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To ask for a handhold I feel so alone

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elm26 · 06/10/2022 23:21

I'm due to have a 6/7 week scan tomorrow after multiple miscarriages (double figures) and I've got period like cramps and bleeding.

I've been bleeding on and off for 2 weeks, no clots.

I feel so alone and I just want to cancel my scan in the morning. Time and time again I've sat in that waiting area, I've had to listen to the "I'm sorry" words, I've had to sit in the family room with a useless leaflet about miscarriage and a box of tissues.

I'm not religious but I could really do with some positive thoughts being put out there for me tonight, I'm not sure I can endure another loss 😢

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Dontjudgeme101 · 23/05/2023 05:58

Congratulations op, what a beautiful daughter. I love her name. ❤️

Triflenot · 23/05/2023 05:54

What a beautiful baby. Well done OP!

HarlanPepper · 23/05/2023 05:52

She's beautiful. Many congratulations xx

AWhaleSwamBy · 23/05/2023 05:45

I am so happy for you. I've been on this thread right from the beginning and commented under different names 😅

I bleed with two of my pregnancies which both turned out ok so I understood the worry.

Isabella is a beautiful name. Congratulations and thank you for the update. 🥰

latelydaydreams · 23/05/2023 02:37

She’s just gorgeous.

Massive Congratulations

DomPom47 · 23/05/2023 01:41

Wishing her a healthy and joyous life with you and the rest of the family.

Purplebunnie · 23/05/2023 00:20

So pleased for you Congratulations and welcome to Tilly

InAnyOtherLife · 23/05/2023 00:17

Wonderful news - she's beautiful! Congratulations <3

Klausnextmum · 23/05/2023 00:13

Congratulations. She’s beautiful 😍

pillsthrillsandbellyache · 23/05/2023 00:12

She is beautiful 😍 congratulations!

DC1214 · 23/05/2023 00:11

oh my goodness, she is just beautiful! Well done! xxx

Adarajames · 23/05/2023 00:09

Awwwwww!! 💖

cathcath2 · 23/05/2023 00:08

Awwww congratulations!

thisisasurvivor · 23/05/2023 00:08

Loveliest loveliest angel

My tummy just flipped 😘😘❤️❤️❤️

Thedogscollar · 23/05/2023 00:07

How perfect is she. Enjoy every second. 💖

Quantumphysicality · 23/05/2023 00:07

Wonderful news. Congratulations!!

IHateLegDay · 23/05/2023 00:04

Congratulations!!

IcakethereforeIam · 22/05/2023 23:59

What a sweetie, lovely names. Congratulations 🎊 💐 🥳 🍾

toomuchlaundry · 22/05/2023 23:55

Congratulations, she’s beautiful

notapizzaeater · 22/05/2023 23:54

Awww congratulations xx

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elm26 · 22/05/2023 23:48

Hello Aunties! 👋🏻

Tilly Isabella born at 02:16 22/05/23 weighing a dinky 5lb 15oz 🩷 we are so in love and can't believe we are finally Mum and Dad to this perfect girl.

I'm so grateful to you all for all of your kindness and support.

To ask for a handhold I feel so alone
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Adarajames · 14/03/2023 16:29

It’s lovely to be following a thread that’s so full of hope and happiness. Hope the rest of the pregnancy goes easily, we all look forward to meeting her soon 😍

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elm26 · 14/03/2023 10:14

You've all made me cry again! 😂

Thanks so much for the lovely comments, I'm so grateful and I feel like it's been such a journey to get to this stage that it's been so nice to share a bit with you all.

Lots of love to all of you xx

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nettie434 · 14/03/2023 07:05

I've never seen a 4D scan before. Your daughter looks amazing. Not too long to go now!

mathanxiety · 14/03/2023 03:48

Just look at her! Waiting for her moment.

xxxx

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