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To ask for a handhold I feel so alone

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elm26 · 06/10/2022 23:21

I'm due to have a 6/7 week scan tomorrow after multiple miscarriages (double figures) and I've got period like cramps and bleeding.

I've been bleeding on and off for 2 weeks, no clots.

I feel so alone and I just want to cancel my scan in the morning. Time and time again I've sat in that waiting area, I've had to listen to the "I'm sorry" words, I've had to sit in the family room with a useless leaflet about miscarriage and a box of tissues.

I'm not religious but I could really do with some positive thoughts being put out there for me tonight, I'm not sure I can endure another loss 😢

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MovinOnUp · 21/10/2022 01:48

All the positive thoughts I have are being sent to you @elm26

2018SoFarSoGreat · 21/10/2022 01:39

Holding you and the little bean close in my heart. We're all rooting for you, and will be here for the update ❤️

froggybiby · 21/10/2022 01:15

Sending you big hugs xx I pray 🙏 it goes well. Have you got someone to come with you?

Bluebellandpansies · 21/10/2022 01:11

I am with you OP. Handhold.

maryd84 · 21/10/2022 01:11

Best wishes op

addler · 21/10/2022 01:05

Good luck op, I really hope there's a wriggly little tadpole in there Flowers

thaegumathteth · 21/10/2022 01:03

Best wishes OP

PickAnyName · 21/10/2022 00:52

Thinking of you. You are not alone.

Rainbowqueeen · 21/10/2022 00:51

Hoping all goes well

confusednewbie · 21/10/2022 00:47

Good luck

madamovaries · 21/10/2022 00:47

Sending you so much love and luck for this pregnancy.
I know you're not religious but I hope you don't mind if I say a prayer for you x

Salrose123 · 21/10/2022 00:45

Hope it all goes well for you xx

EmmaH2022 · 21/10/2022 00:43

sending all the love xx

MrsElijahMikaelson1 · 21/10/2022 00:43

💐

Panjandrum123 · 21/10/2022 00:43

Keeping everything crossed for you, sending lots of positive vibes. Hoping and wishing all goes well for you 🌺🌸

CherryIce · 21/10/2022 00:25

Wishing you luck Flowers

Perpop · 21/10/2022 00:24

Sending ❤️

wizzler · 21/10/2022 00:22

Sending positive thoughts

Eeksteek · 21/10/2022 00:18

Then you shall have them. Good luck and hang in there little one. Your mum loves you a lot!

Lonlov · 21/10/2022 00:10

Hope all goes well for your scan tomorrow. Got everything crossed for you!

Lonlov · 21/10/2022 00:09

Sorry! I missed your updates. Brilliant news! I'm thrilled for you xxxx

Lonlov · 21/10/2022 00:08

Hand hold. I'm so sorry you're going through this xxxx

Blueeyedgirl21 · 21/10/2022 00:02

I had a bad miscarriage in June then got pregnant again in August and I literally have never felt nerves and anxiety like it before scans. Then the relief after is amazing. I have my baby now. It will happen for you. Every single scan I had the nerves it never leaves you but you can get through it, just focus on yourself and your baby, every day is another step closer. I found breathing in for 8 through the nose, out through the mouth for 12, really helpful. I’m sending you so many good vibes wherever you are.

HikingforScenery · 21/10/2022 00:02

Praying for you x

LittleBrownRug · 21/10/2022 00:02

Best of luck for you and little one

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