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To ask for a handhold I feel so alone

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elm26 · 06/10/2022 23:21

I'm due to have a 6/7 week scan tomorrow after multiple miscarriages (double figures) and I've got period like cramps and bleeding.

I've been bleeding on and off for 2 weeks, no clots.

I feel so alone and I just want to cancel my scan in the morning. Time and time again I've sat in that waiting area, I've had to listen to the "I'm sorry" words, I've had to sit in the family room with a useless leaflet about miscarriage and a box of tissues.

I'm not religious but I could really do with some positive thoughts being put out there for me tonight, I'm not sure I can endure another loss 😢

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Purplebunnie · 26/12/2023 08:17

Happy Christmas to you and your beautiful little family ❤

Adarajames · 26/12/2023 08:03

Awwwwwww 😍happy Christmas to you all op xxx

Ohthatsfabulousdarling · 25/12/2023 22:17

Aww, I've never seen your posts before, but I can well and truly understand where you were during your pregnancy.
I struggled for 13 odd years to have my son, he was born in April of 2022.

I love all of the pictures, what a lovely little thing she is!

I hope you had the most wonderful Christmas! This age is so so special, and it's a really big blessing to just enjoy them isn't it! After all it took to get here!! ♡♡

EscapeFromHubby · 25/12/2023 22:10

Happy First Christmas Tilly and family. Hope you had a lovely day 🎄🎅🎄

nettie434 · 25/12/2023 20:11

Thanks so much for posting this lovely update. All the photos are 💖💖but the one in the tartan dress is especially sweet. Hope you have all had a fantastic first Christmas.

Americano75 · 25/12/2023 20:05

Oh, look at that wee beauty.

ImHavingAnOldFriendForDinner · 25/12/2023 18:26

Oh my goodness she’s a little angel 😇 Merry Christmas 🎄

Elderflower14 · 25/12/2023 17:18

Rubyupbeat · 25/12/2023 17:05

A big handheld and positive vibes, I really hope all goes well for you x

Read the whole thread!!!!! 🙄🙄

Rubyupbeat · 25/12/2023 17:05

A big handheld and positive vibes, I really hope all goes well for you x

Jackie246 · 25/12/2023 16:54

Beyond gorgeous ♥️♥️♥️ a very merry Christmas 🎄

50plusandfabulous · 25/12/2023 16:49

Ah look at the little darling 🥰, hope you have had a lovely day

PriOn1 · 25/12/2023 16:43

Gorgeous! A very Merry Christmas to you!

elm26 · 25/12/2023 16:39

Merry Christmas Mumsnet Aunties! We hope you and your loved ones have a lovely day 🎄♥️

To ask for a handhold I feel so alone
To ask for a handhold I feel so alone
To ask for a handhold I feel so alone
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Tillybobbins · 23/11/2023 23:51

She’s the bee’s knees, OP! x

cathcath2 · 22/11/2023 23:03

She is so cute!

Whowhatwherewhenwhy1 · 16/11/2023 10:22

So glad you got your happy ending! She is delightful!

POTC · 16/11/2023 03:26

I also didn't spot the date of the OP when I started reading and had my heart in my mouth right up to the 16/11/22 post about having the scan the next morning. Then I was just confused as that is today's date but a time that hasn't happened yet 🤣
After that it was just a delight and a joy to see your updates and photos 😊

Ladylalaboo1 · 16/11/2023 03:07

She is such a beautiful baby 😍😍 love seeing the updates, and amazing to see how much you and your family are thriving!! Portugal looked lovely, my favourite place to go abroad ❤️

VicTommo · 14/11/2023 01:09

Gorgeous. Love seeing these photos 💕

Lochness1975 · 11/11/2023 07:43

She is perfect 🥰

Adarajames · 11/11/2023 04:10

She’s always so smiley! 💖Looking forward to the mega cute Christmas photos

Mulledwhynot · 11/11/2023 01:56

Absolutely adorable 🥹🥰 couldn't be happier for your beautiful family. I think this is my favourite Mumsnet thread.

PlipPlopChoo · 10/11/2023 23:39

Beautiful photos 😍

50plusandfabulous · 10/11/2023 22:34

What a cute little tinker 🥰 shes got an army of adoring MN aunties here ❤️

ghostyslovesheets · 10/11/2023 18:48

faSt ffs!!!