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To ask for a handhold I feel so alone

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elm26 · 06/10/2022 23:21

I'm due to have a 6/7 week scan tomorrow after multiple miscarriages (double figures) and I've got period like cramps and bleeding.

I've been bleeding on and off for 2 weeks, no clots.

I feel so alone and I just want to cancel my scan in the morning. Time and time again I've sat in that waiting area, I've had to listen to the "I'm sorry" words, I've had to sit in the family room with a useless leaflet about miscarriage and a box of tissues.

I'm not religious but I could really do with some positive thoughts being put out there for me tonight, I'm not sure I can endure another loss 😢

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Therunecaster · 11/12/2022 15:59

Congratulations. I'm delighted for you x

Bumpsadaisie · 11/12/2022 15:47

I'm going to be in pieces when you're in labour @elm26 😂

Bumpsadaisie · 11/12/2022 15:46

Ah just checked back as a realised I didn't know the outcome and I suddenly felt very desperate to know all was ok!

So pleased that all is well - and a little girl! How wonderful.

So relieved and pleased. She is going to be the most loved little girl in the world, I know!

AnxieTeapot · 10/12/2022 20:54

Congratulations! 💓 So special xox

Riverr · 10/12/2022 15:21

Congratulations 🎊 💕💕

Dontjudgeme101 · 10/12/2022 09:37

Congratulations to you both. Enjoy your shopping trip. 💐💐

elm26 · 10/12/2022 09:18

Thank you so much everyone ♥️ you all hold a really special place in my heart.

We are over the moon, we would have been with any sex but it just feels really special. My partner sobbed when we opened the envelope, it was really special, just us two. She's going to be a daddy's girl that's for sure! Off to buy a little bit of pink today 🥰

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Silene · 10/12/2022 09:06

So many aunties here all sending love, great update!❤️❤️❤️💐💐

50plusandfabulous · 10/12/2022 07:02

Wonderful news, so so pleased for you ❤️

thaegumathteth · 10/12/2022 01:09

my photos are same on here OP I've no clue why.

Anyways massive congratulations!!!

declutteringmymind · 09/12/2022 23:12

Congratulations OP, hope you're not feeling so alone now with little one ❤️

Woahbodyforrrrm · 09/12/2022 23:11

Such wonderful news!! 💗

slowquickstep · 09/12/2022 22:56

Congratulationsx

Purpleavocado · 09/12/2022 22:43

Congratulations!! So happy for you 💓

CuriousMama · 09/12/2022 21:41

💕 Congratulations again. So happy for you 💕

CoffeeLover90 · 09/12/2022 21:31

Fantastic! Don't even care my guess was wrong. Absolutely over the moon for you. Its not letting me add emoji so pink heart

SeaGlassShining · 09/12/2022 21:29

Congratulations 💗 Best wishes OP xxx

babbi · 09/12/2022 21:12

Congratulations 💗- lovely news
take care and please keep us updated if you can .

WifeMotherWorker · 09/12/2022 21:05

Congratulations 💗

HoleyMoly · 09/12/2022 21:04

Congrats!! Goes to show that the skull theory is a load of bollocks Grin
Do keep us updated if you have the time Smile

typos · 09/12/2022 21:03

Fabulous news! Congratulations.

EscapeFromHubby · 09/12/2022 20:46

Aww congratulations!!

Ifeellikeateenageragain · 09/12/2022 18:29

elm26 · 09/12/2022 16:56

It's a girl!! 💕 Can't upload a photo as the app isn't bringing any recent photos up and all my pictures are jumbled for some reason!

Congratulations!! I'm so happy for you OP 😊

Purplebunnie · 09/12/2022 18:22

Aww congratulations. Must admit I've shed a tear. Very happy for you

EnoBaby · 09/12/2022 17:53

Congratulations!