxx

pyjamalife · 24/05/2023 14:09

Best thread ever 🥲 congratulations a million times over!

Robyn847 · 24/05/2023 13:18

Most newborns look like Winston Churchill. But genuinely, she's so pretty! And I say that honestly as my own Neice looked like a grumpy old man until she was about 6 months old. 🤣

octoberfarm · 24/05/2023 13:01

Oh @elm26, she's beautiful! Huge congratulations. I'm so happy for you Flowers

OooohKeepYourKnickersOn · 24/05/2023 11:06

Beautiful! Congratulations @elm26

mrlistersgelfbride · 24/05/2023 11:00

Huge congratulations! Tilly is perfect, welcome to the world beautiful 💝😊

Whiskeypowers · 24/05/2023 10:05

What a lovely happy ending. So pleased for you. Welcome to the world Tilly. She is a beautiful baby 💖

Monsterpage · 23/05/2023 21:45

Ahhhhh congratulations x

Rainbowx · 23/05/2023 21:43

Congratulations she's beautiful and love the name ❤️

saoirse31 · 23/05/2023 21:42

Congratulations to you and your partner on your beautiful little girl, and wishing you and your family all the best of luck in the future. A fantastic thread to read.

loveyouradvice · 23/05/2023 21:26

This is the most heartwarming thread.... She is beautiful!! Congratulations and enjoy... I am so happy for you

wizzler · 23/05/2023 21:02

Congratulations.. so happy for you all. What an uplifting thread

bloodywhitecat · 23/05/2023 20:21

Aww the BEST news of the week! Welcome Tilly and congratulations to your proud parents.

Waynettaaa · 23/05/2023 19:32

Congratulations to you all 🎊

Welcome to the world, Tilly 💗 x

ImHavingAnOldFriendForDinner · 23/05/2023 13:45

Huge congratulations! Like others I followed this from the beginning and as well as being shocked at how time has flown it’s so lovely to have a happy update. Tilly is beautiful, enjoy her ❤️

Yousee · 23/05/2023 12:54

I've been following this thread from the start, just waiting for the day a happy update would make my day, and she really has! What a beautiful, perfect girl you have! 🥰💐

Mumofthreeteenagers · 23/05/2023 11:40

H how wonderful! Beautiful outcome to a horribly worried pregnancy start. She is lovely. Well done you!

nettie434 · 23/05/2023 11:29

Absolutely wonderful news. Tilly Isabella (such sweet names) looks lovely. Congratulations to you both.

EscapeFromHubby · 23/05/2023 11:14

Congratulations 🎉. I'm so happy for you all at Tilly's safe arrival. She is absolutely gorgeous 💐🍾 xx

twoandcooplease · 23/05/2023 10:26

Welcome to the world beautiful Tilly Isabella 💕
Lovely update for the morning thank you op x
Enjoy all the sweet cuddles xx