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elm26 · 06/10/2022 23:21

I'm due to have a 6/7 week scan tomorrow after multiple miscarriages (double figures) and I've got period like cramps and bleeding.

I've been bleeding on and off for 2 weeks, no clots.

I feel so alone and I just want to cancel my scan in the morning. Time and time again I've sat in that waiting area, I've had to listen to the "I'm sorry" words, I've had to sit in the family room with a useless leaflet about miscarriage and a box of tissues.

I'm not religious but I could really do with some positive thoughts being put out there for me tonight, I'm not sure I can endure another loss 😢

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Hecatoncheires · 23/05/2023 10:20

Congratulations! What a lovely update. Wishing you, your DH and your beautiful new baby girl every blessing for the future.

Outnumbered99 · 23/05/2023 10:16

BEST THREAD EVERRRRR!!!! Massive Congratulations to you @elm26 she looks utterly perfect. May your heart be forever full xx

Purpleavocado · 23/05/2023 10:07

What lovely news!! Congratulations 🎉👏🎉

Harveyballwanger · 23/05/2023 10:06

Huge Congratulations! I’ve been following your story. You’ve got a beautiful baby girl, lovely names too. Thank you for sharing. 💖

user1473878824 · 23/05/2023 09:59

Hi Tilly, aren’t you gorgeous and perfect! Congratulations @elm26!

Grrrpredictivetex · 23/05/2023 09:54

Congratulations mummy and daddy. Tilly is absolutely beautiful 🥰

Starsnspikes · 23/05/2023 09:40

Oh my goodness, I saw your other thread and had followed this one before, didn't realise it was you. I'm crying. So happy for you.

What a tough experience you've had to get her here, don't be surprised if you have all sorts of complicated emotions over the next few weeks or even months. Be kind to yourself and take each day at a time. She's beautiful and you've done an incredible job x

moonriverandme · 23/05/2023 09:36

Oh wonderful news. Congratulations to you both. She's beautiful. 💐💐

Theshortone · 23/05/2023 09:33

Congratulations!! 🎉🎉🎉

ArchieStar · 23/05/2023 09:31

Best update EVER 🥰

congratulations!!!!

spiderlight · 23/05/2023 09:29

Oh wow!! I was on your other thread but I didn't make the connection with this one. Even happier for you now!!

FromTheDepths · 23/05/2023 09:25

Welcome to the world, you beautiful girl. We have all been waiting to meet you, and you are well worth the wait!

Peridot1 · 23/05/2023 09:23

How lovely! Congratulations on your gorgeous Tilly Isabella!

(Now feeling very broody. 12 years post menopause.)

SparklyShoesandTutus · 23/05/2023 07:32

Huge congratulations. What lovely news to wake up to. Enjoy every moment as they pass so quickly, even the tough ones. X

CoffeeLover90 · 23/05/2023 07:22

elm26 · 22/05/2023 23:48

Hello Aunties! 👋🏻

Tilly Isabella born at 02:16 22/05/23 weighing a dinky 5lb 15oz 🩷 we are so in love and can't believe we are finally Mum and Dad to this perfect girl.

I'm so grateful to you all for all of your kindness and support.

Welcome to the world Isabella
Congratulations mum and dad, she is absolutely beautiful.
This has made my heart swell. I'm honestly so, so pleased for you.

50plusandfabulous · 23/05/2023 07:03

Amazing ! She’s so beautiful. Congratulations and lots of love x

MrsLargeEmbodied · 23/05/2023 06:32

congratulations, lovely baby

Blue2021 · 23/05/2023 06:16

Aww OP this has made my morning! She is beautiful! Congratulations xx

Satsuma2 · 23/05/2023 06:08

Congratulations, what wonderful news. Welcome Isabella.

IndiaRose22 · 23/05/2023 06:07

Congratulations!! Wonderful news xx

AliTheMinx · 23/05/2023 06:07

Wonderful, Wonderful news! What a peach. Huge congratulations xxxx

Therunecaster · 23/05/2023 06:04

Congratulations, beautiful baby x

baffledcoconut · 23/05/2023 06:00

Bloody love it when updates like
this happen 😍many congratulations

nonevernotever · 23/05/2023 05:59

What a beautiful daughter you have. Congratulations!

ohsopuzzled · 23/05/2023 05:58

Yay! Welcome to the world! Congrats!

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