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To ask for a handhold I feel so alone

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elm26 · 06/10/2022 23:21

I'm due to have a 6/7 week scan tomorrow after multiple miscarriages (double figures) and I've got period like cramps and bleeding.

I've been bleeding on and off for 2 weeks, no clots.

I feel so alone and I just want to cancel my scan in the morning. Time and time again I've sat in that waiting area, I've had to listen to the "I'm sorry" words, I've had to sit in the family room with a useless leaflet about miscarriage and a box of tissues.

I'm not religious but I could really do with some positive thoughts being put out there for me tonight, I'm not sure I can endure another loss 😢

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spiderlight · 24/02/2024 16:25

Hello Tilly!! She's so cute - lovely to see her again 🥰

Maharajah20 · 23/02/2024 13:30

I loveeee this thread! From such a desperate beginning to the absolutely gorgeous Tilly. Thanks so much for continuing to share your beautiful daughter with us all. I love having all the updates and pictures. And I'm sure your story will bring hope to many when all may seem lost to them. 🥰

CoffeeLover90 · 20/02/2024 20:56

Such a lucky girl with the best parents. Bless her dog friend fetching his toys for her ❤ Amazing how quick the time passes. Soak it in @elm26 before you know it she'll be toddling into school. Keep enjoying every moment of happiness you deserve, with such a beautiful daughter. Sending you all my love, you're amazing.

Americano75 · 20/02/2024 20:55

I genuinely can't get over how cute she is.

Keira36 · 20/02/2024 20:32

Thank you so much for the wonderful update. She is adorable! 🥰

Purplebunnie · 20/02/2024 10:26

Aww she is so adorable. Thank you for sharing x

Iamnotalemming · 20/02/2024 08:03

Thanks for sharing! What a cutie. Now I'm broody too...

Candleabra · 20/02/2024 08:01

What a lovely thread. I hadn’t noticed the date on the OP so it’s great to see Tilly as she is now, she’s adorable, congratulations.

toucaninjapan · 20/02/2024 07:54

Awwwww so precious ❤️❤️❤️

FreezingThyme · 20/02/2024 06:27

Goodness me she is perfect. Tilly is one happy looking, smiley little girl. I’m so happy for you. Thank you for sharing ☺️.

Adarajames · 20/02/2024 01:16

Such a happy smiley little delight. I don’t have nieces / nephews, quite lovely to be an auntie if only on here

Loulovescake · 20/02/2024 01:12

Tilly is beautiful!
Congratulations! I've just come across this thread and I'm so pleased this sweet girl is here :) x

Chickenkeev · 20/02/2024 00:41

@elm26 she's absolutely gorgeous (making me broody, less of that 😂)

toomuchlaundry · 20/02/2024 00:34

So adorable

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elm26 · 20/02/2024 00:14

Hi MN Aunties!

Tilly is now 9 months, she crawls but only backwards 😂 she LOVES her food and is a total fruit monster, she can say "mum" "dad" and "Ted" (our dogs name) and she's just the happiest, sweetest baby ☺️ she loves books, especially ones with the different textures in that she can feel and she gets the giggles when Ted brings her his toys.

Hope you are all well!

To ask for a handhold I feel so alone
To ask for a handhold I feel so alone
To ask for a handhold I feel so alone
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DoubleTime · 30/12/2023 06:52

What an amazing thread ! Merry Christmas

Silene · 30/12/2023 05:33

All your aunties have had so much joy in your safe arrival, and you aresuch a beautiful girl. Happy Christmas time and a happy year!xxx

VicTommo · 29/12/2023 19:29

Happy (belated) Christmas. What a poppet 💕

Mulledwhynot · 29/12/2023 15:41

Merry Christmas lovely girl 💓💓💓💓

NalafromtheLionKing · 26/12/2023 09:45

Happy Christmas @elm26 and Tilly 🎅

AliTheMinx · 26/12/2023 09:39

So wonderful! She's beyond adorable. Suxh a happy ending. Im so pleased. I remember those scary early scans after loss too. Currently cuddled up with my one-who-made-it now xx

Lochness1975 · 26/12/2023 09:37

Merry Christmas! She is growing up so fast! 🥰

MyLibrarywasdukedomlargeenough · 26/12/2023 09:35

Thanks for updating, I have never posted before but have followed your thread and was delighted to see those Christmas Day pictures.

EdinGirl · 26/12/2023 09:27

Merry Christmas!

She is beautiful and this thread made me cry tears of happiness for you.
Enjoy every second 🥰

Thank you for the very special and delightful updates 💗

Maharajah20 · 26/12/2023 09:05

Gorgeous pictures, gorgeous girl! 🥰