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To ask for a handhold I feel so alone

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elm26 · 06/10/2022 23:21

I'm due to have a 6/7 week scan tomorrow after multiple miscarriages (double figures) and I've got period like cramps and bleeding.

I've been bleeding on and off for 2 weeks, no clots.

I feel so alone and I just want to cancel my scan in the morning. Time and time again I've sat in that waiting area, I've had to listen to the "I'm sorry" words, I've had to sit in the family room with a useless leaflet about miscarriage and a box of tissues.

I'm not religious but I could really do with some positive thoughts being put out there for me tonight, I'm not sure I can endure another loss 😢

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FlissyPaps · 06/10/2022 23:42

❤❤❤❤

Sending you lots of love and hope 💐

I wish there were answers and solutions to infertility. I have a very close friend experiencing the same. It’s heartbreaking. It’s unfair. Don’t lose hope x

Daisybuttercup12345 · 06/10/2022 23:41

Thinking of you xxx

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elm26 · 06/10/2022 23:38

Laid in bed sobbing, I forget how kind strangers can be sometimes. You're all amazing, thank you ♥️

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Ladylalaboo1 · 06/10/2022 23:37

Here to hand hold. Thinking of you and sending positive thoughts for tomorrow. You are incredibly brave Flowers

Nongatron · 06/10/2022 23:36

Sending you positive thoughts and good vibes. 💐

Heyisforhorses · 06/10/2022 23:36

Am here too, prayers and positive thoughts for you for tomorrow xxx

deeplybaffled · 06/10/2022 23:34

I’m sorry you are going through this. I’ll add my prayers and hopes that things are ok.

Whatsthemottowithyou · 06/10/2022 23:34

Big hand hold from me, will have everything crossed for you tomorrow xx

EmmaH2022 · 06/10/2022 23:34

I will hold your hand and put out all the positive thoughts for you.

thejadefish · 06/10/2022 23:33

Also here to offer support. You've been very brave to have kept trying after so many losses, not sure I could have. My mum said that she had bleeding for months when pregnant with my brother (hence she didn't realise she was pregnant at first), a friend of mine also had bleeding but ultimately safely delivered her little one (albeit a few weeks early). I would be scared too if I'd endured so much as you, but don't count yourself out yet. Hugs xx

Tittyfilarious81 · 06/10/2022 23:33

I'll hold your hand Flowers

Wherehasthecommonsensegone · 06/10/2022 23:31

Sending you a big hug and hand hold

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elm26 · 06/10/2022 23:31

Thank you so much @Doodledeedum and @ThreeblackCats ♥️

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elm26 · 06/10/2022 23:30

Thank you @HenryHooverIsMyDH and @Yellowrosesblue ♥️

NHS can't find any cause and I can't afford to go private so this is the last attempt. My heart cannot take anymore loss. If this isn't okay, I have to accept I'll never be a Mum.

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ThreeblackCats · 06/10/2022 23:30

A handhold from me too. 💐

Doodledeedum · 06/10/2022 23:29

I'm sorry for your losses. I'm going to do a small prayer for you and be thinking of you.... Flowers

Yellowrosesblue · 06/10/2022 23:28

A handhold from me. That must be very hard what you are going through.💐

HenryHooverIsMyDH · 06/10/2022 23:28

I’ll hold your hand - that sounds very traumatic. Have you had any investigations into what might be causing the miscarriages?