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To ask for a handhold I feel so alone

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elm26 · 06/10/2022 23:21

I'm due to have a 6/7 week scan tomorrow after multiple miscarriages (double figures) and I've got period like cramps and bleeding.

I've been bleeding on and off for 2 weeks, no clots.

I feel so alone and I just want to cancel my scan in the morning. Time and time again I've sat in that waiting area, I've had to listen to the "I'm sorry" words, I've had to sit in the family room with a useless leaflet about miscarriage and a box of tissues.

I'm not religious but I could really do with some positive thoughts being put out there for me tonight, I'm not sure I can endure another loss 😢

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Peridot1 · 21/10/2022 08:36

Thinking of you this morning.

KnackeredHag · 21/10/2022 08:34

Prayers with you xx

Mummyoflittledragon · 21/10/2022 08:27

Sending love and positive vibes. Dd is an ivf baby after a few failed attempts. Am crossing everything for you. ❤️

CoffeeLover90 · 21/10/2022 08:25

Thinking of you this morning. Have everything crossed for you Flowers

procrastinatingleg · 21/10/2022 08:12

Good luck sweetheart

HoofWankingSpangleCunt · 21/10/2022 08:11

Thinking of you today Op and sending lots is positive vibes. I’ve got everything crossed for you.

user1498572889 · 21/10/2022 08:10

Good luck today xx

Sunshineandrainbow · 21/10/2022 08:09

Thinking of you op, all the very best for today

SeamsLegit · 21/10/2022 08:05

I wished upon a star for you, best of luck today xxx

latelydaydreams · 21/10/2022 08:02

Múltiple m/c’s here. I well remember the waiting for a scan- have absolutely everything crossed for you. Handhold for today.

CbCV · 21/10/2022 07:58

Thinking of you OP.

I'm keeping everything crossed for you xx

Shhhdontsay · 21/10/2022 07:53

Fingers, toes, arms, legs and eyes crossed for you today op ❤️

Sundayisworst · 21/10/2022 07:49

Good luck with your scan today. I’m thinking of you both.

Oysterbabe · 21/10/2022 07:48

Good luck. 🍀

Silene · 21/10/2022 07:36

Thinking of you, sending love and a handhold, and prayers for a good outcome xxxx you are brave and strong, and we are all thinking of you xxx

Dontjudgeme101 · 21/10/2022 07:33

Sending you positive vibes too. 💐💐💐

CuriousMama · 21/10/2022 07:28

Sending prayers and support x

Americano75 · 21/10/2022 07:27

Sending you all the positive vibes, hope it all goes well!

Thurst · 21/10/2022 07:22

All the positive vibes in the world coming from this direction xx

Dreamwhisper · 21/10/2022 06:51

I will also add my positive prayers, wishing you all the sticky baby dust xxxx

Maray1967 · 21/10/2022 06:51

Praying for you and sending best wishes. I know how hard it is to relax in pregnancy after losses- but a heartbeat and the right growth measurement are great signs. Hope all is well.

tirednewmumm · 21/10/2022 06:49

Just found this thread and adding love and good wishes to the pile. You're doing great op and I have so much respect for you persevering after such a rough time ❤️

kateandme · 21/10/2022 06:48

We are all still here op.
How have you been?
any cravings yet?
Have you any plans for the day after your scan?

Blue2021 · 21/10/2022 06:46

Sending lots of love and positive thoughts xx

MissCatLady · 21/10/2022 06:45

Sending lots of positive thoughts your way xx