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To ask for a handhold I feel so alone

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elm26 · 06/10/2022 23:21

I'm due to have a 6/7 week scan tomorrow after multiple miscarriages (double figures) and I've got period like cramps and bleeding.

I've been bleeding on and off for 2 weeks, no clots.

I feel so alone and I just want to cancel my scan in the morning. Time and time again I've sat in that waiting area, I've had to listen to the "I'm sorry" words, I've had to sit in the family room with a useless leaflet about miscarriage and a box of tissues.

I'm not religious but I could really do with some positive thoughts being put out there for me tonight, I'm not sure I can endure another loss 😢

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Motomum23 · 01/08/2024 08:46

Amazing news! Your body knows how to do it - Tilly is the living incredibly cute proof of that. Keep strong xxx

forgotmypassagain · 01/08/2024 08:39

Fingers crossed for you!

Moomum123 · 01/08/2024 07:50

Sending positive vibes to you and your lovely family ❤️

NoSquirrels · 01/08/2024 07:34

How exciting! Reminds me of a trip to Spain with DC1 when I was just pregnant with DC2 - same age gap! I’ll send all the vibes your way.

Bluebellandpansies · 01/08/2024 07:00

OMG, so happy for you !!! Congrats on your new edition 😀

sparkles79 · 01/08/2024 05:23

Wonderful news! Many congratulations. Wow look how big she is 🥰

CoffeeLover90 · 01/08/2024 03:32

elm26 · 31/07/2024 20:56

Well aunties, I need another handhold 🙏🏻 found out I'm 4 weeks pregnant and need all the luck I can get ♥️ you all seemed to work some magic with Tilly 🥹

She's 14 months old now and walking. She is a fiercely independent, chatterbox who gives the cutest random kisses (dribble included) and loves to dance 🥰 she makes me so proud every day!

Here's some photos of Spain!

Hope you're all well x

She's gorgeous. Massive congratulations again. Sending positive thoughts and I'll look forward to the happy update. Because there will be one I'm sure.

Thunderpants88 · 31/07/2024 22:55

Oh my goodness what a beautiful and magical surprise! She is one absolutely GORGEOUS wee tinker tot 💕❤️ so delighted to hear of your delightful news! Your body did it once, it can do it again xx

Purplebunnie · 31/07/2024 22:46

Congratulations, what absolutely wonderful news.

Tilly is the most adorable little cutie pie

Sending love and hugs ❤️

BumpyaDaisyevna · 31/07/2024 22:45

Oh my word!

Happy birthday Tilly and absolutely everything crossed

Jb0011 · 31/07/2024 22:11

Congratulations 🎉 I've followed quietly since the beginning,and this is just the loveliest news ❤️

MaltipooMama · 31/07/2024 21:56

This is the first time I have ever come across this thread and my god has it made me emotional! I wish I had seen it at the time to offer you my prayers as well but I am so happy that you had the most beautiful baby girl, what an absolute little cutie!!!! This time around I would like to say I am sending you lots of prayers and good wishes and hoping that your second time around is as wonderful as the last!

50plusandfabulous · 31/07/2024 21:30

Oh my goodness yours blessings are coming in abundance at last 🙏🙏🙏 prayers and love to you .
Tilly is a little beauty you must be over the moon with her .
Take care of yourself ! ❤️ xx

Flossyts · 31/07/2024 21:00

I didn’t follow this from the beginning, but just ran through your posts as it came up on my feed. I am in tears! What a wonderful outcome - she is beautiful.

Londonrach1 · 31/07/2024 21:00

Wonderful news and love how Tilly has grown. Congratulations x

Tapsthemic · 31/07/2024 20:59

Ahhh that’s so wonderful - wishing you huge luck and love OP 🤞🤞🤞

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elm26 · 31/07/2024 20:56

Well aunties, I need another handhold 🙏🏻 found out I'm 4 weeks pregnant and need all the luck I can get ♥️ you all seemed to work some magic with Tilly 🥹

She's 14 months old now and walking. She is a fiercely independent, chatterbox who gives the cutest random kisses (dribble included) and loves to dance 🥰 she makes me so proud every day!

Here's some photos of Spain!

Hope you're all well x

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To ask for a handhold I feel so alone
To ask for a handhold I feel so alone
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Americano75 · 31/07/2024 20:56

Oh, that's amazing! Congratulations!

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slowquickstep · 30/05/2024 09:39

Happy birthday Tilly🎂

Happyddays · 30/05/2024 09:24

What a beautiful child. Absolutely dotey.

nettie434 · 30/05/2024 09:18

Belated Happy Birthday Tilly! The photos are lovely and it's great to see these updates. Glad everything is going so well for you all.

Adarajames · 25/05/2024 17:07

Wow, a whole year! Feels like nowhere near that long
belated Happy Birthday Tilly 🎂

50plusandfabulous · 24/05/2024 21:26

Just looked at your pictures again 😍 I once left my goddaughter unsupervised with a pot of sudocrem🙈 it wasn’t a great thing to come back into 😂😂

50plusandfabulous · 24/05/2024 21:24

Makes my heart happy she’s a little dolly 😍- so happy for you all x