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To ask for a handhold I feel so alone

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elm26 · 06/10/2022 23:21

I'm due to have a 6/7 week scan tomorrow after multiple miscarriages (double figures) and I've got period like cramps and bleeding.

I've been bleeding on and off for 2 weeks, no clots.

I feel so alone and I just want to cancel my scan in the morning. Time and time again I've sat in that waiting area, I've had to listen to the "I'm sorry" words, I've had to sit in the family room with a useless leaflet about miscarriage and a box of tissues.

I'm not religious but I could really do with some positive thoughts being put out there for me tonight, I'm not sure I can endure another loss 😢

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nettie434 · 24/08/2023 06:35

What a fantastic update! Tilly is absolutely lovely.

cathcath2 · 23/08/2023 23:47

Aww she is lovely x

Dontjudgeme101 · 23/08/2023 23:24

She’s so cute op. 🥰

CuriousMama · 23/08/2023 22:47

Oh she's scrumptious 😍

Newtrix · 23/08/2023 22:28

What a little beauty 😍

Purplebunnie · 23/08/2023 22:24

Aww she is absolutely gorgeous. Thank you for sharing her with us

FreezingThyme · 23/08/2023 21:35

What a beautiful, happy looking little girl. I’m so happy for you OP . Thanks for sharing.

thaegumathteth · 23/08/2023 21:12

She's adorable!

elm26 · 23/08/2023 20:57

Thanks everyone! I'm loving being her Mum, so magical after never thinking I'd be able to have children 🩷

Good luck @spiderlight!! 🤞🏻xx

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Americano75 · 23/08/2023 20:57

Ah, she's gorgeous! What a wee cracker.

spiderlight · 23/08/2023 20:44

Hello, smiler!! So adorable. That pic has cheered me up so much (pre-exam-results nerves!!) - it's lovely to hear that she's thriving! 💕

EscapeFromHubby · 23/08/2023 20:34

Thank you for sharing another update & pic of Tilly. She is beautiful ❤️

Adarajames · 23/08/2023 20:01

Awwwww 😍

twoandcooplease · 23/08/2023 19:59

Adorable @elm26 🩷🩷

TheMerryWidow1 · 23/08/2023 19:57

Oh she is so gorgeous x u lucky thing x enjoy every moment xx

Tillybobbins · 23/08/2023 19:28

What an absolutely beautiful little girl. Thank you for sharing a photo.
🩷

Pantsinthewash · 23/08/2023 19:24

Oh she's lovely, so glad to read your update.

Maharajah20 · 23/08/2023 19:09

Absolutely gorgeous 🥰
Thanks for showing us your beautiful daughter, its lovely to see happy endings x

ImHavingAnOldFriendForDinner · 23/08/2023 18:51

Oh my goodness she is beautiful! So lovely to see her, I hope you’re doing well x

elm26 · 23/08/2023 18:38

Hello everyone, thank you for the lovely messages of congratulations.

Tilly is thriving (after her cows milk intolerance was diagnosed) and she's just the happiest baby, so content and smiley.

Hope you're all well 😊

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MarthasMum30 · 01/06/2023 19:46

Absolutely over the moon for you.
Beautiful

Mammajay · 28/05/2023 22:20

Congratulations. What a beautiful baby girl.

LetsPlayShadowlands · 28/05/2023 22:18

Congratulations mama, she's adorable 💖

FreezingThyme · 28/05/2023 21:57

How beautiful is she . Many congratulations on the safe arrival of your longed for little one. Just wonderful news. So happy for you all.

ghostyslovesheets · 28/05/2023 19:38

Oh hello tiny Tilly - how beautiful you are! Congratulations OP - I've been on your journey - enjoy her - I'm so happy for you x

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