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To ask for a handhold I feel so alone

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elm26 · 06/10/2022 23:21

I'm due to have a 6/7 week scan tomorrow after multiple miscarriages (double figures) and I've got period like cramps and bleeding.

I've been bleeding on and off for 2 weeks, no clots.

I feel so alone and I just want to cancel my scan in the morning. Time and time again I've sat in that waiting area, I've had to listen to the "I'm sorry" words, I've had to sit in the family room with a useless leaflet about miscarriage and a box of tissues.

I'm not religious but I could really do with some positive thoughts being put out there for me tonight, I'm not sure I can endure another loss 😢

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Summer2424 · 14/03/2023 03:41

@eelm26 yay!! So happy for you! 💕

Naddd · 14/03/2023 02:02

elm26 · 11/03/2023 21:59

Hi aunties!

4D scan today, it was very weird and I'm hoping she's not so squashed looking when she arrives 😂 we are doing well.

Lots of love to you all x

Just seen this thread! So glad for you, you'll have your little baby soon.
When i read your first post i did think your update after the scan wouldn't be good news.
Your update though how bloody amazing! And the ones since what wonderful news! Really chuffed for you!

kwetu · 14/03/2023 01:28

My heart goes out to you lovely, a hand hold and a hug from me. 💟

WhenTheMusicFinallyStops · 14/03/2023 01:08

Hope you're still doing well @elm26. Bet you can't wait to meet your little girl in May xxx

Tillybobbins · 13/03/2023 23:17

This is such a wonderful, uplifting journey which you’ve kindly shared with us OP. As a nanna, I’m sure you’re bringing lots of pleasure to the grandparents and send you every good wish. Do keep us updated.
💕

Silene · 13/03/2023 17:19

aw so beautiful! so thrilled for you all, a lovely thread xx💐💕

spiderlight · 13/03/2023 13:27

Oh, look at her little face! Thank you so much for sharing this. She looks as if she's deep in thought about something.

Butterlover1 · 13/03/2023 07:46

Her little nose 😍

BumpyaDaisyevna · 12/03/2023 12:57

Ah good! Every time I click I pray nothing has gone wrong and am always so relieved!

Beautiful girl!!!!

CuriousMama · 12/03/2023 10:20

Thanks for showing us your dd. Not long to go now 🙂💗

Purplebunnie · 12/03/2023 10:14

Oooh lovely to see the scan, thank you for sharing

gooseduckchicken · 12/03/2023 09:25

This is a lovely thread. Huge congratulations OP!

LargeQuarterPounderwithfries · 12/03/2023 09:13

Beautiful 💕💕 Thank you for sharing xx

Y7drama · 12/03/2023 09:10

Congratulations, so exciting to see your dd.

londonrach · 12/03/2023 07:21

Congratulations...vvv exciting.. keep updated

CoffeeLover90 · 12/03/2023 07:20

You've just reminded me, my friend had one and baby had hand over his face and clearly had two fingers up 😂 maybe they're camera shy?

CoffeeLover90 · 12/03/2023 07:17

Amazing 💓
Wish I'd gone for a 4D. They do look squashed though 😂
My DS was wrinkly as a new born, but with the most beautiful eyes I'd ever seen.
Not long now and she'll be here!

Maharajah20 · 11/03/2023 23:49

Lush! ❤️

FreezingThyme · 11/03/2023 23:49

How beautiful. I’m so happy for you seeing this precious picture and hear you’re doing well.

maddening · 11/03/2023 23:48

Awww what an amazing thread! Congratulations! X

MarthasMum30 · 11/03/2023 23:10

Gorgeous!!!!

kateandme · 11/03/2023 22:31

Woop!

MonkeypuzzleClimber · 11/03/2023 22:20

Lovely to see this happy news. What a beautiful treasure your daughter is ❤️

elm26 · 11/03/2023 21:59

Hi aunties!

4D scan today, it was very weird and I'm hoping she's not so squashed looking when she arrives 😂 we are doing well.

Lots of love to you all x

To ask for a handhold I feel so alone
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spiderlight · 13/01/2023 14:44

How lovely to see her again! Hello, beautiful girl! Glad everything's going so well.