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To ask for a handhold I feel so alone

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elm26 · 06/10/2022 23:21

I'm due to have a 6/7 week scan tomorrow after multiple miscarriages (double figures) and I've got period like cramps and bleeding.

I've been bleeding on and off for 2 weeks, no clots.

I feel so alone and I just want to cancel my scan in the morning. Time and time again I've sat in that waiting area, I've had to listen to the "I'm sorry" words, I've had to sit in the family room with a useless leaflet about miscarriage and a box of tissues.

I'm not religious but I could really do with some positive thoughts being put out there for me tonight, I'm not sure I can endure another loss 😢

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Mumofthreeteenagers · 31/10/2022 23:38

Oh i wish you that everything is ok and baby is just fine x. Huge hug to you x

thaegumathteth · 31/10/2022 23:19

♥️♥️♥️♥️

Maharajah20 · 31/10/2022 23:03

🙏🤞❤️

SeaGlassShining · 31/10/2022 23:02

Best wishes for tomorrow. Hope you manage some sleep tonight and that everything is fine. Fingers crossed for you OP xxxx

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elm26 · 31/10/2022 22:58

I'm back again and kindly ask for you amazing people to work all of your magic for me again.

Unexpected scan tomorrow due to back pain and my autoimmune disease kicking off!

I will update after my scan, thanks so much ♥️

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destiEos · 23/10/2022 00:00

Wonderful news, wishing you all the luck in the world! 💕

wizzler · 22/10/2022 08:03

Fantastic news Op. so pleased for you

PinkButtercups · 21/10/2022 23:58

Lovely news ♥️

user1498572889 · 21/10/2022 21:36

Excellent news. So happy for you ❤️

thaegumathteth · 21/10/2022 18:48

Lovely news OP 💕

mathanxiety · 21/10/2022 18:14

Lovely news!

I had progesterone after three successive MCs. It made me horrendously sick but the end result was worth it.

Wishing you well.

solania · 21/10/2022 18:12

I will keep you in my prayers, OP. Sending waves of light your way!

Keira36 · 21/10/2022 17:48

What a wonderful update! Tears of joy for you op. Wishing you all the luck in the world going forward ❤️

maryd84 · 21/10/2022 17:45

Great update op and lovely scan pic ❤

Silene · 21/10/2022 17:10

I'll be tucking you and baby bean in my prayers too, for everything good, and you're in all our hearts. x 😊

Purplebunnie · 21/10/2022 15:47

Wonderful news, so happy for you

CookPassBabtridge · 21/10/2022 14:13

♥️♥️

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elm26 · 21/10/2022 13:37

I'm crying again at all of your messages, I wish we could all meet in real life, I'd love to give all of you a cuddle and I'm not a cuddly person so must be hormones 😂

I know I said I'm not religious and I'm not but those of you that are praying, I do deeply appreciate it from the bottom of my heart ♥️

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octoberfarm · 21/10/2022 13:21

So very happy for you, OP. Congratulations!!!

alicewasahorse · 21/10/2022 13:15

Big lump in my throat following your update. So delighted for you.

CoffeeLover90 · 21/10/2022 13:03

Best update ever ❤

Breakfastofmilk · 21/10/2022 12:31

I'm so delighted for you! Crossing everything I have and sending every good thought that this little one keeps growing and healthy!

50plusandfabulous · 21/10/2022 12:18

Having a little cry here ! Amazing news .
I am a pray - er (I know you said you weren’t religious and nor do you need to be - I have my doubting days ) but I’ll pray and also send good vibes and thoughts for you.

so pleased you got good news this morning. X

JustDanceAddict · 21/10/2022 12:14

Great news!

Tallulah1972 · 21/10/2022 11:40

Your scan pics are beautiful! 💞
Hang on tight little one 💞