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To ask for a handhold I feel so alone

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elm26 · 06/10/2022 23:21

I'm due to have a 6/7 week scan tomorrow after multiple miscarriages (double figures) and I've got period like cramps and bleeding.

I've been bleeding on and off for 2 weeks, no clots.

I feel so alone and I just want to cancel my scan in the morning. Time and time again I've sat in that waiting area, I've had to listen to the "I'm sorry" words, I've had to sit in the family room with a useless leaflet about miscarriage and a box of tissues.

I'm not religious but I could really do with some positive thoughts being put out there for me tonight, I'm not sure I can endure another loss 😢

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Purplebunnie · 24/05/2024 18:20

Happy Birthday Tilly and thank your mom for keeping us updated on your progress.

Love and hugs xx

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elm26 · 24/05/2024 08:38

ghostyslovesheets · 23/05/2024 23:09

Aww happy birthday little love ❤️

it’s my birthday in an hour - 54! I hope you enjoyed your first of many x

Happy birthday! 🥳 have a lovely day xx

Thanks everyone for the lovely messages! X

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Mummyoflittledragon · 24/05/2024 00:07

Oh my happy birthday lovely girl. Xxx

It’s so brilliant to still be getting updates elm. Smile

Halfheadhighlights · 23/05/2024 23:58

elm26 · 23/05/2024 22:21

Our beautiful girl turned 1 yesterday, it's never lost on me how lucky we are to have her 🩷

We went swimming, for lunch and to soft play and she had the best day.

We've also just got back from a lovely week in Devon and we are off to Spain in a couple of weeks.

I never thought this would be my life, I'm so grateful every day xx

Happy birthday beautiful girl ❤️❤️❤️

112orbust · 23/05/2024 23:52

Oh my - I wasn't around for the early part of your thread but popping in to say what a beautiful little girl you have. Happy Birthday Tilly x

spiderlight · 23/05/2024 23:46

Happy birthday Tilly!! 🥰

FreezingThyme · 23/05/2024 23:22

Happy birthday Tilly. What a cutie. She looks so impish and happy. So happy for you 🥰

Chickenkeev · 23/05/2024 23:17

She's absolutely beautiful 😍

SirenGirl · 23/05/2024 23:15

What a Lovely update

ghostyslovesheets · 23/05/2024 23:09

Aww happy birthday little love ❤️

it’s my birthday in an hour - 54! I hope you enjoyed your first of many x

Americano75 · 23/05/2024 22:55

Happy birthday Tilly! All the best girls are born in May. 😉

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elm26 · 23/05/2024 22:21

Our beautiful girl turned 1 yesterday, it's never lost on me how lucky we are to have her 🩷

We went swimming, for lunch and to soft play and she had the best day.

We've also just got back from a lovely week in Devon and we are off to Spain in a couple of weeks.

I never thought this would be my life, I'm so grateful every day xx

To ask for a handhold I feel so alone
To ask for a handhold I feel so alone
To ask for a handhold I feel so alone
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Bourbon75 · 29/02/2024 08:46

Wow just read your story and I'm crying! So so pleased for you, she is absolutely gorgeous. 😍😍😍

octoberfarm · 29/02/2024 03:12

What a happy looking little one ♥️ So, so happy that things have worked out for you, OP Flowers

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elm26 · 27/02/2024 08:11

Thank you MN aunties! So many kind words, they honestly bring tears to my eyes. She is so loved xxx

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WhenTheMusicFinallyStops · 27/02/2024 03:03

Absolutely beautiful little girl. So happy for you all xxx

Loachworks · 27/02/2024 02:55

I didn't realise you'd been updating as I've name-changed but glad you have. Amazing story, absolutely thrilled for you all, such a lovely post all round. x

nettie434 · 27/02/2024 00:05

It's so lovely to get your updates. Tilly seems to have got even more adorable in each photo!

ArchieStar · 25/02/2024 08:45

Oh I love updates like these!!! She is so beautiful 😍 congratulations again OP!!

Pantsinthewash · 25/02/2024 05:43

I want her!!!!

Pottedpalm · 24/02/2024 23:55

She is lovely! DiL is currently in labour with their first child, and our first grandchild. Feels very special 😍

cherish123 · 24/02/2024 23:27

Congratulations. She is lovely. What a lovely story. X

RandomMess · 24/02/2024 19:15

I remember your first post, it gives me joy that everything worked out, what a cutie 💕

MyLibrarywasdukedomlargeenough · 24/02/2024 19:14

Thanks for posting an update, what a cheery little soul.

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