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elm26 · 06/10/2022 23:21

I'm due to have a 6/7 week scan tomorrow after multiple miscarriages (double figures) and I've got period like cramps and bleeding.

I've been bleeding on and off for 2 weeks, no clots.

I feel so alone and I just want to cancel my scan in the morning. Time and time again I've sat in that waiting area, I've had to listen to the "I'm sorry" words, I've had to sit in the family room with a useless leaflet about miscarriage and a box of tissues.

I'm not religious but I could really do with some positive thoughts being put out there for me tonight, I'm not sure I can endure another loss 😢

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RainbowSlide · 20/10/2022 23:58

Good luck OP

DomPom47 · 20/10/2022 23:35

Sending healthy vibes, hope all goes well for you 💐

washingbasketqueen · 20/10/2022 23:27

Lovely news! Sending lots of positivity!

Keira36 · 20/10/2022 23:23

Sending positivity and sticky vibes your way Flowers
Keep on thinking those positive thoughts. All the very best xx

mamabear715 · 20/10/2022 22:58

Magic prayers coming up, @elm26 x

Dancingqueenwannabe · 20/10/2022 22:41

Sending positive thoughts and huge hugs xxxx

PinkButtercups · 20/10/2022 22:26

Oh bless you. It won't be much reassurance but just remember the statistics once you see a heartbeat ♥️. It's a scary time isn't it.

Thinking and sending positive things your way x

Wynston · 20/10/2022 22:22

sending positive vibes xxx

Purplebunnie · 20/10/2022 22:09

Positive vibes winging their way to you

bloodywhitecat · 20/10/2022 22:04

Sending positive things your way!

Booklover3 · 20/10/2022 21:58

Sending positive vibes lovely x

declutteringmymind · 20/10/2022 21:56

Sticky vibes!

elm26 · 20/10/2022 21:55

I'm going to need all you lovely people to say those magic prayers or good wishes again because I've got another scan in the morning and I am absolutely petrified! 😭

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Nongatron · 15/10/2022 16:42

@elm26 Just sending you the very best vibes for you and your sticky bean 💐

Panjandrum123 · 15/10/2022 16:19

Brilliant @elm26 wishing you all the best 🌹🌻

PinkButtercups · 14/10/2022 22:16

So precious ♥️

elm26 · 14/10/2022 20:40

I read your messages and just sob, you're all so kind and I'm so overwhelmed by the support ♥️

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Wayk · 14/10/2022 20:13

You have a beautiful lovely baby growing inside of you and all will be good. Best wishes.

Cherrysherbet · 14/10/2022 20:10

How wonderful! Keeping everything crossed for you op 🤞🏻

IAmAlreadyRegrettingMyGreyColourScheme · 14/10/2022 20:07

Wonderful update!

Hang on in there little bean ❤

FreezingThyme · 14/10/2022 19:35

How beautiful. Such wonderful news OP ❤️

FayeGovan · 14/10/2022 19:33

Brilliant news @elm26

Titterofwit · 14/10/2022 19:30

Keep growing little bean !

Melonymelony · 14/10/2022 19:27

Wonderful news OP!

shakeitoffshakeacocktail · 14/10/2022 19:12

Fantastic! Great news ❤️

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