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To ask for a handhold I feel so alone

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elm26 · 06/10/2022 23:21

I'm due to have a 6/7 week scan tomorrow after multiple miscarriages (double figures) and I've got period like cramps and bleeding.

I've been bleeding on and off for 2 weeks, no clots.

I feel so alone and I just want to cancel my scan in the morning. Time and time again I've sat in that waiting area, I've had to listen to the "I'm sorry" words, I've had to sit in the family room with a useless leaflet about miscarriage and a box of tissues.

I'm not religious but I could really do with some positive thoughts being put out there for me tonight, I'm not sure I can endure another loss 😢

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Maharajah20 · 14/05/2025 23:25

Love your updates! Congratulations !

Tillybobbins · 14/05/2025 22:47

I often think of you, Tilly, your DH and Ted. Wonderful news of your pregnancy. x

Purplebunnie · 14/05/2025 21:47

Thank you for the lovely update. Looking forward to hearing all about Tilly meeting her brother. Love and hugs to you all xx

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elm26 · 14/05/2025 21:02

Hi everyone!

Tilly turns 2 next week and I just cannot believe it! I’m 23 weeks today with baby boy, seems to be flying by! Hope you’re all well and thanks for the kind replies as always ♥️

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Loachworks · 24/03/2025 11:18

Sorry for your loss. It's devastating. You have had the highest highs and the lowest lows and stay amazingly positive.. Tilly must be so excited. Wishing you all the best. xx

slowquickstep · 23/03/2025 17:18

Oh so lovely to hear Tilly is going to be a big Sister💖

50plusandfabulous · 23/03/2025 15:49

lovely update thanks ❤️

Purplebunnie · 23/03/2025 11:01

Thanks for the update on Tilly. Looking forward to hearing about Tilly's little brother. Love to you all xx

Mumofthreeteenagers · 23/03/2025 10:54

Wishing you so so much live and luck. Come on baby, hold in there. I love your updates. Love your baby xx

ImHavingAnOldFriendForDinner · 23/03/2025 10:23

I’m so sorry for the baby that you lost, that must have been heartbreaking again.

Huge congratulations on the baby boy, Tilly will adore her baby brother ♥️

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elm26 · 23/03/2025 10:19

Hi everyone!

I sadly lost our baby last year but I’m now 15 weeks pregnant with a baby boy who is healthy so far!

Tilly is amazing, she’s full of laughter, cheekiness, she talks ALOT (DH would say she’s like me 😂) and she has learned how to sign a few words. I’m always so proud of her.

Hope you’re all well! Lots of love ♥️

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babbi · 19/08/2024 06:12

Totally loving 🥰 all your updates.
Your daughter is adorable.
Good luck with her sibling
Take care xxx

LemonMead · 15/08/2024 12:08

Beautiful baby girl, OP! Sending you all the best vibes xx

toucaninjapan · 15/08/2024 12:00

Sending tons of good vibes your way❤️

spiderlight · 04/08/2024 01:00

Congratulations!! Tons of good thoughts heading your way. Tilly is utterly beautiful and she'll be an awesome big sister 💞

BookArt · 03/08/2024 06:22

I've just come across your post and I'm here crying! Your words just really resonated with me: I only had one miscarriage, the heartache, wanting so much to be a mum, autoimmune disease, the hope, joy, happiness, the love (even with slobber 😂). So happy for you, everything crossed and prayers said for your pregnancy.

Pantsinthewash · 03/08/2024 02:33

Hello you! Congratulations and thanks for sharing those photos of your daughter, it's wonderful to see how she's growing x

Tillybobbins · 02/08/2024 23:58

Huge congratulations OP! ❤️

OCDmama · 02/08/2024 22:33

Good luck! 🤞

FreezingThyme · 02/08/2024 21:43

Thats amazing news. Huge congratulations . I hope all goes well again. Tilly looks so independent and happy on her hols

BlimminCat · 02/08/2024 15:37

Your daughter looks a sweetheart. This is the first time I’ve seen this thread, and it’s lovely.
Good luck with your new pregnancy 💐

OliveWah · 02/08/2024 11:54

Wonderful news OP, HUGE congratulations to all of you! xx

Cherrysherbet · 02/08/2024 00:55

What a beautiful thread.

Your little girl is precious op
Good luck with your pregnancy.

nettie434 · 02/08/2024 00:39

That's such wonderful news. I have followed your thread from the beginning. Fingers crossed and all my best wishes that things work out for you this time too.

slowquickstep · 01/08/2024 21:29

Oh wow, what amazing news. Tilly will be an amazing big sister💜💛💚